Tight vagina/Large fingers

Have any of you women experienced this?

I have been trying to be fisted by my play doc for a while now and with no sucsess as i have a

very tough vaginal bone and its fairly small . but i am normal size down below . just cant handle the hand .

although my doc had big fingers and big hands .

my partner has tried and gets a little further but even his hands are just tiny bit smaller than

my play docs .

Yeah! When my OB was away on vacation during my pregnancy, I had to go see another doctor in the same practice. This doctor had VERY large fingers...and checking for dilation wasn't a very fun experience with this man!

^^^^ He should have been smart enough to only use one finger.

I have thicker fingers than most and it has been my practice that when doing the external assessment of my patients genitalia I try to determine if one "fat" finger will work better than two, then proceed accordingly.

When it comes to recitals I have learned to used a slow deliberate intrusion past my patient's anus on the way in to her rectum.

Thick fingers can be really exciting though!

It's really difficult to get a good exam using only one finger. I see many patients who are either small or virginal and typically a little patience and a sufficient amount of lubricant usually does the trick.

If the patient continues to tense up or sometimes in younger patients I'll take a rectal only approach. There is no substitute though for evaluation with two fingers

Aside from the clinical aspects - I do like to insert deeper than needed and linger a bit longer than needed on patients I find attractive

[quote author=Sarahgyn link=topic=35847.msg311926#msg311926 date=1283516915]

. . . . . Aside from the clinical aspects - I do like to insert deeper than needed and linger a bit longer than needed on patients I find attractive

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That is crossing the line between your fetish and your work.

Keep them separate.

[quote author=Switchablesusie link=topic=35847.msg311932#msg311932 date=1283518137]

That is crossing the line between your fetish and your work.

Keep them separate.

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well i very much respect your opinion, but it's no where close to crossing into a fetish. I perform a valid medical procedure, but I just admit to being more thorough with some patients than others.

Trust me there are many male physicians who give a very in depth breast exam to a pretty girl vs a brief but valid exam to those they find less attractive. The only difference, really, is that I'm female

[quote author=Sarahgyn link=topic=35847.msg311984#msg311984 date=1283539605]

well i very much respect your opinion, but it's no where close to crossing into a fetish. I perform a valid medical procedure, but I just admit to being more thorough with some patients than others.

Trust me there are many male physicians who give a very in depth breast exam to a pretty girl vs a brief but valid exam to those they find less attractive. The only difference, really, is that I'm female

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Male or female, it is still very unprofessional in my opinion. Being more thorough than necessary, driven by your own feelings, equals taking advantage of patients.

I am the first one to admit that I have enjoyed thorough exams from male doctors that I have found attractive but with other doctors I have felt exploited and insecure. The problem is that there is no way you can check whether the patient is fine your "bonus lingering" without crossing a border.

Hopefully you haven't done any harm but in my opinion such behaviour is not acceptable.

Sarahgyn-

I read your post when it first appeared and I had to take a few days to weigh my response. Now that I've done so, here it is.

No, the only difference is not that you're female. The difference is that you claim to be a doctor, and as such, you should know better. I don't know how long you've been involved in the fetish, but if you read some of the threads on this forum, you will find that most of the females here don't get a particular thrill out of going for our annual exam.

Sure, we might find our doctor (male or female) attractive, we might even use the experience of the exam as part of a later masturbatory fantasy, we might use the experience to titillate our partner afterward. However, that doesn't mean that we want to have our doctors' fingers on us or in us for even a second longer than necessary.

The fact that you are inclined to do so says to me (and I think a few others here) that you have a lack of respect for the dignity of your patient. If I were a urologist (which would be my chosen specialty if I were an MD), I wouldn't dream of handling a man's genitals for longer than strictly necessary or "going deeper" during a DRE. It's very disconcerting to me that I, as a layperson, have a higher standard (albeit fictional) than you do as an MD.

If you are indeed an MD, all I can say is "shame on you", Doctor. You have indeed crossed the line.

LadyDoc

Sarah, as a doctor I'm quite shocked, and I refuse to believe you're the real MD you claim to be.

All we real medical professionals here always make it clear we DO NOT CROSS THE LIMITS; work is one thing, medfet is another completely separated, as it should be, on respect to our profession and our patients.

So please, stop making it more difficult for real good and serious professionals by denigrating our group...

Nina, Brazilian MD

My goodness I did not join here to engage in controversy, but I do find the reaction odd. I have simply admitted to enjoying what others here claim to enjoy as patients, both real and play. What if a patient is fantasizing about me during an exam,and what if her nipples become erect from the fantasy rather than touch response, are they not violating me in some fashion? I think not but maybe so.

For the medical pros here who chastise me so aggresively perhaps we should discuss the considerations of laparoscopy and whether or not appropriate in adolescents where bbt generates elevated possibilty of endometriosis. As well do cycle alterations have a consideration or are they unimportant? Also how do we deal with Adenomiosis and other potential false positives. Any takers?

For the medical pros here... perhaps we should discuss the considerations of...

Any takers?

I am not a "medical pro" but the prospects of some educated discussion on real practical issues sounds quite appealing. I'm in.

So what is the issue with adolescent laporoscopy? I was not aware there was an age limit for gynecological intervention, however there is an age limit for discussions on this forum and Adolescent or Pediatric gynecology is not within the field of MedFet play. An actual OB/GYN chat room would be appropriate however. Possibly you could suggest a few?

DrJ - I'd be happy to converse on real situations in whatever the appropriate section is here.

The rest of my post was not specific to adolescent gynecology, I am just using that to illustrate what 99.999% of my day involves-and to see if the real medical folks and those who were so quick to chastise me would be as quick to jump in and discuss real medical issues that should be of the highest concern to them as well.

I'm not sure of an obgyn chatroom as such, but obgyn.net does have webcasts of interest and there is a feedback chat with most. I think you must register but am not certain on that

Sarah

Perhaps some of our members feel differently, but I don't think that this forum is the appropriate venue for discussion of real- life OB/GYN matters. This forum is specifically for fantasy, role- play and fetish discussions.

Frankly, as a moderator, I think we have our hands full trying to discourage some posters from doing some of the things they come up with on their own. They don't need any encouragement from the annals of medical literature.

I'd suggest that if you want to discuss actual medical topics that are outside the realm of fetish (which is well-covered here) that it be done via PM or email, and not on the open forum.

Just a thought.

LadyDoc

I agree that a MedFet forum is not the place to be discussing actual medical issues. Each forum does what it does best and there are excellent forums such as OBGYN.Net which are substantial in terms of the information. I trust those sources as they have backup to their findings, whereas a fetish forum could not be expected to cater to the type of users who expect credible information which will be used in treating real patients.

I would suggest that patient education is the most powerful tool in maintaining our health. To that end, even a layperson could gain valuable information by lurking within specialist's territory. As an example, UBC in Vancouver, Canada recently published a research paper that supports the full removal of the fallopian tubes during hysterectomy or tubal ligation as a prophylactic measure against ovarian cancer. Any woman who may be undergoing either of these procedures would be wise to ask if her gynecologist has read this paper before surgery. A bit of discussion is good, but if someone wanted to debate the findings this would not be the place to do so.

BTW You do need to register at OBGYN.Net but it is open to anyone. Excellent forum, I have been a member since it first formed under CompuServe about 20 years ago. I would expect that all Board certified gynecologists are regular users.

Many years ago I was driving a city bus. I had a run that served a facility for unwed mothers. Many of the girls were cared for by an OB/Gyn who was a former pro basketball player. One of these girls was talking to a friend and said, "Ohhh, I just love Dr. Bxxxxx, but his hands are sooooooooooooooooooooooooooo big!" I had to stop the bus until I stopped laughing.

Speed

I once had a smear test with a very fat nurse. Her fingers were huge, she was not gentle at all and told me it was my fault as I was not relaxed enough.

At my first gyn exam doctor's fingers felt very large. Maybe it had something to do with my tightness as well.

If you are just playing then you may need to play longer and slower, I have come across this problem in the past and found the only way to overcome this is more patience,practice and technique but you do really need a lot of trust. The vaginal walls will stretch to accommodate but you do need to tease them gently and use plenty of lube. Bub.xxx.

I look at it as a balance between respecting the patient's feelings and getting the right diagnosis.

Doctors, real and play, should remember these words of wisdom from a fellow forum member (I wish I could remember who it was), "If you use enough lube, you can get a Cadillac in a doghouse"! Words to live by.

Play On!

LadyDoc

LadyDoc,

I really like that saying.

Well that was an interesting read! One has to keep in mind that a "professional" is someone who is engaged in or worthy of the high standards of that profession.