Nope the two had absolutely nothing to do with each . I was out of diapers by the time I was two, and they werenât even on my radar as an interest or fetish until I became incontinent , I never had an interest or thought about them either way until I had to, since then I learned to love them , probably because I can â affordâ to love them .
nobody to hide them from ,there is no stigma ,shame or humiliation for being incontinent that anyone can level against me .
nobody knows for sure that I use diapers ( as far as people who donât actually know me ) however most people assume all disabled people in wheelchairs âmustâ .
as Part of me loving diapers , I wear different brands for an entire day before having an opinion positive or negative and if you know anything about diapers , you know there are some I would hesitate to use on a paper cut . So as you can imagine I may or may not have had some spectacular failures during âtestingâ this is where âaffording â comes in if I have a huge diaper failure itâs not a big deal my aide changes me and gets Me squared away , with the proliferation of audio video devices that fit in your pocket would you want to be the Baboon that goes viral making a big deal about a guy who âmustâ wear diapers , diapers leak thatâs what they do !
so be it my normal well established preferred diaper I have confidence in or a any brand test subject that should fail to adequately protect . John/Jane public doesnât know and doesnât care the difference ( normal people donât play Russian roulette with diapers or even know it exists,shhhhh our little secret ) so all kidding aside everyone who knows me knows âI am confined to a diaper and a power wheelchairâ and strangers assume I am , so nobody makes a peep should the diaper become evident due to failure .
and yes I am the guy who thinks Every question deserves an answer young or old ,kinda stupid to intelligent & bold , I am happy to discuss my lived experience or opinions on anything ( another secret about disabled people many people think either A. we are dumb ,B. we were born âthis way â , or C.thank us for our service in the war )
and Just in case you donât know me , I see nothing wrong with those who chose diapers before they choose us , tape up ,pin up do your duty be it fun or functional .