Massage Anyone?

OK, I know sensual massage is kind of old hat, but I'm wondering how many women or men enjoy massage (giving and/or receiving), and what type really turns them on.

Recently, my boyfriend, who is a sexy, metrosexual, professional-type with uber soft hands that haven't labored and have been pampered with regular parafin dips, gave me an ice massage. It was a hot hot hot summer day. I had just arrived at his place and was over-heated. He blind-folded me, then returned to give me the most awesome, light body massage with ice. I was surprised. The cool ice, combined with his gentle touch and soft hands...we're talking nirvana, baby! The slippery, cool wetness glided over my body. I was in ectasy. I can't wait to return to his place all "hot and bothered" again, and get treated to this amazing ice massage. It really turned me on.

Anyone else care to share a massage experience or weigh in?

Arianna

*closes eyes and thinks of how a massage feels

I enjoy having sub give a nice slow, full body massage. It just lets me know he's thinking of me and wants to make me feel special for once.

I'd give damn near anything to either give OR receive a sensual full body massage. It's been way too long either way.

ldb

😉 Ooo a full body massage is heaven and under the right circumstances can lead to so many places hehe😉

The local massage therapy school offers specials...of course this is under supervision. Never had one, but sounds great. I'm not wanting to get one from a "guy",the reason I've never partaken of the offer! It would be embarassing have an erection under those circumstances! 😳

I personnaly love giving or receiving massages, it can be so hot ans sexy that it rarely stays to that level ... :😃

I really love to give massage and to receive it. I do it at least once a month. Some years ago, the lady who gave me my regular massage said that she also organized courses to learn it. So I did follow a course and now I am really trained in sensual relaxation massage. Important is the whole setting: a warm environment, zen inspired, warm oil, soft music, candles, soft lightning and clean and soft tissues to lie on. Then start first with the legs and work all your way up to the head. Go very close to the genital areas, but without touching them really, that makes it very sensual. And always take back those parts of the body that already got a massage, that will keep the energy running in the whole body, during the whole massage. And at last: do it fully naked, uncovered. Being fully exposed makes it much more sensual.

I do this several times a week and love it! I have the gentleman disrobe and lay face down. I start by pour warm oil on his back and gently massaging. I eventually disrobe to a g string and sit in the small of his back. I pour more oil on us both adding extra to the small of his back ( under me). I place my elbows and push up the back until we are skin to skin. I repeat several times and turn to face his legs. I use my forearms on the back of the legs and slowly glide down until we are bottom to bottom. Repeat several times touching just enough for him to feel your warmth. I lay back to back and slide slowly down his bottom and then turn over and rub my hands and body slowly from foot to head. I have him turn over. I then sit on his arm carefully placing his hand so he can just feel my heat and I rub wrist to shoulder. I sit on his chest facing the feet and repeat on front . The key is to tease the entire time! When all is said and done I sit at his head and sratch andmassage his the scalp softly.

Massage is part of foreplay is it not?? I love to give and recieve massage

Hi all new member here

There is nothing better than a massage to make you feel closer to your partner. When you give a massage you get a chance to sense your partners reactions to your touch. I once did an oily full body massage while my partner was on all fours on the bed. At the end of the massage i put plenty of massage oil on my hands and then grabbed one of her breasts with both hands while it was hanging down from her body. I then massaged both of her breasts this way and we both enjoyed that tremendously. Anyone else has any good ideas for massage positions?

I routinely go to a local massage place where I have developed a lengthy relationship with my favorite masseuse. I periodically give her a massage which is beneficial to both of us. I love to do this at every opportunity I can and find to be as relaxing to me as her giving me a massage.

I just love giving warm oil massages before sex and when the woman approching a climax I mount her and finish it.

I love to givng and receiving a message, its so relaxing before and after sex

My husband determined that massage was a sure way to get me in the mood. He came to enjoy rubbing my naked body so much that he bought a folding massage table for the house. The height and narrowness of it makes it much more comfortable to him and so he can rub me for much longer periods. I like when he kneads the muscles, but the best to me is just long flowing strokes. After a while of that I will do ANYTHING to thank him!

Wow, what a massage!

Use the KY warming messaging gel and lubricant. That stuff works like a charm.

Massage is a big turn on for me, both giving and receiving. Tantric is wonderful too if you haven't tried it. Lie back and relax, enjoy!

There used to be a nice massage therapy business near here but it closed because the town was expanding the commuter train station parking lot. I couldn't justify the expense on a weekly basis but I always did at least once a month and it was always on a Friday afternoon. I made sure I showered before leaving for the shop in the morning. I'd go for a late light lunch with a couple scotchs. My appointment was always around 3PM and I always got the 1 1/2 hour session. I'd bring my own music because I didn't like the stuff they played in the rooms. I like it deep and vigorous. They only had 2 therapists who could deliver. One was an oriental guy with good strong hands and the other was a woman with a strong athletic build who competed in triathlons. I was nude but covered with a small blanket. These weren't "happy ending" massages but they did get close to the good parts and I always felt like I was made of rubber when I left. I miss that place.

I personally love the feel of skin, so giving a massage is bliss for me. My ex would come home from the gym all tensed up and I would spend hours working out the knots. It was heaven, guess you could say I have a fetish for skin.

Mmmm I love both giving and receiving a those long flowing strokes. The bliss thet follows is almost perfect relaxation. Yes it makes you want to do anything fo your partner. To those that have never experianced a professional massage - PLEASE do so. You will Love it.

I would love to meet someone who is into both giving and receiving this kind of massage.

@sweetmmmelissa - wow. that was quite a description! Thanks for sharing!

Massages are quite the most sensual kind of touch i've ever heard of. Thats why i love to make a massage, especially to my girlfriend. You dont have to worry about hurting someone if You are gentle. And there's a lot of videos on the google video showing massage techniques. And belive me, your partner would apreciate this.

Love to give, love to receive....

I find massage a nice and theraputic way to start esp considering I have a bad back and go the chiropractic route often.

I find it alos breaks the ice if she or I are feel less than interested in sex as it is a warmup.

The addition of a Magic Wand only adds to the fun of it all.

I am a member of a massage exchange site, and have met up with a few people to exchange massages for free, and its an absolute luxury...

I had an hours long massage yesterday, from someone who has 30 years experienece, so it was the ultimate in all types of massage, including Rolfing, and Tantric.

It leaves me soooo chilled out, but also stimulated at the same time...

This morning my body is feeling buzzing!

http://www.massageexchange.com

What an excellent link, many thanks for that, something I shall peruse later.

I used to have what was advertised as a Chinese massage, it was very nice, given by a very nice older lady. I always got aroused, which she completely ignored. I went to her often, the massage was so good and made me feel so alive haha

I've always loved physical touch. Getting back scratches as a kid was hugely comforting, and now I spoil myself with professional massage regularly. Any girl i date who likes to give/get massage gets bonus points! I found a beautiful OakWorks massage table at a pawn shop for $150. It was brand new. Several years later, they still have 3 of them so i occasionally suggest to friends who are fans to go get one. I will say that quite often, massage isn't sensual per sey, that i use it to trance out and relax. it has to be deliberate to be sensual and arousing. Otherwise it puts me to sleep. Either way, it's a core facet of my sexuality.

Its so relaxing and for me a great way to start having some fun

Y wife gives a great massage-always with a happy ending