Genuinely constipated

I have been preforming enemas once a week for a month and I am still constipated. Any thoughts on the matter? Thank you!

Taking too many will cause that. have you ever tried a suppository??

Hi Boogie!

Once a week is not many, but fun! Does your bowel move in between enemas? I do have a suggestion: psyllium husk flour. This is available from most health stores, and is often marketed as 'Colon cleanse.' It comes in two grades of milling: coarse and fine. I think the fine grade is best; the coarse tastes worse and has more lumps in it. You put a teaspoon or two on top of a glass of water, briskly and drink at once. It's one of those things that will set to a kind of loose jelly if your don't get on with the job!

It's neutral tasting soluble fibre that the body doesn't digest. It adds bulk to the contents of your intestines, and also makes an enema more pleasant (I like a lot of 'fallout'!) Be careful to drink plenty if you're going to do this or the stuff produces long ropes of rubbery, slimy shit that doesn't seem to come to an end!

Johnny

You might not be constipated at all, rather you may not have enough bulk in your intestines/colon for it to have enough peristalsis to move waste along until more time passes and sufficient bulk forms. Also, if you are taking very large "distention" enemas, you might also be overstretching your colon, (sort of a short-term acquired megacolon) which will have a rebound period where it has to get back to normal before peristalsis becomes effective again.

The use of fiber and bulk formers others have mentioned above should help.

After all I have read her on this site, I dont think anyone has actually mentioned that they use an enema for constipation on their partners or themselves.

Are there guys who excited by the though of their gfs being constipated, and you holding the 'key' to her relief?? :-\

Are there anyone woman too, who deliberatley hold in their bowels too have their bfs give them an enemas ... 😘

I like the feeling of being stuffed, however it comes; and even more, the feeling of release from an enema that flushes it all away. And if the first 'plug' of shit stretches my anus nicely, that adds to the pleasure.

So, I have done this. Find an Immodium generic (loperamide 2mg). The cheapest one I know is called Prodium, and we keep a jar of five hundred tablets for my wife's bowel problem. They're quite cheap, ExPat: about 50 SA cents a tablet. Now find out how many you have to take to stop your bowel from emptying. The drug has a ten hour half life in your system. They don't recommend more than eight tablets a day, but you must space them regularly to get it to work right. Start with one every six hours. If it doesn't stop you from shitting, increase the dose until it does. Don't take more tablets at once, just reduce the interval between tablets.

I'm quite resistant to the stuff. I have to take ten a day to bring my colon to a a halt; but I don't recommend this.

After a good clean out enema, I leave two days and then start taking the tablets. It will be about 8-10 days before I begin to feel stuffed, and I can usually feel a hard mass of shit through the wall of my abdomen. My record was 15 days before the next enema. Is that constipated, or what?

The drug does have side effects for me. I'm OK for a week, but after that I get very weary and paradoxically it becomes hard to sleep. However, the enema expulsion is humungous - a rock pile! It will almost always block a toilet if expelled there, for the first turd can be up to two and half inches thick and easily five inches long.

I have an old fashioned chamber pot to receive the load; and in this I can break up the shit into manageable bits.

Johnny

I am genuinely constipated more often than not when I do an enema. That is why I got them as a kid and teenager. They were the weapon of last resort when the laxatives failed. For me, the constipation enhances the experience. Don't ask me why, though. It must have something to do with those childhood experiences.

Well obviously enema are thought to be useful in case of constipation. but many people really think that enemas are things that could generate pleasure.

for example many people remember when they were given enemas in their childhood and want to try that experience when they're adults.

i think this could be one reason to try enemas

Most of my enemas are taken "for the fun of it" or simply because I feel like taking one.

I seldom get constipated when I'm home and following my normal routine. When I travel, it's a different story. The hours of sitting in a vehicle, the change in diet and routine all add up to constipation. Because of it, I always carry a bag in my luggage.

By about the second day, I am constipated and use enemas in the motel to solve the problem. Those tend to be rather clinical and there is nothing particularly erotic about them.

I have a friend who really enjoys his erotic enemas, in fact he gets hard if I even say the word on the phone, or type it in chat,but he does not like to take them when he really needs one.

I really had to dish out some tough love the other night to get him to wake up and come to,to what he was letting himself in for, not going for 5 days. He had forgotten to eat the things he needed to to help things along.

Does anyone else not like to take one when NEEDED?

Had a friend a few years ago who had to take morphine regularly for cancer pain. He described the experience of taking a dump so eloquently it is worth sharing. It was, he said, "Like passing razor blades!" Yea, verily! But on the wings of a nice enema, all that bulky hard stuff just glides out jet-propelled. What's not to like?

Johnny

OBSTIPATION; --yes, it's a real word! I first heard/saw it from my Dr of about 10 years. He was quickl to point out the difference. My 'birth defect' causes frequent obstructions, and requires cleaning out. Early in our working together my Dr. sent me down to tthe ER to get cleaned out. More often now he just sends me into the MOR (Minor Operating Room) where they do Sigmascopes and other procedures not complex enough for the ER.

(I have been blessed.)

the boxcar

I am about the same as eboyhou. If I don't go for a couple of days, I need one to get going again. The enema helps make the BM easier and I feel better afterwards.

While I've never delibrately constipated myself, I find the idea of being given an enema by a boyfriend to relieve my "problem" highly arousing.

I lied about being constipated once to try to get my bf to administer one. He declined.

I geninely was constipated after giving birth, but my husband (ex, now) wouldn't let me take one, let alone give me one.

Still, it's a nice fantasy. I like to imagine being scolded for letting myself get in that condition, and being told firmly that I have to take at least two quarts, no matter how uncomfortable it is.

I love the idea of being doctored and dominated at the same time.

EroticExpat asked about being excited your girl friend is constipated and being able to give her an enema. The hard part is getting to where you give her the enema. She is usually in a foul mood and has a headache and really doesn't want to hear about me wanting to give her an enema. The enema is not an erotic enema. It is a medical enema. The exciting part is when she feels better afterwards and is now fun to be with.

Walk softly and carry a warm enema --- Fred

P.S. Monty Python advocated using Dynamite as a medical cure. I do not think they talked about constipation. (The words constipation and Dynamite do sometime get mentioned in the same sentence.) Monty Python used Dynamite to cure athletes foot. "Missing and presumed cured", as they said.

Yes, there are times that I really need one, but keep putting it off because I dread the inconvenience and discomfort. I wish my wife was more controlling in these matters and would insist on an enema and set things up, but that is not the case. If I set things up and ask her to give them to me, then most times she will

Whilst I was a child a was constipated regularly, and was given Enemas via the local Nursing agency

In my teenage years my parents introduced our family to

Colonic irrigations

it my late teens I read everything I could get my hands on in relation to Enemas and so on.

It was in my early 30's when I found the Internet, and that totally changed my life (for the better)

Pete

In regards to my ex who was not willing to give me an enema - he did buy me prune juice. Eventually it worked. He was very anal-phobic.

Like I said, we're divorced now.

Both my wife and I take enemas on a regular basis for relief of constipation. I was given many enemas while growing up and my wife began taking enemas when she was 15 years old. And we take enemas for fun, too.

Anne B. I feel very sorry for your ex-friend who refused to give you an enema (fool!) and your ex-husband for not even allowing you to take one! I would have been first in line with the bulb or bag (or both! I find that using the bulb first clears out the rectum, making the second one that much more comfortable).

I've never had a bulb, believe it or not. It's my fantasy to be taken over my partner's knee and being given bulbful after bulbful.

I'm going to buy myself one for Valentine's Day.

Been constipated all my life ... colon is genetically too long. Was given enemas throughout my childhood and into adolescence. Fortunately for me, I came to enjoy them. Occasionally, when very active, the system will move itself, but otherwise bedtime or mid-morning are enema times.

For those who think enemas are either therapeutic OR erotic, there is one situation when an erotic enema is actually therapeutic. If you are faced with impactation right at the opening, it is difficult if not impossible, and if possible very messy, to insert an enema nozzle. However, with an erection, the sphincter closes, pushes the solid matter back and makes way for the nozzle. Sorry ladies, I've been told my several partners and professional that this does not apply to the fairer sex. One of the reasons my erotic enemas are the very best for actually cleaning the system, is that as long as I am aroused, I can comfortably take up to two quarts and reach just about everything that needs to be dislodged. So, nothing like an erotic enema for constipation.

Anne b: Do you have any idea why your ex was so anal phobic?

Fred,

Regarding my anal-phobic ex:

Not really. I asked him recently if he had a bad experience with enemas as a kid. He vehemently denied ever having one.

I know he's never been comfortable around sickness or anything medical. He used to always insist that I shower after work before he'd touch me.

Hi Boogie...

You can certainly get a ton of advice here, but I would suggest that it would help the 'advisors' if you included a bit more info in your query, re your situation. For example, do you only take one enema on the weekend? My dear old Mum held the opinion that One was Never enough, especially if there was No relief. Second, do you use anything other than plain water? I think you will find if you scour the various threads here that something like Ivory soap, or Bonner's Castile enema soap is a generally accepted 'first' enema. Also, of course, if you can't retain the enema for more than a very short period, the likelihood of it 'helping' relieve your condition will be diminished. A common cause of 'premature expulsion' is too low a solution temperature. Again, from the hundreds of knowledgeable members here, the enema's temperature should be above body temperature; not a lot, but definitely warmer. Scour the threads for more accurate numbers. Definitely, if it is too cold, your body will want to eject it right away; and though that may seem like it may be effective, because it is stimulating something, it actually isn't. Some constipation is caused by insufficient consumption of water, which results in the feces becoming hard, and difficult to shift. For an enema to help with this phenomena, and in general, the body has to retain the enema for a certain period of time. (As I kid, I always thought Mum wanted me to hold my enema as some sort of punishment, but now, in my advancing years, I understand the reason). And, of course, the size of your enema is relevant. Of course it will depend on your body size, but to be effective an enema has to be of sufficient size. In any case, should you not want to publish more detail here, consider contacting any of the people that have submitted advice here, by a message in this board.

The people in this board have a wide range of experience, and are willing to share.

Happy waterings..

Cos.

I myself would like to add that sometimes to help get regular you need to take a good probotic with L bifidus in it and acidophiles will help also with friendly bacteria in the lower intestine.

it also helps regulate your system and if you read up on the L BIFIDUS enema it will greatly help build up new bacteria in the lower intestines.

Cristie Amolong on the web site optimal health has a bunch of great mixes to help heel the colon as well as you digestion system I recommend her site highly and the differant probotics out there to help you so go and get helped with these places and people and live life well