Does Douching have an Erotic Appeal?

@jrw said,

I used to douche my first wife usung a higginson syringe while she sat on the bidet, however since this was post intercourse it was probably too late to find it erotic.

My wife liked to douche in the shower after we had intercourse in bed. She would lean against the back shower wall, spreading her legs so I could slide the douche nozzle in. About half the time, it lead to an intercourse session standing in the shower. Instead of sliding the douche nozzle in her, I’d slid my still hard penis in instead, as the shower sprayed warm water on my back. With her back pinned against the back shower wall and my penis deep inside her vagina. She would wrapped her legs around my waist as we went too it. Sometimes it happened before douching and sometimes afterwards. When it happened afterwards, she always had me douche her again. After we first married, this happened four or five times a week, slowing down to a couple times a week after few months.

Yes, very erotic, l'd love to help, watch, anything…. even shower it on me.

Once I'd realised what a particular rubber / bakelite product was for & where it went anatomically, then some years later having the pleasure of using it for what it was designed for I found Douching sexually appealing

Douching has had that allure in eroticism & has continued to do so for the greater part of a lifetime . . . Period !!

The warmth of a douche can be pleasant, a sensation not possible with a disposable. I used to douche after my period and after sex but sometimes before I knew that I was going to do oral. My husband liked the minty scent.

I always give my girly parts a thorough cleansing n touching up before play. Especially if we will have guests over!!

I use a diaphragm for birth control and usually douche in the shower in the morning when I remove it. If I don't douche when I remove it I leak jelly and semen for hours after. If I am not going out or on weekends I may just pop it out and wear a pad to catch the drippies. I use an old fashioned 2 quart travel syringe with vinegar, salt and water. I do find the douching thing to be erotic because it makes me think of the recent fuck with hubby. Now and then, I masturbate during the douche. Often my husband likes to “help” me in the shower. He gets an instant erection “helping” or even watching me douche. Often, I just take the diaphragm out and put it immediately back in and bend over and let him do his slam bang thank you mam quickie, I keep a tube of contraceptive with my body wash for just such an occasion.

Dita

I always give my girly parts a thorough cleansing n touching up before play. Especially if we will have guests over!!

I always give my girly parts a thorough cleansing n touching up before play. Especially if we will have guests over!!

That reminds me of a quote from Woody Allen, I think he used it in the movie “Sleeper”: “I believe that sex is a beautiful thing between two people. Between five, it's fantastic.”

Am I the only one who makes weird facial expressions while inserting a douche nozzle, and also while letting the fluid flow?

The larger the nozzle the more extreme the reaction, at least for me!

Others have similar experiences??

What do you mean by “weird”? Do you mean good but strange, that the experience feels bad or do you mean it feels unfamiliar?

For me yes, I loved giving my wife a douche from a full bag. Once i learnt they existed growing up i was intreged.

For my wife I am sure more functional than erotic if solo.

Yes, they are erotic! I like see the fluid coming out!

Not something I've had the pleasure to partake in, but I am sure I would enjoy helping a lady with this “chore”.

Oh yes, but never had the pleasure of giving one. 😞

I've given my wife a lot of douches over the years.

In the 50's and 60's, as a child, I had an equal fascination with both the enema and douching equipment. The trip down the feminine hygiene aisle of the local Rexall was always an adventure I never tired of, and I can still remember the equipment each neighbor and relative had in their homes.

In addition to the equipment, I also have a fascination of the vaginal douche in general,and created a “Douching” group on FetLife

I was going to affirm my opinion on douching eroticism, but then discovered a reply I posted about 10 years ago (#49) and (#59) a few years later. I used to love to see references, illustrations, and videos of women who utilized the familiar equipment. Having had the privilege of assisting in the process, I found it a parallel to enema administration. The equipment and solution were pretty dog on similar. My involuntary reactions were also quite similar.

Much like the decline in enema usage, douching has practically disappeared save for the disposables. A search of the word is very likely to result in discussions of preparation for anal play and sex. In any case, assisting in the insertion of various objects into a woman's lower orifices, is undoubtedly and tremendously erotic. It is even more so if she also finds it very erotic and appealing!

@sse4fun

I used to love to see references, illustrations, and videos of women who utilized the familiar equipment. Having had the privilege of assisting in the process, I found it a parallel to enema administration. The equipment and solution were pretty dog on similar.

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Much like the decline in enema usage, douching has practically disappeared save for the disposables.

In any case, assisting in the insertion of various objects into a woman's lower orifices, is undoubtedly and tremendously erotic. It is even more so if she also finds it very erotic and appealing!

I too have found this aspect of female ‘refreshing’ an enjoyable pastime whenever the opportunity presented. My very first ‘oppportunity’ arrived at the tender age of just 15 …. that is where also the distinction seperated my fantasy thoughts from the reality of actually being a partner to the deed …

Later (by just a few years) I was to discover some young ladies / women actually used their douche bulbs to masturbate with 👀 & for some a regular event

Given the time an enema was the next step but nowhere as easily achievable

The first time I helping a girl douche, I was a young teenager. My sister and I had just finished giving each other a couple of enemas one afternoon, when she asked me to help her douche while she stood in the shower. All she needed me to do was get in the shower with her an hold the bag as she stood under the warm shower spray. I agreed, then she showed me how she fixed her douche with warm water and a cap of vinegar. Once we were in the shower and I was holding the bag, she instructed me on each step, showing me exactly what she was doing. Needless to say, I was very interested in what she was showing me, having never seen a girl douche from start to finish before. A couple of weeks later, she had my brother help her douche, just like she’d done with me.

My brother and I had walked-in on mom douching a few times, when we got up to use the bathroom, after going to bed. But we’d never seen a girl douche from start to finish before. We’d only heard about it from over hearing girls giggle about it. So, when our sister asked us to help her, we couldn’t turn her down. Shortly afterwards, during one of our nightly in bed conversations. She told us, she preferred douching standing in the shower, rather than sitting on the toilet or laying on a towel in the bathtub like mom did. Hence, the need to ask our help, because there wasn’t a convenient place to hang the bag and stand under the warm shower spray.

I’ve been lucky enough to assist a lady douche too. A friend from our college years came for a weeklong visit.

This was a woman came from 300 miles away. She’d walk in the door, strip her clothes off and not fully redress until time to drive home.

First night we were to take a bath together. She comes into the bathroom with two Fleet bottles of vinegar douches.

We exchange enemas and then share a nice hot bath where we soap up each other and enjoy the water.

As we drain the tub, she says she’s ready for her douches. As I unbox the first one, she’s positioning herself in the tub.

I turn and she has her legs spread wide with her knees on each side of her ears. My eyes went out on stems. Her clit was huge and her labia were full and open.

I gently insert the douche nozzle to its hilt. She moans and bites her lip saying, “Yes.” I finish the douche, refill the bottle with warm water from the tap and insert the nozzle deeply again. Another moan of pleasure and another empty bottle.

To bed we go and I start a long muff dive. I could taste the faint flavor of vinegar as I gobbled away. Reminded me of salt and vinegar flavored potato chips. Lol.

@Rick6981 She told us, she preferred douching standing in the shower, rather than sitting on the toilet

Yes, standing in the shower is the way the gals I knew would do it.

Only douched my wife once before we were married, while showering together, I gave my my wife-to-be a douche. She had a bulb stashed in the shower. I thought it would be erotic, but it was just so-so and didn't turn us on (we still had sex afterwards!) After we were married, I never saw a douche bag or bulb in the house and doubt she ever used one.

Yes, standing in the shower is the way the gals I knew would do it.

My wife was known to use either of those positions. Sometimes she would want to douche but not shower, so the toilet was the choice. If it was a morning after we had had sex then she'd douche during her shower. Either way, she kept her pussy nice and clean. Still does.

Why used go use bulb sat / squated over the toilet but I gave to her from a bag in the shower and she converted to that method which I knew from having female siblings do so that way.

Much like the decline in enema usage, douching has practically disappeared save for the disposables.

Even the disposables are disappearing. I found out yesterday that Massengill has been discontinued in the US.

@Moe notes

Even the disposables are disappearing. I found out yesterday that Massengill has been discontinued in the US.

Would that be because plain diluted down white vinegar is or was believed just as effective. Having my mothers old nursing books clearly shows vinegar as being used clinically … Flavoured / scented powders were frowned upon & seen as a sales gimmick

18 months ago ? I'd walked into a pharmacy here to pick up a prescription & found amongst the feminine hygiene products the small disposable 600 ml concertina douche bottle … Later I regretted not returning to purchase it as the item had a nice looking semi firm one piece screw on nozzle … that had “potential”

@Moe notesWould that be because plain diluted down white vinegar is or was believed just as effective.

I don't think it is that, exactly. I think just far fewer women do it. If you search for “woman douching” all you see are warnings that it is dangerous and completely unnecessary. I have my doubts about the dangerous part - I think the studies they point to found a correlation between frequent douching and vaginal health issues but not necessarily causation - but it is hard for me to argue they are necessary. While I LOVE watching or helping with a douche, I do prefer my wife's natural taste and smell much better than the few times I have experienced her pussy after a (water only) douche with an almost complete lack of taste or smell.

And I think many of the small minority of women who now douche have moved back to reusable equipment both for economical and environmental reasons. Of those, it seems like (based on Amazon review counts) most of those are moving more to bulbs and little plastic pump bottles much more than to bags. And just plain water or some hooey herbal formula - I never hear about vinegar any more.

While I LOVE watching or helping with a douche, I do prefer my wife's natural taste and smell much better than the few times I have experienced her pussy after a (water only) douche with an almost complete lack of taste or smell.

@Moe I agree with you, I'd rather smell and taste their natural scent. 😜

@Moe said,

While I LOVE watching or helping with a douche, I do prefer my wife's natural taste and smell much better than the few times I have experienced her pussy after a (water only) douche with an almost complete lack of taste or smell.

That’s why I douched my wife afterwards in the shower. We’d have foreplay and sexual intercourse in bed, then get in the shower. This of course, lead to having sex again, standing under the warm water in the shower. Sometimes before I douched her, sometimes afterwards. If afterwards, it meant douching again, once we finished having sex standing in the warm water of the shower.

My biggest issue was her pubic hair being really thick. Once we got married, she kept it trimmed. When our first child was born, she got shaved completely and liked it. Afterwards, she kept a little hair above her pussy mound, but everything below was shaved. That’s when she started keeping my long pubic hair trimmed, especially on my penis an around my anus. She didn’t like a mouthful of pubic hair any more than I did.

As a teenager, maybe around 15-17 years old (during the late 1960's), I would always be able to look through the various Sears Catalogs my grandparents would receive at their home. Inevitably my focus would be on the women's underwear pages, the women's swimwear pages (especially the bikini's becoming popular), and the health area (with the enema and douche syringes). I always got an erection seeing the DOUCHE SYRINGE BULBS, with the SHIELD at the base end of the douche nozzle that were for sale.

As a man who has assisted a number of women with a cleansing , high volume , fountain syringe ' vaginal ' douche ' I do find the procedure to be most ' erotic ' . As a kid , the ' old douche bag ' was a common fixture in many bathrooms I visited whether in my friend's homes or the homes of my relatives . I was soon educated that not every ' red rubber bag ' w / a hose and nozzle attached or disassembled for ' drying ' was for enema use . It was a charming discovery to me that women had in fact ' two openings ' to cleanse to insure their complete ' daintiness ' .

Bath-n-bag you must be a senior like me. It has probably been forty years since douching went out of favor. But yes douche equipment was common. And douche is now a funny word but it wasn't 50 years ago. It was serious as it was in common practice.