Aroused by catheterization?

Ultimate experience for me…a doctor taking away all control of my bodily functions. In my ultimate fantasy, part of that would be the doctor inserting a catheter, filling my bladder with sterile solution, blocking the tube so I could not expel for a period of time, and possibly repeating that process at least twice. Having your bladder filled via sterile saline is incredibly uncomfortable. The cool water fools your brain into thinking your bladder is full when it’s far from it. So much eroticism for me in the head game of having no control and even worse…my brain struggling with more water being pushed in when it’s convinced it can’t hold anymore.

I get bladder botox injections and use disposable caths by the box load and my doctor she has done darn near everything to my pee hole and bladder and its a blast and i know she gets a kick out of it too

Yup I get aroused. So as I start to think about it then gather all supplies to catch myself it’s very erotic

I don’t feel pain just a kinda pleasurable discomfort

Yes. Spurred on by unfortunate circumstances. Before my first full-term pregnancy, I miscarried early on. The PA, who seemed as though he was trying to complete some kind of bingo card, decided that I wasn’t having a bad enough day that I needed a transvaginal ultrasound. Fine. That was my first but certainly not my last. (I have three kids and had two miscarriages.)

This guy decided that since it was pretty early, it might be an ectopic pregnancy, so instead of letting me drink water to fill my bladder for the US, I had to have a catheter fill my bladder. Just in case I needed emergency surgery. So he placed the damned catheter, filled me until I thought I’d pee out my ears, and sent me in a wheelchair and a gown to sit in a hallway and wait for the ultrasound.

Here’s the sad part. We were 5 hours from home to go to hubby’s grandmother’s funeral, and my own grandmother was on death’s door, in the same hospital where I went for care.

After 10 minutes of squirming from my distended bladder and my burning urethra, my grandmother’s doctor was paged STAT to the unit where my grandmother was.

it wasn’t her time at that moment, but I didn’t know it until after the ultrasound and catheter removal back in the ER. My grandmother passed the following week.

This was October 2001, when we were still reeling from 9/11. Hubby’s favorite aunt died three weeks later. Not a happy time in my life. All I was left with with the logical desire for a child and the ridiculous urge to have a tube shoved into my bladder so I could feel the burn. I’d take it right now if I could.

I can tell you that I have seen the entire gamut of responses to catheterization by men and women. All the way from 20 year old males screaming at the top of their lungs (drunk of course) in the trauma bay to relieving women with a Red Robinson when they can't push for bladder distension, to older ladies clutching my arm as they shook through an orgasm when the nurse held their other hand after the nurse came to me and said she could not get the catheter tip into the female urethra. Coude catheters are the bomb for getting past those tight prostates… lidocaine gel 5cc, 5cc of KY in the introducer syringe, penis up to vertical and inject down while pulling up… align the Coude to round the fishook like curve you have just created and thread straight down… pull up with the grasping hand rostral and push down caudal with the threading hand… the failure to place is less than 2 percent…. We say “choke that chicken!”

I have had only one play partner want to cath me, and she took her time … making me ejaculate into the catheter short of the bladder neck while she inched it back and forth… sort of mastubating me inside and out… quite the amazing experience to climax! She finished by removing the cath just after my peak… which pushed me higher with the slight swoosh of exit pain..… and she then sucked out the little globulets of sperm that popped up and overflowed my meatus, and with a smile made sure I watched her put the catheter tip in her lips like a loose straw and sucked out the column of my sperm that had shot into the catheter lumen with the first throes of my orgasm…. That made a lasting impression.

O.K. I have to say I'm old, and what I have “down below” just doesn't work anymore. Not a thing, It's a relief now a days. I had a stroke four months ago and had been sent home with a catheter in that had to be changed once a month. The two nurses that did that screwed me up until i had been in the emergency room and had been put in diapers for a month.

Two days ago I saw a new urologist, he put a camera in me to check on what and how much damage had been done. Now this doc has a VERY new nurse to assist him. As my new Doc popped in and out she undressed me, removed my diaper and cleaned me up. It soon became apparent I was the first male she had to do all of this for. Now she was very good looking, and very happy to learn every thing. She and I made jokes back and forth.

The doc came in after she had me set up on the table, although he put the camera in me he guided her in how to do it and she was also pumping extra water in me to help the camera go in ... AND ... she never let go of my penis. For once I wished the damn thing would pay attention. After he was done he had her clean me and the table up. {all that extra water and pee went ever where} She only let go of my penis to get more wipes. The doc came back in with a 24fr silicone coated latex catheter and standing to one side told her HOW to get it in me.

From cleaning me to putting in extra lube with one hand the other hand never let go of my penis and was kind of slowly jacking me off. AND THE DAMN thing never paid any attention. For once in my life I wished I wasn't so old ... She put a catheter hanger on my leg taking way more time and care on where and how so i was more comfortable ... THEN ... she helped me get dressed. I was in there at least two hours and she had a hold of my penis for at least an hour and a half, and I didn't even get to half mast ... I think I'm going to fire the damn thing.

Iv never had a catheter before but would love to know what it feels like to have a catheter and the thought of losing control of a bodily funcion is a turn on. So I Would love to experience that and to have an enema at the same time, would try that at some point as well

@Enema87

Being catheterized is an experience, but it should ONLY be done by an expert. And, IMO not all nurses, male or female, are experts. Not even close.

First off, excellent sterile technique is an absolute must. You can see what it's like on several good YouTube videos. If you think you nurse is not doing it right, yell stop. Questioning the nurse is better than winding up with a nasty UTI.

Next, good lubing is essential. Most of the newer hydrophillic catheters are pretty slippery if the catheter is given enough time to hydrate… typically a couple of minutes, not 30 seconds. AFAIK, there are no hdyrophillic Foleys.

There are two options when lubing a catheter with gel… Lubing the catheter and injecting ca 10ml of sterile lube into the recipient. I much prefer the latter since the whole passage gets well lubed, making catheter insertion much easier.

The insertion can be a bit ouchie, especially when going through a man's prostate, but if it REALLY hurts… STOP! Also use a properly sized catheter. A Coude (elbow) catheter can help with insertion in men. If you are a first timer, start with a Fr 14 or maybe a Fr 16. Once the catheter is properly in and the Foley balloon inflated you should not feel it at all after about 15 minutes. In fact, you should not be able to tell if you are cathed or not by feel.

Once the catheter is in, you will completely loose control of your pee… utterly. No matter how hard you attempt to hold your pee, it will continue to flow. This can be quite a mind trip.

I agree Enema87 Except Here in this town you only get nurse practitioners. There is one doc in the E.R. at a time and all of them travel from 60 to 100 miles to get here. Think no experience young and weren't the best interns trying to pay off their student loans.

You will get handed off very quickly to a N.P. If you even get to see a doc first. My first catheter change was to remove my 24fr and replace it with a 16fr and told this is what you get. That this is what everyone gets, it's this or diaper and oh you didn't bring a diaper ? My choice was too small or piss myself all the way home, that put me in the E.R. two days later. I got lucky.

I now have a Urologist about 80 miles away, it cost me $300.00 just for the trip to and from. Then there is the whatever he costs. But on the good side I now have new nurses that make home visits, one that comes Tue. and Thur. “to give me a bath”. A second nurse that drops in Mon. and Wed. to see how everything is going, and a third nurse just on Wed. afternoon to check my catheter....Oh I received a phone call yesterday, I'm to expect another nurse soon. I have always lived alone, I'm a bit of a complainer. Give me a new car I'll piss and moan it's not a truck and it stinks of new car smell .

Since my wife passed away I have happily lived alone. Now I'm “tag teamed” by nurses almost every day, someone comes in my door, pulls my pants down does one thing or another and it seems they tap out for another to come in and start in on me

Not necessarily aroused but I enjoy the deep invasive feeling as the catheter slips slowly through my urethra and I wait for the flow of urine and the slight twinge as the tip of the catheter passes into my bladder. Sometimes I do the procedure myself but more often a med fet friend does itor me - deeply enjoyable.

I fantasize about it, but it's a paramedical procedure, and must be sterile.

I don't think it's fun and exciting to have it done.. Except for some kink and masochist!!

Aroused when inserting yes!!! Afterward I forget I have it in so I don't usually think about it. When I do see it and I'm not horny it don't bother me. But boy when I'm horny and I see it it makes me happy…

I have no inclination to try a catheter after reading some of the members responses. The idea always intrigued me but the closest I came to doing so was to try sounding. Uh,Uh, No Way, never again! For one, it didn't feel at all enjoyable and for two, even after I cleaned the sounding rod with alcohol before I tried this, I still managed to give myself a UTI! Terrible experience! That was the end of that! Maybe if a trained professional inserted the catheter, I would consider it as a challenge, but I don't see that ever happening…

I have adjusted from tolerating too waiting for my next one. I probably won't go into detail, here, but whenever I need one, I email my nurses.

I'm supposed to have mine changed sometime in the next week or so {I lost track of time} The nurse at my urologist is fun when she puts one in but I have trouble with it after. My home care nurse is quick, fast and efficient, not fun per se but no problems after she is done

My bladder stuff's a lot of bladder lining. My urologist said he has never seen as much himself but it's not unknown, the result is I plug up catheters unless they are big. When they came at me with the one I have now a 24fr, I was ready to run out of the room. I'm still plugging up my catheter !! They are talking about a 26fr or a 28fr next.

I'm going to have to perform a formal introduction to my knee's after they are done, as it is I'm walking bowlegged

Initially, I didnt look forward to being cathed but came to find it arousing. My first ex was a strict RN and led the relationship. Anytime i fell ill or was injured and laid up, she insisted on a catheter being inserted. One part of the process which came to be exciting for me was the injection of lube into my urethra. The ex would inject a good bit and then stroke it down deep into me the clamp my penis head for a bit as she prepared everything else. Its been quite some time since i have had the procedure, and look forward to it soon!

I get hard just thinking of a catheter. The feeling of inserting it, feeling it going thru the prostate and then the cherry on the sundae, the sphincter. What a delight !

For me, I’m not sure I feel the sensations others do, it doesn’t really feel anything to me except when my urethra is dry and rubs causing pain. However, I hate the feeling of a full bladder, and having to stop what I’m doing to pee. Secondly I do get turned on by the thought of being cathed, I think it’s because lack of control.

Never had it done, was close once. Don't think I'd care for the procedure! 😳

I love the feeling of my urethra being stretched. I used 14s and 16 with pleasure. I tried to go to 18 and stopped there. Having a foley 14 gives constant stimulation. But removing it , and the first pee after having a cath always hurts. There are mico tears from a foreign object even with good lube. I still love the feelings occasionally - but stick to 14 fr.

@miami17 wow. I had a 23 after getting my prostate removed. Took my breath away when it was removed.

OK, I'm curious too!! An e-nurse with whom I play regularly is VERY good with sounds; we usually get to about a 14 or 16 sound before there is ANY discomfort (nay, not discomfort, but resistance). In point of fact, a well lubed sound up to about a 16 will usually slide in a good bit by its own weight. She keeps trying to convince me to let her insert at catheter, which I have never had done before. I don't like pain of any sort...a little discomfort is fine, but pain beyond that like a hard pinch doesn't do anything for me. I am looking for new experiences. So, what has been your experience with being cathed? I'm seeing her in a couple days, so any input would be greatly appreciated. TIA for your advice.

Duhwizzard you don’t know till you try it. If you already sound I imagine it is very similar.

I have had to have a catheter and it get an erection, during,but it just happened on it's own.I was 17 years old.