Prostate massagers and Prostate toys

Thornbird - I have a Lelo Billy. It's incredible when it hits the right spot. I love the pulsing and short burst type settings on it. It is a little short. I wish it had more handle and was a little longer.

Yes, my wife's expert finger whenever possible, OMG, she is amazing! I've have only had a hands free orgasm with electro-stimulation and I wasn't trying - not a big goal for me. Selecting the correct prostate massager is a very personal matter. What is frustrating is the cost of having to purchase different models to find what works for you. In my case I use mine at least weekly to masturbate in the shower. I originally thought bigger was better, but for me, one with a large head but very slim smooth shaft works best for me. This provides maximum prostate stimulation, and nice anal stimulation without irritation. Actually, it is an Aneros knock off of an SGX (smaller) that works with my anatomy. I lube it well, and going in I can feel the tip hit my prostate firmly then slide past it and seat itself. I can then reach behind me, hook a finger in the loop and pulling slightly, rubs the tip over the gland. Letting go, it slides back up. If I pull down slightly then away from me, the tip applies direct pressure to my gland. My little routine is: turn shower on, lube device and insert, stop and enjoy that sensation, large glob of lubricant in the palm, enter shower facing away from stream to keep my penis dry, work myself up until rigid, reach behind with one hand and work the massager up and down slowly. A very intense and satisfying orgasm ensues quickly. Very nice, quick and efficient. For variations, I switch hands some days, and wearing a latex glove is an interesting change (feels like it's not your hand). I sometimes use warming lubricant for the anus, and like the sensation. Great way to start your day.

I would love to try one of those.

I have an aneros---it is okay---that is the best I can say about it. $65 bucks id a lot of money when a plain dildo helps. You have to masturbate with an aneros. Not automatically! At least, that is the way I see it!.

You guys misunderstand how the Aneros devices are supposed to be used. They are NOT a replacement for a dildo. The goal is not PENILE orgasms (with ejaculation), but ANAL orgasms. When used according to the instructions (and with some practice), many (but not all) users should be able to achieve one or more INTERNAL orgasms that involve the rhythmic contractions of the rectal muscles. Those contractions press the Aneros against the prostate and stimulate the nerve endings there. The external "tab" opposite the loop on the Aneros presses against still more nerves in the perineum. All of these things work together to create a feedback loop, increasing the sensations. Believe me, these internal orgasms can be just as pleasurable as a "normal" orgasm. The additional advantage, however, is that because there is no ejaculation, there is no real recovery period, so you can have several of these orgasms in a single session. They tend to come in waves; the amount of time between them depends on a lot of factors and is different for every guy.

I have been using Aneros devices pretty regularly since 2005 and have tried most of their product line. Many users describe what is called a "super-O"--an internal orgasm that is so intense that it is practically an out-of-body experience. Guys often lose control of their muscles, especially in their lower body; I have seen guys whose legs are shaking and spasming so strongly that they appear to be having an epileptic seizure, thrashing around and sometimes practically falling off of the bed. I personally have never been able to achieve this level of stimulation, but I keep trying. It may be that my brain is just not wired that way, or I have not learned to relax enough...or that the antidepressants I've been taking for the past 20+ years have altered the pathways in my brain so that I am unable to get there. But I have come close, and have certainly experienced several of these orgasms over the period of an hour or two.

Yes, the Aneros "tools" can be used to enhance a penile orgasm. The muscle contractions when you cum still press on the prostate and practically pump the semen out of you (actually it is the prostatic fluid, not semen). The added stimulation of the prostate during ejaculation feels amazing, kind of "supercharging" your orgasm. I admit I use the Aneros devices more like a dildo when playing with other guys, because the intended use is much more of a solo activity and takes practice to be effective. In particular, guys who are not used to having anything in their butts are surprised at how good it feels. Even guys used to being fucked enjoy it more, because a penis in there hits the prostate only incidentally, while the Aneros devices target the prostate much more directly. Several guys have told me that I have given them the best orgasm they have ever had.

If you want to see what an Aneros can do when used as intended, go to xtube.com and search for "Aneros". In particular, watch the videos from a user named "Anerosexual". This is a straight guy who is VERY responsive to the effects of the Aneros and you won't believe how intense his reaction can be!

Wingrider--Thanks for your long and detailed note on how to use the Aneros. I will give it a try because I have never been excited or satisfied with the way I have been using it.

hankb

The Aneros web site is the best source of information. The official instructions and FAQs can be found here:

http://www.aneros.com/learning-center/

But if you want to learn about the experiences of real users--what has worked for them, favorite positions and techniques, etc.--check out the forum:

https://www.aneros.com/forum/

Like this site, there is a wealth of information there. Aneros also makes products for women, so there is information for everyone. I believe there are also some discussions advising women how to best use the Aneros products with their husbands. A lot of guys insert the Aneros before having sex, so that it stimulates them more than usual and they have a terrific orgasm. I have found that to be true with gay guys. In fact, my first experience using an Aneros with another guy was just like that. I won't go into details, but let's just say we BOTH had a great time and he wanted to do it that way again and again!

I have tried the aneros, but it did not stay in my asshole. I prefer butt plugs or anal beads.

I agree with the description of the use of Aneros. It did train me to be aware of the sensations that can happen internally, and not just by the anus. The whole pelvic floor can be used to enhance your orgasm, or to produce an orgasm that is not penile.

The super orgasm, or maybe extended sexual orgasm, can occur without ejaculation. Learning to breathe through the contractions helps to spur them on.

I have a Dr. Kaplans massager, Works great!

I have a regular Rude Boy and I like it very much. It does hit the prostate and makes for a more powerful orgasm when combined with jerking off. I never had an orgasm with just the Rude Boy.

What I like about it though is that I don't cum which means I can slowly work my prostate which feels terrific and not cum. It allows you to use some penile stimulation with the prostate stimulation and not cum. So you can take your time and really enjoy all the sensations. Once I am ready to cum it doesn't take much stroking before I have a major orgasm.

I have 2 different Aneros i like both & they feel amazing to me. i like to walk around the house while it's in my ass.

I tried one of those about 4 years ago I found it to be professionally well made as far as an injection molded object but it didn't have the girth , or the pressure necessary to maintain a good prostate cleansing

It sounds like what you need is a FIST to really get in there!

Here is an inexpensive one I recently purchased (my first). Being a novice, I get some pretty good thrills from it. But ideally it would be a bit broader, softer, and include an external stimulator for the perineum. Hey, you gotta start somewhere 😃

http://www.zity.biz/gallery/image/108267

Just throwing it out there Aneros is having a very good sale for black Friday.

I got a 50$ toy for 20$ after using the discount code.

I have an Aneros and while it feels nice in my hole, it doesn't really do anything to stimulate my prostate. As for stimulating my hole. it's not as satisfying as thicker toys.

I have Aneros and an ElecoStim machine. Both are enjoyable and have increased my sexual drive. I have not experienced an orgasm with either. I did experience a huge amount of pre-come using the Aneros. Anything you use for Kegel exercises is very good for you. I am an old man and have dramatically increased my sexual desire with anal toys. I could not have orgasms before I started to use these products. I am on medications that interfere with my dick getting hard.

Sse--that is more or less my experience. The aneros is o.k., but does not do much for me and I prefer various other, larger, dildos and plugs.in my ass even though they do not do anything for my prostate.

hankb

Use to have an anrus but it never worked for me

I always prefer to have a lady to preform all this play

I feel stupid and weird when I do it to my self

Use to have an anrus but it never worked for me

I always prefer to have a lady to preform all this play

I feel stupid and weird when I do it to my self

. . . and you feel less weird when someone else does it to you?

Most men start out liking it on their own and then WISH their women would do it for them. Not only that, but men who do it to themselves find out exactly what they like, so they can tell their partners what to do.

You're lucky to have someone do it for you. That way you can just lay back and enjoy it! 😁

I had an Aneros but the little nubby on my perineum was distracting. I must be weird as my perineum doesn't seem very responsive. I just got an Njoy Wand for prostate stimulation. All I can say is Wow! I was able to use it for milking my prostate for the first time. Prostatic fluid is definately different than precum. Milky white where precum is clear. I love the smooth texture and heft. Not a toy to walk around with while using but fun to use.

My wife bought an Aneros Progasm to try on me, and to me it didn't feel good at all. She always does the insertions for my anal toys, because she knows how to massage my prostate like no one else can. She slowly inserted the Aneros, but it just feels like something really big in your rectum. It's sort of uncomfortable to me to be honest. I didn't experience the direct stimulation like I get from her finger. She uses a wand on me that has a crook at the end, and it feels pretty good. But I still like my wife's finger up my butt better than any toy. She finds the target almost instantly when she enters me. Her finger applies direct pressure right on the gland, and it's so intense. It's more intimate for both of us too.

For prostate stimulation and milking today I spent over an hour just using my Ultimate Balloon Inflator. Slowly increasing pressure at first and then pulsing to a nice internal inflation. Milked me good the entire time. I can say it was very satisfying without a climax needed. I have a problem with ED which is caused by a cardiac issue and meds. I get concerned if there is no output for a while as there is a history of Prostate Cancer in the family. How many of you gentlemen stimulate the prostate for medical reasons as well as for pleasure?

I truly enjoy a good prostate massage and milking but haven't tried any toys to this point. It has been difficult to find a lady who enjoys giving a prostate massage but finding one who would use an aneros would be even better!

Aneros is great, it's a matter of relaxing and using moderate muscle movement to guide it around. If you relax enough there can be anal orgasms, which are powerful but different from penis-centered orgasms.

I'm extremely curious about the introduction to a toy. In the past year, I've begun to play with my sphincter (& now fingering deeper) as an enhancer to my regular wanking. There are times when I think I might have hit my prostate as my orgasm via my cock is much more intense. I just wish I could experience a true male g spot orgasm. Where exactly the spot, I'm unsure (has).

For prostate stimulation and milking I use my Butt plug inflatable. Slowly increasing pressure at first and then pulsing to a nice internal inflation. Milked is an extraordinary feeling, if i do myself or my female partner. I can say it's very satisfying without a climax needed.

I have always wanted to try the aneros after seeing a video on the website about it, i never knew if it would feel better to use one of the aneros or to use a regular butt plug or dildo for pleasure. I love anal stimulation and if it works i would definitely get one.

I love my Aneros Progasm petey but I find myself using my NJoy pure wand more and more since it it very easy to rub the prostate with it. Both are pretty amazing for me. I don't use my butt plugs quite as often anymore.

I'd love to try an aneros. question though: i usually use this plug, which is quite large: http://www.amazon.com/Classic-Round-Butt-Large-Black/dp/B005LE5YXIthe aneros are all pretty small in comparison (from what I know about them). does that really matter though if the main idea is to just stimulate the prostate? are there other large plug users who really like the aneros? if so, which aneros is best for those used to larger plugs? thanks!