Punishment Suggestions

I think humiliation is the way to go then. Have mutual friends over, sit her in the middle of the room and make her masturbate in front of them. have her tell her most embarrassing fantasies to them. Then have everyone in the room spank her.

Try chilli pepper, cut open and the inside over your genitals, then try it when you havent got ice or yoghurt near by or when you are tied up

Try using a leg spreader and tying it up to forces the legs to remain open and remaining in the air while spanking the insides of her thighs buttocks and clit.

Try the hardest one: impose her a chastity belt and start with a week of full chastity. Choose a belt that leaves the anus free, so you can take your own pleasure.

Topaz is that a punishment or reward? lol

My domes disapline. "In the bathroom for 3 enemas, I'm going to clean out your ass out for later." Your soapy enema is ready take a look in the see how its nice and white. Down for the soapy' your going to get every drope with help of in line pump. That done lets get ready for a warm waster enema again you'll get all, or else. Now the 3 enema is ready. Note the bag is on the shower curtain for fast enema. These are the rules its going to be fast, your about ready for a real experience, If you make me stop you'l hold the enema for 4 minutes, or your get the brush. Her we go. Yes I know your filling fast, and its going to keep going in, or else. Beg all you want there is still more to go. I know your in pain but its over. That was a real tough 2 minutes, that I won"t forget.

I enjoy giving a woman a good spanking, combined with an enema, then corner time. If she has really been acting up, we go out to dinner/supper afterwards with two stipulations. She must wear a butt plug and we go to a restaurant where there are wooden booths/chairs so that her tender bottom feels the full effect of the spanking. Her squirming/fidgeting is quite noticeable to others and often times brings stares that makes her quite embarrassed with her plight.

Get her off, Then a Big soapy enema right after wards. Repete if you need to. Until she decides she will be good. She will BEG to stop.

Figging is an intense punishment.

Ginger Root – Selection:

When selecting a piece of Ginger Root for “figging” the fresher the better. I find the strongest ginger root at a local Asian market. The selection (quantity & size) is better than the big brand super markets and I can usually find one just right for carving into a small plug with a natural handle. The best size to start with looks like a small hand. I cut out the rough shape about 4” to 5” long and then use a vegetable peeler for the final shaping… being careful to create a notch like a small but plug varying the size to the subs anus... you don’t what it breaking off and getting lost up there. Rinse with cold water and store in a zip bag.

Application:

Before inserting rinse with cold water again. Slowly insert the tip into the sub's anus. Don't rush, take your time and let the anticipation build. Wet ginger is slick enough to slide in with care. When the anus finally opens and accepts the ginger, slide it in up to the ring and let the sub close around it. Ginger takes a little while for the effects to happen. I like my sub to lay across my lap with her hands restrained behind her with my legs restraining her legs so I can feel her wiggle, bend and try to get away. Now the fun begins…with each spank my sub would clench her butt cheeks…each time the sensation gets more and more intense. After a dozen or more whacks I like to squeeze her cheeks together for the greatest possible sensation. You can also fig a clitoris, restrained tongue even male genitalia. For increased potency store the completed ginger plug in the refrigerator for a couple of days but rinse before use.

Wow, I thought my wife is tough. hope she does not see this and get any ideas. Worst ever, is not wearing thong, taking a long,100 swat paddling that will literally blister my ass, worst is my 38 yo old step son applying the blisters. Sitting here now, waiting until he arrives, looking at that f---ing plastic blister paddle, not much fun.

Fill her ass up with a enema then an inflatable but plug and put vibrator in her slit and hold her down and enjoy

Have od punishment I had as a child was to kneel on the floor and hold a few textbooks over my head. If I lowered the books at all Irreceived a major spanking. Hold for several hours.

Kneeling on rice or grits is also good. It feels like broken glass on your knees and it is hard to stay put.

Have one of her close friends watch you spank her.

Spank her at her work. Not only is it embarrassing for her but the office will be talking about it for weeks.

Try having her wear warm clothes when its hot outside and go for a walk/run in the park. The looks you get are quite interesting. Or you could do vice versa, have her wear shorts tank and flops during colder weather.

** if doing the hot clothes in hot weather make sure you have plenty of water and keep an eye on her. Heat stroke can happen very quickly

If she cares how she dresses, like she's a preppy stylish dresser, having her wear a miss matched uncomfortable outfit will probably drive her nuts.

And that's all I have for tonight.

So, you inventive tops, how often does your bottom pack her, or his, bags and leave?

And, when it happens, do you wonder why?

@ Simmarrah,

Heat stroke can kill, does kill. Here is a link from WebMd about heatstroke.

http://www.webmd.com/a-to-z-guides/heat-stroke-symptoms-and-treatment

http://www.webmd.com/fitness-exercise/heat-exhaustion

http://www.webmd.com/a-to-z-guides/dehydration-directory

http://www.webmd.com/fitness-exercise/heat-cramps

http://www.webmd.com/first-aid/tc/heat-related-illnesses-topic-overview

Have od punishment I had as a child was to kneel on the floor and hold a few textbooks over my head. If I lowered the books at all Irreceived a major spanking. Hold for several hours.

Kneeling on rice or grits is also good. It feels like broken glass on your knees and it is hard to stay put.

Have one of her close friends watch you spank her.

Spank her at her work. Not only is it embarrassing for her but the office will be talking about it for weeks.

Try having her wear warm clothes when its hot outside and go for a walk/run in the park. The looks you get are quite interesting. Or you could do vice versa, have her wear shorts tank and flops during colder weather.

** if doing the hot clothes in hot weather make sure you have plenty of water and keep an eye on her. Heat stroke can happen very quickly

If she cares how she dresses, like she's a preppy stylish dresser, having her wear a miss matched uncomfortable outfit will probably drive her nuts.

Heat illness is dangerous. Simple heat illness can progress VERY lightening speed fast and can become a VERY serious, Very critical emergency that can result in death.

And that's all I have for tonight.

I have had heatstroke more times than I wish along heat exhaust, heat cramps. I have had it progress to heatstroke very fast without warning. It is very critical to arrest it, bring it under control ASAP! Heat illness and all of the types is not something to play around with. The consequences can be deadly very quickly! Having had it many times, understanding it, knowing what to do if it happens to me or someone else, it can still be VERY frightening. DO NOT ENGAGE IN THIS! DO NOT ENCOURAGE OTHERS TO DO THIS!

As for behavior that can cause frostbit, hypothermia etc, this is just as blatantly stupid and dangerous!

Andie

This is really quite a forum.

Many of you are not just in thrall of a passing erotic moment. You are happily contemplating inflicting pain on some innocent victim.

If it's just fantasy, it's dangerous and disgusting .... Doubly so because it involves children.

If it's real, or becomes real, it's criminal.

Absolutely appalling.

Plug her ass with a double balloon nozzle and give her 2 quarts of Dr. Bronners Peppermint soap, one tbsp per qt. when the bag is empty, plug it or clamp it closed. Blow up the enema bag like a ballooon, then hook it back to the nozzle. Unclamp the nozzle and enema hose, and squeeze the air into her. Remove the bag and plug the nozzle again. Enjoy her tears and screaming as the soapsuds/air enema cuases horrific ctramps.

By the way, for those who talk of inflicting pain on an innocent victim: she's a submissive! Likely she craves the pain! If not, she can always use a safe word or find another Dom. Presumably, we are all CONSENTING adults! That means we can becomer UNCONSENTING if we don't like the game! Nothing I said in my previous post should be construed as condoning actual forced submission!

I compelety agree with nmas4u. He asked for some suggestions and he received some. We may or may not have let our imaginations run wild, but it is completely up to the couple as to what their limits are. From his first post you can sorta tell she likes to bring on the pain, so why not take it up a notch.

Some of the punishments that you have been giving her she probably is enjoying and you must learn what is a true punishment to her. perhaps you can just take away these activities as a punishment of itself. that way she will be good to get the actions she truly wants.

Two answers:

1. Yeah right. You enjoy seeing and inflicting pain and then excuse it by saying she wants it.

2. We can sure see why people on this forum are reluctant to meet others. What would be your pickup line? "Come to my place and I will make you writhe in pain"? Bet that'll get you a lot of dates!!

Blitheben said

Two answers:

1. Yeah right. You enjoy seeing and inflicting pain and then excuse it by saying she wants it.

2. We can sure see why people on this forum are reluctant to meet others. What would be your pickup line? "Come to my place and I will make you writhe in pain"? Bet that'll get you a lot of dates!!

Plead ignorance on the topic of BDSM.

It isn't one of your fetishes and you have no idea about the desires and fantasies the participants want to actualize.

You should buy a few books on the topic so you can discuss the topic with some knowledge behind it.

People on the forum DO want to meet others. Distance, costs, the presence of other family members and job responsibilities are impediments.

I am a born skeptic

But as you note, completely un stirred by BDSM.

Looks like a variant of the Stockholm syndrome to me.

I have always found that mucking stalls at the barn gives me plenty of time to think about my day. It especially sucks during the summer when all the horses are in the barn during the day leaving extra messes to clean up.

It sucks even more if you need to use the bathroom and you can't, especially if its number 2.

You could add a butt plug for an extra twist. 😉

*****

So, give us an update. What 'reward' did she reap?

Blitheben it seems you missed the last part of the original post:

"--- Please note, she and I always have a safe word and in reality, we have a very loving and healthy relationship.. So, please, no posts of negativity please.. she loves being a sub and being mistreated during role play, but I have never done anything to her outside the context of that."

I hope but am not entirely assured that everyone else posting has similar limits and motives.

That said I must confess that two decades, make that four, ago I heard a woman being slapped around through a thin motel wall. I called the manager who called the room. I could hear the woman say " Now what?" In clearly annoyed voice.

They were quiet thereafter until they left at dawn. I raced to peek out of my window and was astonished to see couple who could well be on their way to a Sunday prayer service.

Anyway...do take care. Some horses should not be let out of the and we may not know which ones until the rider is in a ditch.

Have your girlfriend, while bare naked, prepare a full two quart mild soapy enema, hang the bag from the shower curtain rod, get down on her knees, administer the full enema to herself, and once she is full, hold the enema until she masturbates herself to full orgasm with you watching the whole time. Basically, she is humiliating and punishing herself in front of you for your pleasure! I did this with a past sub many years ago - thing is, she got off on it, go figure!

I had an ex-BF who was really mean. When he punished me he cut up a fresh jalepeno pepper and rmoved the seeds. Then he tied me to the bed naked and spread eagle. Next he would slow insert some of the seeds up my anus and uretha. Talk about burning pain!

Oh my Janice. How "HOT"! Seriously. A jalapeno pepper in your urethra. YOWZA. I'll bet it burned so much that it eventually became numb. How was the see removed?

A similar punishment would be insert a sterile q-tip into your urethra to produce irritation. Then insert a catheter lubricated with soap OR simply dip the q-tip in alcohol before insertion.

Wait until she has to urinate really badly, but don't let her go just yet. Unwrap a children's-size glycerin suppository. Insert it (narrow end first) into her urethra and hold it there with your fingers for 10 to 15 minutes. It will produce a burning sensation and make the inside of the urethra very sensitive/sore. Now let her urinate. The longer the suppository has been in the urethra, the greater the sting when she tries to pee. If it's been there long enough it can feel like peeing broken glass 😃 (i've experienced this, and it's very difficult to pee)

If you wish to make the sensation go deeper, melt some glycerin suppositories and cast them into something resembling a pencil or pen. http://imgur.com/PabzT6K

Now you can slide it in (and out) 3-4 inches! (male example) http://imgur.com/AlMK0hb , http://imgur.com/B9cwOVv

And the great part is, once you're done with the urethral punishment you can slide the glycerin stick deep into her bum.

I've been told that using liquid glycerin as a lubricant for inserting objects into the urethra will feel like fire going in as well as keep giving for a while after.