It's hard to to find female to female

I'm a bisexual female and married. I want to explore my bi side and i am having trouble finding a girl who is roughly my age and wanting to do the same. I'm thinking to my self am I'm not attractive or not sexy enough?

This is really bothering me because I really want to have a female play friend as my partner is ok with it and he works away alot. Am I looking in the wrong place's or are girls just to shy to open up and say yeah I'll play sexual games with you. I think you guys know. I mean licking, sucking and use of our fingers.

I'm not talking to take pictures .

Any surgestions to help me out here.

Hi, why on earth would you think you are not sexy or attractive enough for a girl? You certainly are sexy enough for the guys so what is the difference? Any woman who meets you will be looking for warm sexy fun and it will be your open mindedness and willingness to explore that is important. It is probably difficult to find someone for the same reason everyone finds it difficult - just because we all have slightly different needs and because not everyone is on the site for real life meets. I have seen your pics - trust me you are fine!

Gynoslave,

I have to agree with "lovescoldmetal", you're way sexy, pretty lady. Don't sell yourself short. It's just a matter of waiting until you and the right gal find each other.

The same thing happens in heterosexual relationships (or the pursuit of them) too. I'm still waiting to find my e-lover partner too.

Hang in there, Darlin'. It'll happen.

ldb

Trust me gs I would love to oblige u but alas I live across the pond and am coming up on the big 35 in a month or so. Wish I could help u out. Good luck in finding a gf its plenty hard where I live too.

I am fortunate to currently have a friend that likes to fool around once in a while. Both of our husbands know and approve (mine more than hers) She is the 6th girl I have had actual sex with, but you're right it is hard to find them because very few of the ones that are interested let it be freely known. I wish there were a good private SECURE way to meet like minded ladies.

Don't sell yourself short.

Why not try what I did when I was younger and inexperienced.

Ask a friend who you fancy to check your breasts because you want someone to double check after the last exam you did

You are not coming full on to them, and if the are straight you will not intimdate them.

@Bambi -- I agree.. My gf wishes that too.. She's bi, but is having trouble finding another girl to play with locally that is OK with me watching.. Hell, if the other girl is with a man, or another woman, I'm OK with he/she watching as well.. It's only fair.. I would love to have a threesome with two women, or a partner swap with another couple (my gf is OK with that as well), but we're having a hard time finding a sole female, or a couple we're both OK with...

Dont take this in a critically way or something 😃 - its just my opinion 😃

I find you attractive - but you would look even more attractive with a bit of make-up on 😃 - you are pale - use some mascara, a bit of eyeliner and a bit of eye-shadow.. Dont use foundation/stuff that'll tone your skin though...

Set your hair up in a knot behind your head...

The the facial parts and the eyes are always the most important things - this way you'll enhance your looks a bit....

Dont worry - you shouldn't dress up like a barbie-girl - but a bit of enhancing your eyes and make your hair a bit more fancy - that'll probably give you alot more positiv response 😃

This is based on the pics in your profile - and meant in no harm ! : )

That is true, finding a girl is very difficult.

I have been surprized during my first play visit that the doctor has a nurse with him... she did various exams on me but I was not able to see any other woman since then

As a Bi female myself, I have found success just flirting with many girls, and watching for signs they may be interested in pursuing it. Good luck!

I'm Bi as well, more lesbian, but still technically bi. I approach meeting women just like guys do. I approach any potential 'date' and flirt. I see if they are receptive or not and then go from there. Also, I don't limit potential 'dates'. I've found some of my most intense meetings with those that don't stand out. It's all about the hunt.

I belong to the "Y" and they have open showers and lockers. I will see if anyone is looking as I am showering or changing. I will try to make small talk and take my time staying naked as long as possible, sometimes I even blow dry my hair in the nude. I have had some luck but i always try to be careful. If I think someone might be interested I will ask if they would like to go for coffee. Good luck

That's called trolling for pussy as it were.

You know Liquid, it would have to seem by now that I am following you around here but I honestly am not. Off topic and this is directed to you LIquidsky. I grew up in a generation when doctors were highly respected. When I'm at work and a doctor comes in I automatically get up and offer him my seat. I am one of the only few who do that. Most of them graciously decline I sort of still see them as being up higher than myself and with good reason. I sometimes forget that doctors are people too even though I have been dating one for the past almost 8 years, lol. Anyway when Doc says things like pussy, or tits, or cock or other terms such as these I still either chuckle or it turns me on, lol. I am not sure why it has this sort of reaction on me but it does. Still to this day when he says the word pussy it cracks me up and he's just started being comfortable telling me to suck his cock. And well, no matter what kind of mood I am in when he tells me that it sends me into instant hornyness. Not sure why but it does. I just never thought I would hear a doctor talk that way. I love it when you guys do though because it lets me know that you guys are people too, and as a nurse, I greatly appreciate that.

Mashie

Ha ha Mashie I love the attention. I always respect nurses because I would be lost without them and also I would pay big time if I didn't.

Thank you Liquid for respecting us. Most of the doctors I have had the pleasure of working with over the years love me and respect me. Most of the time when I tell them I want something they give it to me. They know that I have the best interest of my patient in mind. I also never call them over stupid shit either. I always tell them when I meet them that I love to learn and it takes a village sort of thing. When I don't know something I ask them. And when I ask for something and they don't give it to me I have been fortunate enough to work with great doctors who, after not giving me what I want, I ask them why, and they are not offended. They know I want to learn and they have been great about explaining to me why they went with a different choice. I love that. And I think they probably appreciate me wanting to learn from them.

Mashie