As a Man

Just wondering if its normal for a straight man to enjoy a enema and like it so much that its kept a secret from love ones?? It relaxes and calms me in time of stress. Is this common>>

Are you kidding? No, it isn't normal. "Normal" means your typical person does it. If it was normal you could talk about it with all your friends and their wives. But you can't.

Most of the men here are straight and they all (except for one person here that comes to mind) love enemas.

You're fine. Enjoy.

Rdr310 you are doing no one else harm so do not give it another thought.

Sometimes a secret is kept because it would do more harm than good if it were brought up. On here you are able to openly discuss it, which then makes it not a secret any more. So share your enjoyment with us. We will share our's with you.

Ok, so what is normal? Liking having something shoved up your ass and colon filled with water is not specific to guys or woman, straight, gay or bi! Is a straight guy jacking off normal? Gay guys like to do that! Is a straight guy getting a BJ and liking it normal? Gay guys also like that. It's your body to enjoy any way you want! It's not what you do, but rather, who you like doing it with that determines your orientation. Liking enemas is not specific to any particular orientation. I'm 99.9 percent straight and I LUV enemas and anal/rectal penetration. I guess you could say that because my favorite/only sex partner is me and he's a guy you could make the argument that I'm in a gay relationship! 😁 😁 😁 Come on..... lighten up and enjoy. As far a what is normal in society, I've been doing what I can to bring enemas out of the "closet". I have not refrained from discussing my homeopathic healer's direction to partake in coffee enemas as a healing modality with several of my co-workers. One lady and I have had many very specific talks about enemas and ways of taking them and I have been completely forthright and open in my discussion of and use of them. Of course I have refrained from sharing the part about drooling and wanking, LOL! Butt, that may still come in time (puns intended). Who knows? Another lady walking to the parking lot this afternoon told me that she had a terrible headache. I told her that a coffee enema would be just the thing to help. I don't expect that she took me up on this advice, but I'm tired of society telling me what's normal and what's not.

I do not keep my use of enemas a secret.

The question to ask is "does it feel good?", not whether it is normal.

Of Course it is Normal

Normal or not (and I think it is perfectly normal), you're in very, very good company here, so put your mind at ease and enjoy your enemas.

Play On!

LadyDoc

I have been married for 32 yrs. to the same woman. i enjoyed taking enemas since i was a kid and was given them to me by my mother. i started giving them to myself as a young boy. growing up i always thought i was the only person in the world who enjoyed the feelings that taking enemas gave to me. so i kept it to myself even when i started dating and even when i got married i did not tell my wife about them. about 10 yrs ago when i discovered enema chat rooms and enema sites on the internet i decided that more people than me enjoyed them. i started feeling guilty about talking to others about enemas and i had still not told my wife that i enjoyed them. i knew she wasnt anally erotic like i am but i finally told her that ive enjoyed them since childhood. she wasnt impressed and she wasnt interested in joining me when i was taking them. so while i am glad that i finally told her about them, it didnt do me any good in getting her to join me or give me one. butt now when i come in here and chat with people who do enjoy them i dont feel as guilty as i used to when she didnt know i liked them. ive told her any time she thinks she might want to join me in some enema play to just tell me. so far she hasnt asked to join me. i try to do them when shes not home and so far thats worked out for me. im still alone and probably always will be when it comes to enema and anal play. im always

I consider myself normal, and enjoy enemas, BJ's, anal sex with men & women

I agree with Susie .... you couldn't think of an enema fetish as "normal" in the sense of "mainstream".

With regard to the "straight" question .... it probably depends on the definition of the term "straight". I occasionally indulge in a professionally-administered colonic, would have little interest in one if I knew the therapist were to be male.

And probably due to the atypical nature of my own body ... a slight torso deformity, and uncircumcised in a community and at a time when it was a rarity ... I've devoted some time and effort to learning to feel at ease in a nudist camp or a locker room, simply because people behave entirely differently there. And i deplore the position taken by "New Puritans" and over-protective parents that we should raise our kids --- especially our boys --- to regard their bodies as some sort of wasting asset or bargaining chip. But would I want to participate in sex with someone of my own gender .... in one word, nope!

Yes, it's absolutely normal for straight men to enjoy enemas....... but only with a female. I love enemas, but only if given by a female. I've never been given an enema by anyone other than females, and that's how I'm going to keep it. It's the shortsightedness of the majority out there who don't understand the eroticism of enemas as a powerful tool between a man and a woman. The people lucky enough to discover what a pleasure an enema can be are generally not openly vocal about their secret, except on forums like this.

It's got nothing to do with being gay or straight. I'm gay and enjoy enemas, but they are definitely a minority interest in the gay community as they are among straight people. As for normal... on a reasonable definition of normal, no, it's not: rather few people are into it. Why should that matter as long as you're enjoying yourself? You're hurting no-one else, and you won't hurt yourself if you play safe.

I think many people that don't understand why we enjoy enemas would confuse sexual preference with enjoying enemas. Mainly because it involves putting something in your ass.

Normal? Just when you think you're ready for the ol'straight jacket, along comes Lady Doc, Miss Stress and Switchablesusi to straighten you out. Thanks gals..love ya all! 😉

Those people who think anything to do with anal are the ones who are not normal. I love butts

I agree with the majority here, Im straight and for years enjoyed enemas. unfortunatley solo since enemas are still in some way a taboo in our world. altough it changes fast with more people undestanding what garbage they put in their body at macdonalds.

In this day and age, what exactly is considered normal? Well, I must admit, an interesting question as, ok, let me see if I can rephrase the question, something about being straight and enjoying enemas. Fair enough.

After reading the question twice, I thought, ok, would this be about a straight dude giving an enema to another? Entirely possible of course, and rather exciting and erotic I must admit (who cares about normal at this point, right?). Or, rather, himself having a secret affair with enemas received? Again, entirely--no, make that absolutely--possible.

In this vein--oops, sorry--I'd say that either of these activities undertaken by a straight dude is totally normal and acceptable these days. I can't quite reach the PDR or Psych Book on Acceptable behaviors of the '50's and '60's at the moment, but let me get back to you on that...

Like I tell my friends NORMAL is a setting on the dishwasher, do what you like. i have had enemas from both men and women and had a wonderful time, also I have let both masturbate me during the enemas some times they even preformeded oral sex. I alwae felt good during the experiance.

Some people pay a massage therapist to relax, I pay my e-nurse for the opportunity to relax.