Shaved or not??

My wife has always shaved some but left a little. After many years of saying I would love a completely shaved look, she allowed me to shave her bare. She liked it. We usually give her a shave about every week or two and she doesn't miss having the hair.

Several years ago I had laser hair removal from shoulders down to my toes. I am completely smooth. I was a bit anxious wondering when I was viewed naked (doctor and gym showers) would I be viewed as a bit strange. Well I have had no problems with how I am viewed or how I view myself. I have not missed the hair one bit and I love having smooth healthy skin and so does my wife.

I strongly prefer a natural, full bush. There's something so attractive and kind of visceral about that for me. Really great memories of my first girlfriend when it comes to this topic. Maybe that's what influenced me, not unlike first or early experiences were the start of many peoples' medfet.

Love women shaved . everything so smooth and you can see all the gorgeous detail of her body

A clean shaven vagina allows for husband or SO to observe if any unusual changes are developing and the opportunity to suggest she see a doctor regarding the changes. Keep those lady parts in excellent condition by keeping them healthy.

I like it shaved or trimmed, but the doctor can shave too when she is laying in the stirrups;-)

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A clean shaven vagina allows for husband or SO to observe if any unusual changes are developing and the opportunity to suggest she see a doctor regarding the changes. Keep those lady parts in excellent condition by keeping them healthy.

A woman doesn't need to be shaven or trimmed to allow this.

I check my wife on a regular basis and her pubic hair is not an impediment to me being able to see everything.

My husband loves my ginger bush and says that he does not want me to ever shave it off. 🌹 So that's the way it is going to be. He says he doesn't understand why any woman would want to shave her bush off or be bare, especially women (me 😉 ) who have red or ginger hair. He likes seeing my bush and I love showing it to him and I also like my bush.

Now I will trim every once in a while if it gets a little too wild, which it does at times, but it is mostly around the bikini line. That is so no one else except those I want, get to see if the 'collar matches the cuffs'. 😉

For those women who do 'go bare', that is their choice and more power to them. 😃

Ms Lila, after seeing you album with images that may or may not be you, I have to admit that the ginger bush on that fabulous body that may or may not be yours is EXTREMELY EROTIC. I do also like seeing the detail of the vulva. Ever think about keeping the bush above your labia majora, and keeping those pretty lips clean shaven or trimmed very short so they are visible? I love that look too.

@WildBill2 Ms Lila, after seeing you album with images that may or may not be you, I have to admit that the ginger bush on that fabulous body that may or may not be yours is EXTREMELY EROTIC. I do also like seeing the detail of the vulva. Ever think about keeping the bush above your labia majora, and keeping those pretty lips clean shaven or trimmed very short so they are visible? I love that look too.

My husband likes my bush as it is and we've tried it in various forms or 'styles' over the years. We keep coming back to the 'natural state' of my bush but we will trim it if we are going to be doing outings, such as back yard BBQ's or poolside with friends and neighbors. Then we will trim it to keep it from sticking out around the edges.

But I really love watching and experiencing the look or sight of his penis 'parting my hair' 😃 and disappearing into me. I love how that looks. 😉 It is more pronounced in my 'natural state'.

My wife has always shaved some but left a little. After many years of saying I would love a completely shaved look, she allowed me to shave her bare. She liked it. We usually give her a shave about every week or two and she doesn't miss having the hair...

Prov1, my wife and I share your and your wife's feelings about pubic hair. Before we were married and soon after our relationship became sexual, we thought it would be fun to try sex with all our hair from our waist to our knees shaved and all that bare skin generously lubed with baby oil. We loved how good it felt. Our bare bodies, even when pressed tightly together, glided back and forth over each other so effortlessly. We were addicted. After we married we started permanently removing our body hair, pubic hair, and anal hair. Now it's all gone.

@Ms Lila --But I really love watching and experiencing the look or sight of his penis 'parting my hair' 😃 and disappearing into me. I love how that looks. 😉 It is more pronounced in my 'natural state'.

That's an exciting mental image you just gave me. I sometimes wish my wife could go back to having hair, but it's gone for good now. Oh well. Different strokes for different folks. Life would be boring if everyone preferred the same thing.

I absolutely love the feeling of my smooth silky soft lady parts ! I have kept myself shaved smooth for years.

I did have a request to not shave for several weeks so he could shave me and it was really erotic and hot to be shaved ,but the growing it was torture for me, I really hated it and missed my smooth pussy.

Its bare for me and I prefer my partners that way too 😉

@bridgette et al, It is not always practical, but I find it fun, incorporate it into arousal to shave a pussy the way I do it. It's a wonderful way to connect with your partner.

@ master intrepid, absolutely! There has to be a great level of trust there, and you are in a most vulnerable state , fully exposed and not something done by candlelight 😉

As much as waxing is uncomfortable, I don’t think I’ll ever pick up a razor again. No nicks, no cuts, super smooth. I kept it natural most of my life, sometimes trimmed, sometimes wild, shaving a few times for fun. At some point I started waxing before going on vacation so I didn’t have to worry about shaving every day before going to the beach. I was hooked! I remember being conflicted when I was having my kids because shaving wasn’t exactly commonplace and I worried that if I showed up to the dr with a shaved pussy, he’d think I was some sort of kinky freak! Now it seems like women worry that if they show up with a full bush, the dr will think they are a some sort of alternative hippy! You can’t win! I’ve asked my hub what he thinks and his only answer is that he has no opinion on the wrapping so long as he’s allowed to open the gift! I know he likes it waxed because he likes to watch, but he’d never insist I keep it that way, or turn his nose up at it when it’s grown out.

I think whatever makes you feel sexy is the way to go!

@ master intrepid, absolutely! There has to be a great level of trust there, and you are in a most vulnerable state , fully exposed and not something done by candlelight 😉

When my wife came home from the hospital after having our first child she was invitingly smooth and that turned me on like never before. She said if she'd known that would do that to me she would have done it long before. Alas, she lied! within a month it was growing back but I was able to get her to allow me to clear cut it a couple times. I never cut anything that should not have been cut.

I do wonder if any of you have tried using an electric shaver. I never hear any mention of them.

I have found no problems employing electric shavers on the genital/anal area.

When my wife came home from the hospital after having our first child she was invitingly smooth and that turned me on like never before. She said if she'd known that would do that to me she would have done it long before. Alas, she lied! within a month it was growing back but I was able to get her to allow me to clear cut it a couple times. I never cut anything that should not have been cut.

I do wonder if any of you have tried using an electric shaver. I never hear any mention of them.

Yes, now that my wife has been clean shaven for about three months she uses an electric shaver to keep it shaved clean.

My husband has kept me clean as the Board of Health for many years. Most of the time he shaves me once a week. We have used Bikini Cream sensitive formula by Nair also. That's good for a couple weeks. For years now he has anointed me with Burt's Bee's Radiance Body Lotion after each hair removal. It's assumed into the skin quickly and leaves me shimmering down yonder. Kinda glows in the dark! Makes it easy for my husband to sniff me out!

It all comes down to technique and taking your time doing it. I use a safety razor, bar soap, wash rag, very warm water and my fingers. What gives me an extra edge in shaving is that I shave in the shower with no mirror and I use my finger tips to feel how good a job I am doing. If the hair is really long, I will use electric clippers to get it short enough for shaving. Then I take wash rag that is wet with very warm water, not scalding hot, but hot enough when placed on the pussy and press down it is a very nice warm feeling. The idea is to relax the woman and wet the area so you can apply soap as I make sure the area is really wet. I apply bar soap to the area, rub the area well and do it in a nice massage, sensual way as you work up bit of lather and soften the hair. I have a bowl of warm water to use to rinse the razor as it will get clogged. Now I shave against the grain that the hair grows starting around the pussy and working my way in. It does 2 things, helps build trust and just easier to do and get it all. As you get to the folds, you are going to have to gently pulls out the lips and gently shave them so you don't get any nicks. Remember, not a contest on how fast you do this and enjoy playing with the lips and pussy as you do this as it will turn her on. I also make sure I shave around the anus to get those hairs as well. When you get it all done, then get a fresh bowl of very warm water and wash away the soap taking your time. This can also leave her open to a bit of playing with clit, inside the pussy opening and the anus. Also she is in a good position to slip an enema nozzle in her and clean her out. Depending on the woman, you can apply baby powder to her pussy or maybe some lotion.

My Makes it easy for my husband to sniff me out!

That reminded me of something that was popular sometime in the 70s about the same time as the edible panties fad. There was a myriad of feminine sprays everyone at the watering hole was talking about so my wife bought some. They smelled good but the shock you got after sniffing your way to heaven and tasting those nasty things was indescribable. Made you want to relive the days in Jr. High sniffing girls bicycle seats without attempting to taste them.

I absolutely agree with rabidbiker

Everyone has their own preferences. So if you are lucky enough to have a partner willing to keep their downstairs area groomed to your preference, life is good!

I had laser a few years ago but it doesn’t last forever and I feel it’s a lot of money to waste when waxing eventually kills the hair follicles anyway. I like to be smooth, personal preference really. In the bedroom I’m not really bothered what men are like, just as long as it’s hygenic

I shave on and off but I honestly do a terrible job. It's so hard to see what I'm doing and reach and shave in the right direction all at the same time. And my skin is too sensitive for waxing. Bad things happen. I kinda gave up and just trim it short instead. If I was ever in a relationship with somebody who wanted to shave it for me I think that would be the nicest thing. And I would absolutely return the favor.

I think it's best done by a friend. It seems rather difficult to do to yourself. I would be happy to be shaved if my lover would do it and naturally I would be delighted to be allowed the honor/pleasure of shaving her. I was instructed to show up shaved for my vasectomy so I looked at all those wrinkles on the jewel bag and asked my wife to do it for me. Since I was getting cut so she wouldn't have to I thought she might be willing to do that for me. Once more proving I had shit for brains. FORGET IT!!!

When I went out onto a nude beach back in 2015 during a cruise, I saw a lot women who have shaved around the vagina. I think that the woman's vagina is pretty when it is shaved. I had made some comments about that under some photos.

All natural for me

I love a gal all natural in the private areas. It just turns me on very much! When I was in my 20's their was a gal that lived in the condo right across the street from me. I was a copier repair person and she worked at one of my accounts I serviced and was in love with her beautiful blue eyes and very long dark hair. One Saturday afternoon I walked out of my condo and saw her across the street washing her car. I walked across the street to say hello snd how she was doing at work and what's new. When I got to the other side of the street she was wearing some very short cutoff jeans that bearly covered her bottom. In the front I could see her public hair coming out of the bottom edges of her very short cutoff jeans. I got an instant hardon and hoped she did not notice it. I still remember that day after many years. It still brings great memories and how hot it was seeing that from a gal that was so good looking and had blues too!

So my vote would be Natural down there for Sure!

I still keep my wife clean shaven after many years of marriage, and loving doing the job.

My wife had her pubic hair all removed with a laser. There are a few stragglers but it is all gone. We use Nair bikini cream to keep the rest off. I love the look and feel and so does she. The laser treatments are a bit spendy but worth it.