Does your doctor know about your interests?

Anyone have a real doctor who indulges them just a little bit? Or is at least aware of your interests?

Yes, my new doctor and his NP are well aware of my interests, and no neither of them indulge me, and nor would I want them to.

For a doctor to be aware of his/her patient's kink is one thing, and that knowledge might even be helpful to the doctor in treating the patient. For the doctor to indulge his/her patient's kink is crossing a moral and ethical line.

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LadyDoc

The doctor specialized in urology who take care of me know exactly all what I am doing with my body . . . , may be better than my wife because he must take care of all my " pipes " , if he don't know how I use them , sure he would have a wrong diagnostic , and I am going to him to have a accurate and right diagnostic . Logic to give him all the infos he needs .

I know some people who lie to their doctor or specialist , they don't understand they are leading him on the wrong way , live is not a joke .

I suspect that one of them was, although he didn't comment anything to me directly. He sent me into the exam room the first time requesting that I take off everything except my underwear. The next time, I stripped completely and he told me to take everything off after that. I arranged a 'swim team physical' at his office for a group of guys which may have further enlightened him since the group did not look in age or build like a bunch of competitive swimmers.

No. I suspect most doctors would show me the door if I told them about having a medical fetish.

I wouldn't say my doctor indulges me, but it's pretty clear that she is aware, for a variety of other reasons.

My doctor once apologised for having to examine me, "I'm sure you've got better things to be doing."

I said it was fine as I've got a bit of a medical fetish, and laughed.

She laughed and said it would help get through then.

It's never been mentioned since, nor has she indulged me. I think she probably thought I was joking.

I wouldn't lie to my doctor, but I won't come right out and advertise my fetish interests either. It's none of his business.

If a situation comes up whereby there is likely to be some genital or rectal procedure, I will sometimes break the tension by advising that I spent some time in a body cast, so I'm no stranger to being penetrated anally.Or when the two colonoscopies I've undergone to date were suggested, I advised the clinics involved that I was aware of the prep needs, and knew how to self-administer an enema if necessary.

Beyond that, years ago, when I was sent for an employment physical, the examining MD seemed to pay even more attention "below the belt" than in an exam I'd undergone from a urology specialist some two years before. What might have happened if he'd admitted the interest and sent a female to clean me out withan enema beforehand, I'm not prepared to speculate about, but given that this was nearly ten years before the AIDS breakout, I'm not entirely regretful that it went the way it did.

When I met my "now" doctor, I was very upfront with him. While I didn't go into all the dirty details of why I had to find a new doctor, I made it very clear that my current, meaning back then, doctor were boyfriend and girlfriend, we like to play kinky doctor and nurse games, and a "friend" of ours turned us in, and apparently the powers above see that as a boundary violation. So, I had to find a new doctor, and congrat, you're it!

So that right there told him I was into med fet kink. He's kinky too, but make no mistate, he's always medically appropriate. John and I have the same sense of humor, and sometimes we know where each other are going mentally with a comment made by the other, lol. It's funny actually.

I went in for my yearly exam this week, not only because it was time to do so, but also because he wanted a full exam to see how my belly was coming along. A few interesting things happened during that visit.

I brought a bag in with me. He asked me what was in the bag. I told him it was a scope with a light, so if he wanted to take a peek rectally he had the right equipment. He laughed and said, "you brought your very own scope? Now that's really cool." He never used it though, he was able to feel enough without having to use it.

But when I was up in the stirrups the first thing he said when he lifted the sheet back was, "Looks like I need to write you a script for Diflucan." I asked him why, did I stink?" He said, "no, but you are really red and irritated down here." THen it was my turn to laugh. I proped my self up on my elbows and remined him that I only see my boyfriend every 3 months, I left his side just 2 days prior to my appointment after spending a week with him." John smiled real big and said, "okay, then tell him to take it easier on you then." And my reply was, "why, I liked it, and besides that, I was riding him." John's face turned about 20 shades of red, he laughed again, hard and went back to work. About half way through he looked up at me because I had pushed the sheet down to pubic level so I could watch him work and told him so accordingly. His cheeky reply was, "well, you know we are going to talk about you after you are gone don't you?", and my reply to him back was, "I would expect nothing less John. I'm sure it's not everyday your patients come in here complete with a top of the line electric rectal scope, push the sheet down so she can see what you are doing, and have the guts to ask how soon we can resume "backdoor" activities." He said I was a first, and quite refreashing actually. His answer to that was probably not before Christmas at the rate I am going, grrrrr.

So yeah, My Doctor John knows I am a kinky one, but he also respects me as a patient, a person, and a nurse. and I think maybe as a fellow kinkster, but I'n not totally sure on that one. lol.

Somehow real life exams do nothing for me because there is a firm line between what is doable in play/fantasy and what is possible in reality. Blame my "too vivid" imagination.

I hope not. But sometimes I have doubts when he asked questions.

I could never imagine. I have a female friend who plays with her husband. She had a terrible experience with an MD asking about a little bit of internal bruising while she was up there in the stirrups. I cannot imagine what it was like to lie there and try to think of how to explain that. I don't think she has been to a doctor since then.

I'm with Graceh. Real exams do nothing for me. The exam is exciting enough in that I hope he doesn't find anything wrong with me.

My real physician does not know anything about my fetishes despite knowing him as far back as when I was in school, and I don't think he is aware of my antics with other people in TES that my husband and I played with at the time.

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I'm with Graceh. Real exams do nothing for me. My real physician does not know anything about my fetishes despite knowing him as far back as when I was in school.

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I agree that real medical exams do nothing for me. I suspect that my GP and my urologist have a bit of an idea about my interests as I do not remove the jewelry from my PA when seeing them.

Speed

Speed, I guess I'm just incognito and plain vanilla looking with regard to my fetishes and my real doc.

I would never see him after a rough session, have never been injured in a way that wouldn't heal itself and my only piercings are a couple of earrings.

Real exams do absolutely nothing for me either, nothing. Actually, I have a bit of "white coat" syndrome, so in reality, if anything, they scare me.

The only reason I told Dr.John anything at all was because he sort of ask. The first time I met him he asked me why I was changing doctors. This left me in sort of a hard position actually. So my reply to him was exactly this....

"Well, here's the deal. My boyfriend is a doctor, apparently that is a boundary violation. So, I have to find a new doctor, congratulation, you're it."

And like I said, Dr.John is pretty close to my age, he's very funny, easy going, and he likes me. He can and does relax around me. We both appreciate that.

Later on in the appointment Dr.John had made a comment of something to the effect of, "So, you're dating a doctor huh? That happens a lot, takes one to know one....." And then I said something like, "Nah, I'm just kinky."

But from that point forward, while I have not been spewing forth information about my kinky activities, I know we are both on the same page, he gets it.

It's all good.

I would think a doctor would be offended to know a patient had sexual fantasies about his/her work. At the very least, it would be awkward when they did the exam.

How do you find a real doctor that does real exams, so i can have some fun and my husband to?

Rijames99,

I would think you might be right a little. But most doctors understand that some patients have these types of feelings, and propably most that really get it are in a sense, and I say this only because I don't know how eles to say it, but some my actually be flattered. I also don't mean in a sexual way either.

My real doctor knows about my fetish, and probably has a pretty good idea what it was Doc and I used to do for fun, as I have mentioned a few things to him. He isn't offended at all for two reasons, and actually, I think he thinks it's sort of "cute" and funny. He also thinks I'm fascinating, but anyway, the two reasons he isn't offended is because,

1) He knows that I am not trying to play with him, that I respect him both as a person and as a professional.

2) He knows that I am not using him for my pleasure or to satisfy my fetish. When I am there with him in his office, while we are both very relaxed, like to joke and laugh with and around each other, I am there for his services. He knows I am not a patient who is in his office all the time begging and whinning about stuff that is piddly or minor. He quite respects and is probably also somewhat annoyed by me because I come in, shoot the shit for a few minutes, then I tell him my signs and symptoms, then I tell him what I know my diagnosis is and what scripts I want and why. Bing, bang, boom.

But that's just me and my doctor. Could be different for everyone else?

Mashie

I can't see a real Doctor having an issue with this. I know they would express their concerns about inappropriate items ie: equipment and sterilization techniques, for procedures. But I think with the reassurance from yourselves of the professionalism of your provider it would not alarm your true health care professional. They seem very tolerant of my escaped into the darker side of things that I play with as long as there is some moderation in frequencies. I have found a lot of satisfaction in the enema world as of late, and my Dr. was very supportive. I too have a Dr. that I spent a few years in University with and he knows of my kinks first hand from a lot of our school friends.

My doctor is not much interested in knowing my inclination to love m anus,, yet i have made it clear to him that i m a straight guy, yet lve anal stimul.ation

I would love to have my doctor checking my anus and asking me if I take on anal penetration...I'm straight but I love to finger myself and use toys in myself and would love to hear the doctor saying she knows my ass has seen some action!

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I know some people who lie to their doctor or specialist , they don't understand they are leading him on the wrong way , live is not a joke .

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Actually the problem is solved, the major reason of the problem was a allregy to the lube I used during my anal fantasies .

My rectum and very end of colon dislikes really that lube. How can the urologist found the problem without knowing about my usual life.

Now imagine this situation , a doctor talk with a patient about sexuality , patient says "he have a vanilla life" and doctor see at the shape of his anus that it is well "trained".

The doctor will know immediately understand you are kidding, so he will try to help you with false datas and knowledge about you ? ? ?