How often do you have anal sex?

I like it at least once a week, but so far solo, my Wife thinks anal sex is a deviant behavior. We have tried it, and I thought I could win her over, she responded very favorably!

I've tried to unwind her preprogrammed mind , but I think it's better to leave people to their own beliefs .

She has threatened to shove a dildo up my ass to see how I would like it?

Well if she knew how much, I'm sure she would be convinced that I am a deviant.

Lol!

Not sure I want to confirm it yet.

Any thoughts?

My boyfriend and I have anal sex at least once a week. We both enjoy it very much. We often do it after he's given me an enema.

I like it at least once a week, but so far solo, my Wife thinks anal sex is a deviant behavior. We have tried it, and I thought I could win her over, she responded very favorably!

I've tried to unwind her preprogrammed mind , but I think it's better to leave people to their own beliefs .

She has threatened to shove a dildo up my ass to see how I would like it?

Well if she knew how much, I'm sure she would be convinced that I am a deviant.

Lol!

Not sure I want to confirm it yet.

Any thoughts?

Fuzzy Dog, you need to tell her you have been experimenting recently and you really like it.

Let her shove away with that dildo.

I'd say we average several times a month. I like to time our forays with my enemas earlier in the day so I can be clean back there. Before, we get started my DH always gives me a "lube enema" using an old Fleets bottle so I am good to go. I suppose you could call our adventures slick and sloppy, but it works for both of us!

Not nearly as much as I would like.

My wife and I used to have anal sex about once every fourth or fifth time we had sex. But even though she clearly enjoyed it a lot, she does have some mental block about it and so we always have to do it in a way that it is almost as if she can pretend we are not doing it. Kinda strange for me! Now, however, her sex drive has diminished to almost nothing, so anal sex has gone down the drain along with any other form of sex. But a few year back she would also occasionally take a dildo to me, about once a year for a few years. Not often, but still great fun when I could get some of that kind of action 😄

Not often enough, butt, I'm still teaching her what I love all so very much.

@ Buttholesurfer , once a week play with her ass , lube it and play to take her temperature with one finger, search her "G spot" , her "prostate!!!" with two fingers, be slow, soft, gentle, lubed, using such kid games / fantasies you will exercise her anal muscle to stay supple, and she will be less surprised when feeling a finger (first) up her ass.

Having a supple ass will be also more enjoyable for her.

Preparation begins never 2 minutes before .

I have anal sex daily, and at least twice a week with my wife LOL. She used to like getting it in the butt but now days prefers giving it to me with the strapon. While she is at work I like to warm up our cyberskined dildoe in the hottest water from the sink faucet. While it is heating up I give myself an enema. Its great to use warmed vasoline and a hot dildoe, so so slippery. She has come home before and caught me in the act. For some reason I get really embarrassed when this happens and then the fun esculates into a domme/submission play that leaves us both drained. Geez.....we are naughty.

My wife used to love it up the "back door" but as she entered menopause, and also diabetis, her sexual desires are almost non-existant. She even used to give me a "treatment" which was a sessions with the syringe and a happy ending, from time to time. Sex is almost non-existant in this house and I still have needs! Am I wrong for feeling this way?

I get anal about three or four times a month, sometimes more, but I give myself some play in between to hold me over til we do it again...

I've been getting it at least 3 times a month since I've been with Yowza. It's been fabulous. Mike/xenos and I usually have it when he's here but he hasn't been here for a few months due to family and work obligations. I have it with Jim every few years or so. His penis is pretty thick so it isn't an easy stretch.

I'm happy to hear you're getting your itches scratched Dianne. That is awesome you're enjoying it so often now.

Thanks, sugar. I'm glad, too. I had the most amazing time with Yowza/Jason on Thursday. An excellent massage, fingering and rimming, followed by vaginal sex then fingering my g-spot to orgasm. I was such a happy lady. We had anal sex on Tuesday. I would love it every time we get together but I also love vaginal sex and we don't always have time for both.

I hope your lady's libido gets revved up again soon but at least she has the perfect excuse for not having one. Until it comes back, feel free to live vicariously through me. I'll post pics when I can.

My anal sex fun may decrease for a while. Jason is having surgery next week. However, Mike plans on coming to town so you never know.

I'm going to another play party Saturday night. I'll let you know how it goes.

As often as possible :-)

We average about once a day, multiple times on weekends but only a few times during the week. It is a substitute for normal intercourse to avoid any pregnancy possibilities. We do it after our enemas and showers so we are both clean inside and out.

Mostly everytime i have s'exe with m'y boyfriend

Our normal play is oral then vaginal. Anal needs more preparation and we do it once in a while only, one way or the other (she pegs me). Let's say at least one time per month each way.

Not often enough.

Seems to be a special occasion thing with my wife.

Is the moon blue tonight?

We've been married for almost 20 yrs now and anal existed even before we got married (both ways, I liked veggies and dildos in my ass too), up until few years ago. She started saying that she doesn't like anal anymore (she used to say she likes it more than vaginal). Then came oral. Now she is only into vanilla sex not even including oral that drove me off having sex with her to a some extent. When I ask why she doen't want, she says "people change".

In good old days we used to share kinks, tried a good bit of kinky stuff including golden showers and enemas with her. I know it was nearly two decades ago but from there down to plain vanilla vaginal doesn't just seem fair to me. Yeah, I've changed too but in opposite direction, I'm kinkier than ever. In return what we have sexually together now is virtually non existent sex. Who knows maybe that helped bringing my bi side forward in the recent years...

Anyway the short answer is; with wife:not having, self using toys: 2-3 times a week, with another guy: no one at the moment...

I have anal sex with my husband every few days maybe every 2 weeks or so. I think it just depends on when we both get in the right mood to do it.

What KinkyGuy describes seems to be happening to me too. In the past few years the wife has really lost interest in anything but plain old missionary.

She was never into anal though but oral or different positions or locations used to be part of our reprotrair.

I seem to want to try more and more as I get older.

Never have. Mine belongs in a pussy.

Never have--my wife will not do it.

hankb

I've only done it a few special times but it was really special.

Quincy said,

Never have. Mine belongs in a pussy.

That's because you have never had it any other way. Trust me when I tell you, it's a whole different feeling. A great feeling.

Call me a naughty girl, but I love anal sex and I will take it every chance Doc wants to go there. LOL.

Mashie

It is an intense feeling, and not often enought

Not often enough lol

I definitely enjoy anal and I either insert a dildo or colon tube on a regular basis. My GF loves it too and I have been able to squirt her anally and she exploded with an orgasm and squirted a big puddle of cum juice.

Anal Sex -- never anymore. It was great when we were younger but my wife will not even talk about it now.