Trust me here, I have been doing this all my life. Most women that I meet are enema virgins, and a fair amount of them have NO prior anal desires whatsoever.
Here’s how I handle that. First, I get the girl highly aroused with normal seduction techniques. Then, I start with some ass play, typically some baby oil all over her ass, while I massage and squeeze her cheeks. That feels so good that most women will lie there and beg for more! Soon, it’s onto the KY jelly, and massaging it into the OUTSIDE of her rectum. The key here is to be GENTLE and erotic with the girl. Give her time to relax, and see that you won’t hurt her. I easily spend 30 minutes just massaging her rectal ring on the OUTSIDE. Rubbing the jelly around. Getting her slippery and lubricated well. Then, I VERY GENTLY introduce just the TIP of my finger into her rectum. Very slowly, and very gently. I’m usually teasing her clit at the same time, too. I may easily spend another half hour easing just one finger into her ass.
Inside her rectum, I am VERY gentle too. Lightly stroking her inner walls. Massaging her rectum gently. The key here is to be SLOW, and easy, and very gentle with a new girl. Plus, watch her reaction. Is she having fun?
I have converted so many women who started out repulsed or disgusted by anal play. A month later, she is bending over a big stack of pillows, with her ass in the air, willingly asking for my fingers up her ass. Why? Because she loves the pleasures of anal play! Who wouldn’t, if it’s done right?
Enemas are the same way. Make them easy, and be gentle. Plus, keep the girl aroused all the while. Trust me here. There is NO such thing as a woman who doesn’t like anal play. There are just women who haven’t had it done to them correctly yet.