Bakes Dilators

I received a set of these for Christmas. I find they are a nice, pleasant toy to play with for me. It is much easier to make the larger sizes go past the scar from my PA.

Bakes dilators, however, seem to be ideal for female urethral play. The more blunt shape of the small sizes works very well when inserted into the female urethra. We tried this on dear wife the other night and she found it enjoyable and easy to take.

Speed

I wanted to play with inserting something into my urethra, and I washed whatever it was (this was last summer) really well, but I got a bladder infection which made me fearful of trying it ever again. So I suppose I need to get serious and use sterile procedures, but how does being all careful and using gloves, etc, fit in with sex play? It seems a bit TOO clinical.

I liked the pain and after-ache of having my urethra stretched, but I really hated that infection, I was sick as a dog for days as I waited for the antibiotic to kick in.

So I suppose I need to get serious and use sterile procedures, but how does being all careful and using gloves, etc, fit in with sex play? It seems a bit TOO clinical.

Well happygal, serious and sterile procedures don't sit easily alongside sex play.

You have to make a straight choice - no compromises. You take a chance on a UTI or worse - or you play safe, learn sterile procedures using at least proper instruments - no screwdrivers and the like - a catheterisation pack to create a sterile field - sterile gloves preferably from the catheterisation pack and not from Walmart - AND, learn anatomy, at least that of the urethra.

For those that want trouble with the waterworks in future years - then improvise. But the sex play restrictions which would have been imposed by a safe and sterile regime will be as nothing compared to potentially serious issues.

Play nice - Play safe - Good wishes