Does Douching have an Erotic Appeal?

My wife after 25 years of marriage still occasionally douches. She knows it is a huge turn on for me and lets me watch. She normally does it in the shower. Afterwards she is squeeky clean inside and out.

Very interesting query. I'm glad to see most of our lady friends tell us that there is at least some pleasant sexual component to douching. I'm 64 and through a few girlfriends and 2 wives have literally never seen a woman do a douche, maybe because it's so infrequent for most women these days. My guess would have been that almost everyone (female) would have said, no, it's just completely boring or sexually neutral, or else unpleasant. Glad it's better than I guessed!

Eric

To Willy Nilly. Back in the late 70's my wife had a wild spell where she went out with a girl friend and ended up "pleasuring" two guys (and gave a third a blow job). She came home at sunrise with a big wet spot on her jeans and she went to sleep. Later in the day she got up and to abridge the narrative I went down on her. She had an erotic odor of sex about her crotch. After she had a "quick" orgasm, she told me to be quick about fucking her, because she was sore. That made me cum just about as fast as she said it.

So, she is now dripping my semen, so I got her a towel and she went into the bathroom and pulled out her douche bag. It was a big old black hospital bag that was given to her by a friend who was an RN. The bag was big but the hose was standard size and the douche nozzle the standard "modern" pattern, not the big black bakelite of the past. This is another story in its own right, but sticking to the subject.

She had me fill the bag with warm water, three quarts and put a tablespoon of Tricotine in the water. She then placed a towel on the edge of the bath tub inserted the nozzle. We laughed about not needing any lubricant and she proceeded to perform a very, to me, erotic douche. I rubbed her shoulders as I watched the water flow out and pause as she "squeezed" down and then flow out again. I just thought it was so exciting.

This was the only time this happened because one of the girls she worked with got a case of genital herpes and it scared her plus her girlfriend moved out of town and her nights out pretty much disappeared.

In a fantasy I imagined that if she did this again and would tell me in advance (which was out of the question because this "hook up" was just a fluke of that night, women are different about desire), I would have a trail of rose petals leading to the bathtub and have the douche bag hanging ready to fill. Never happened, damnit.

The lads in the squadron were always talking about developing a 'flavored douche'. Nothing came of it until some years later when I discovered a product labeled "CUPID's QUIVER", and came in a couple of different flavors. I purchased "Raspberry", took it home and my wife proved anxious to try it, knowing what it would lead to. She did, it did and we did. T'was lovely.

the boxcar

@boxcar "Cupid's Quiver" came on the market about the time that I started college. We had a girl in the sorority, who was an advertising major. She would make up commercials regarding the product using commercials for other products. "Taste good like a pussy should." "Good to the last lick." "The flavor of the week." "I use Cupid's Quiver. Don't you wish every girl did?" "Use Cupid's Quiver. Your lover will love you for it."

I was working the Christmas rush at one of my father's drug stores. Jeanie, who was a class or two behind me in high school, came to the register with a Cupid's Quiver package and ask me if it really worked. Instantly without thinking, I responded. "Only your lover will know for sure." It's a good thing that the manager didn't hear me.

As a man, I find the douche and the enema both erotic, each in its own way. While the douche can be used to stimulate the G-spot and all the rest, I enjoy playing with the clit and the G-spot with my fingers while filling or retention of the enema.

Douching has a mild erotic appeal if my husband and I are playing in the shower.

I am curious as to what she could have written to fill a page on how to douche.

Even more curious why a mom leaving her daughter behind would leave in a note how to clean out her vagina when she got older ?

Oh yes, The bulb ones seemed to have the thick nozzles were especially arousing. And watching anything going up there was great in general. In the 60s and seventies she did it rather often. However the wife got yeast infections and she would use a medicated douche. That wasn't very arousing. With the yeast you weren't getting anyway.

There is an item I would love to see in use, it was called a "Dainty Maid". It had a ceramic cone that was pushed up tight to the exterior of vagina. There were two hoses. One connected to a nozzle extending from the cone. The second connected to an opening at the base of the cone. This allowed water to be introduced into the vagina through the nozzle. The second hose allowed it to drain. If my memory was right there was a clamp on the drain, so the water/medicine could be retained inside the vagina. With this there was no limit to volume or length of time of the retention.

Ethan# I could see why a page was filled. What to put in the bag, there were a number of choices. Plain water, vinegar, Massengill's and so on. Her mom might have preferences for solutions. Then do you want to keep it in for some time or let it constantly drain. To sit on the toilet when douching or in the tub or... Should she douche after her period? Later in life should she douche after sex? And maybe even something with pleasuring herself with the nozzle.

Indeed there are options: I meant more if you were walking out you stop and think to write instructions on rinsing out your pussy before leaving for good.

Ethan some times people plan their departure long in advance and this might have been the case. She wanted to be sure her daughter had some advice a dad was unlikely or afraid to give. I would guess the mother had some concern for her child in spite of what else happened.

I thought it would be really erotic to give my wife a douche. We did it in the shower once. OK but didn’t hit our expectations!!

I think I did help with this in the shower once when I was freshly married. I have to say it did not give me the same type of thrill that filling a behind does.

For a time I was into erotic photography showing various nozzles spraying water while being inserted - using sun beams for lighting the spray was most interesting... Two TBSP of white or apple cider vinegar to a full douche bag seemed to keep vagina acidic.

What "Nexus" said in post # 6!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hoooooooooooodogies!!!

with a "SQUEEEEEEEEEEEZE!!!!!!"

highwater

I remember when I married my first wife in my mid 20's, we were having sex like bunnies. I really enjoyed doing cunnilingus on her, but I always liked a good fresh pussy.

We often showered together, and I filled up the hot water bottle under the head and told her to spread her legs a bit. Mission accomplished.

I always got a little bit of a turn on from this ....... but I'm sure she got a big turn on for what came later.

I miss those days, because it seems every woman I got intimate with after her never really cared to take showers together.

One of the posters mentioned getting yeast infections from doing to much douching and I presume they were only using water. What is safe to add to the water and prevent getting yeast infections for those that want to douche more often?

Another poster mentioned flavored douches and remember seeing a compilation of unusual ads of the like and a woman who douched with a strawberry flavored douche and when they zoomed out, she was being done by a guy who stopped and made some comment about the nice taste of strawberries while doing her. I saw that back in the mid 80's while waiting for The Story of O to start in the theater.

Vinegar salt and water is still considered completely safe.

While Betadine no longer makes it's douche concentrate, there are still a few identical products around under different brand names.

Zonite was mostly table salt from the start.

You want to avoid anything like Coca Cola or similar. Sugar or honey or maple syrup is essentially an engraved invitation, hand delivered on a silver platter to a yeast infection!

I have the ingredients in Massengill powder. It's all stuff you can get legally.

What I DON'T have is the exact formula, the proportions, which ARE important given that list of ingredients.

I can post it or not.

I sold Massengill Powder for 4 years. It contains menthol, thymol, eucalyptol, berberine salts as the main ingredients. The directions said one tablespoon of powder per quart of water. This solution gives a pH. of 3.5 to 4.5.

I have given douches to a few ladies and would get very aroused doing so.

@jimmyt44 Although I have never been in sales, I have read that the first aspect of a good sale person is product knowledge and you, my friend, certainly know yours.

@ddell2

@jimmyt44 certainly was an encyclopaedia of product knowledge & I hope that wherever Jimmy is that he is faring well.

That aside & being the subject of Douching, I too find it to be a pleasurable (erotic) practice if one is so inclined, of which I am & have been most of my adult life.

@That_Australian

That aside & being the subject of Douching, I too find it to be a pleasurable (erotic) practice if one is so inclined, of which I am & have been most of my adult life.

While I can fully understand why men find douching erotic, I assure there is nothing erotic for a female, at least this female, in doing it.

@LisaK: Vinegar salt and water is still considered completely safe.

My wife uses apple cider vinegar and water. Didn't know about using salt with vinegar…

In reference to Massengill douche powder I did a little digging on the internet and didn't find precise per se of the proportions but I did find this information in the patent application. For the entire patent, here is the URL, https://patents.google.com/patent/US3346451A/en

The product was described by the patients as soothing, refreshing, excellent, easy to prepare, and convenient. In addition, as is known to those skilled in the art, aluminum salts confer the desired astringency on the compositions. The unique combination of water-soluble astringents employed herein were found particularly effective in the clinical evaluation.

The example which follows illustrates the invention when isopropyl alcohol is used, the method of preparation being the same as in Example B.

Combinations of an aluminum chlorhydroxide complex and aluminum chloride have not, to our knowledge, been employed as astringents for the vaginal tract. In addition it was not realized that their use in combination with lactic acid would provide a composition possessing the buffer capacity of the douche preparation of this invention. When used in a weight ratio in the range of 1 aluminum chlorhydroxide complex:1.5 aluminum chloride:2 lactic acid, to 1 aluminum chlorhydroxide complex:2 aluminum chloride:3 lactic acid resulting in a pH of 3.5 to 5, a douche product with good buffer capacity results. Using the foregoing ratios the ingredients are employed in ranges set forth hereinbefore. The aluminum chlorhydroxide complex and aluminum chloride are the buffer ingredients, constituting 1.5 to 20 pehcent of the composition.

Thus this invention provides not only a liquid douche preparation containing aromatics, but a liquid douche preparation containing new and unique astringents. All of the advantages of lactic acid douches are attained by the preparations of the invention. Obviously changes in the other ingredients can be made. For example several combinations of aromatics can be employed, and these can be varied depending on the alcohol employed. These and other obvious ramifications and variations are, of course, within the scope of this invention.

@Master_Dorson

Please do post the formula for Massengill Powder.

To answer the original question of this thread, I most definitely do “find the idea, or indeed the action of giving or assisting a woman with a douche erotic” and in every way. Women may not find douching erotic, but I think men do because of the douche nozzle going into their lover's vagina, or at least I do. Sadly my wife never douched so I only got to use the fluted douche nozzle, both the small douche nozzle and the large, thick douche bulb nozzle, in her vagina when we played around during our foreplay before we had intercourse. I would loved to have watched her take a douche or better yet let me give her a douche with the 2 quart red rubber bag. But it never happened. I bought the douche bulb syringe, blue bulb with a white nozzle, just so I could use the thick nozzle in her vagina to play with her.

An extreme erotic scene for me is seeing a nude woman, sitting on a bidet and douching with a bulb syringe like the 1960s Faultless Charme like this:

https://ibb.co/d0XZd3V

I've never douched a woman, 😞 but I find pics and videos of women douching very erotic. 😜 I would love to fill a 2qt bag with vinegar and water, then have a woman lie between my legs with her legs spread wide in the tub. Then insert the nozzle and work it in and out and around while I filled her. And rubbing her clit and fingering her butt while I'm filling her. 😜😉

From my male perspective yes ……… I find a lady at ‘ douche time ‘ to be erotic . As has been said , and I have heard this comment from other women , a ’ douche ‘ is to many girls a ’ hygienic chore ‘ to be tolerated and just as quickly accomplished after a ’ period ‘ as was advised by their mothers of another generation . I as a very young lad and not knowing what was ‘ going on ’ at the time , I assisted on very rare occasions by being assigned the duty of ‘ bag holder ‘ while mother performed her douche while seated on the commode . I find it interesting that equipment obviously manufactured for and assigned to a ’ female ’ douche ‘ application role is used by both sexes for ’ enema administration ‘ which I think only enhances the ’ female douche / enema ‘ eroticism for me . I have over my adult years assisted a number of women with both bulb and bag douches and do find the whole activity to be erotic . That women have two openings in close proximity to receive liquid infusions for health and pleasure has been ever so stimulating for me as to knowledge and practice with every ’ douche / enema ' , give receive , man - woman activity I have engaged in . Just another reason why I so love our women .