Helping newbies realize they're not alone

I suspect there are a some who come across this site because of their curosity about enemas, but haven't tried them out of fear that they might hurt, or probably more often than not, they think they're "weird or not-normal" for considering an enema for pleasure. Perhaps some members would like to comment if they had similar feelings about enemas prior to enjoying them, and share what the "tipping point" was that induced them to try an enema. I'm not suggesting you write a long history of how you got into enemas, but perhaps a short comment for newbies as to what finally made you decide to try an enema if you had doubts (psychological or physical) about them to begin with. For me personally......It was realizing as an adolescent that I was an "anal erotic", and simply decided to give myself an enema to see if I enjoyed it. I did, and have been doing them regularly ever since. Sure, initially I felt a little psychologically strange for enjoying enemas, but I've long since gotten over that. This site goes a long way in helping enema lovers realize that they're certainly not alone.

Great idea ... I have been doing enemas since I was about 11 or 12 years old. I had quit several times and tossed out my equipment because I thought it was so wrong. After several years I realized that its part of who I am. I enjoy enemas. I don't beat my wife, I am kind to pets, I am a good neighbor and try to help out in my community. And did I mention I like enemas? We are who we are, as soon as we understand that and relax the better we feel.

Yes. Very good to know that others share this interest. Takes away some of the shame and embarassment. Took a lot of psychotherapy to deal with this hidden interest.

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Great idea ... I have been doing enemas since I was about 11 or 12 years old. I had quit several times and tossed out my equipment because I thought it was so wrong.

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I have had the same experience. I secretly started doing enemas when I was a teenager and had guilt feelings about them often. Being a Catholic didn't help my guilt either! I would throw out my enema equipment, vow never to do it again, etc. But, it never worked.

It's amazing to me how many other enema lovers I've met on these forums who have similar stories. Like, I thought my mother never knew about my clandestine enema activity, but probably she did. After I went into the military service, I received a package from my mother that had some things in it that I had left at home. Included in the package was an enema bag that I had forgotten I had left in my dresser drawer. My mother said nothing, just sent me the package.

I have never felt shame or a freak because I thoroughly enjoy a warm enema when the urge stimulates me, usually once a week or so. Lots of folks write about their lack of spousal involvement with their enema, not a problem for me. I'm single. I have been involved in solo enemas since 12 or 13 and enjoy the other "benefits" during my enemas. Again, I do not feel guilt over this. It's fun. I am not a depressed personality, many people are. They take Rx for their personality disorders, or illegal drugs or drink to escape their real lives. I feel for them, but don't share their disfunctions. My Mom is a nurse, and she used enemas on me when I needed them. No punishment. My last from her was when I was 10 or 11.

I think I'm pretty normal, well educated, employed in my chosen vocation. I travel and love life. Have not found the woman of my dreams yet, but still looking. Maybe she will participate in enemas, but that is not a requirement, but it would be nice to share the fun.

Within these "enema communities," it does not take a lot of courage to be comfortable to talk of our "interests." I feel groups like this, may be the best "therapy" there is, because acceptance is what we all seek? I doubt ANY of us would stand up, at a public gathering, and speak openly of our needs/wants, desires. Walt

A lot of years keeping the interest private, and recognizing that the world simply would not understand. Leads to a certain amount of shame 😳 . Very cool to find this community and discover that others share my interests, and to talk to them about it. Liberating in a way.

Likewise I learned that I was interested in enemas at an early age. I didn't realize until I was well into my 40's that there were a lot of guys out there that love enema play as well. We find it very erotic and it adds to the sexual stimulation to provide the most amazing orgasms. It also provides me with something more. The ability to get super close to someone with practically no barriers at all. That's the best part!

I had a wonderful introduction to enemas when I was 3 1/2 and loved every part of my first can enema. I received a couple enemas a year when Mom thought that I need the treatment. For some reason my syblings did not get the introduction I got. They always fussed about getting an enema so I did also only I never really minded getting one. I would sometimes get really constipated and would get 3 or more enemas before Mom was satisfied that I was cleaned out. After those sessions I would be completely exhausted. Mom's enemas stopped when I was about 13 and I continued on my own, which was not very often, when I was about 14. I don't think Mom knew but my Dad walked in on me when I had a full can in my left hand and the nozzle and hose in my right. Dad never said anything at the time or ever. My wife does not want anything to do with enemas but wanted me to let our doctor know I took them. Our last two doctors, both female, had no objection as long as I didn't do it too often. We did not talk about what was too often. I have taken thousands of enemas and when I found the subject on the internet what little guilt I had in now gone. 😃

I was introduced to the enema when I was very young and got them when I was sick constipated or had a tummy ache.

I received them until I was 16 from my mom and then carried on my own from then on.

I have had those days where I felt guilty about what I was doing and thrown out equipment and have just stopped doing that because I can not go with out my bulging buddies and the memories kill me when I think about them.

there is nothing wrong with any of us and it is only a stigma that all think about the enema in our society today.

relax and enjoy the next enema, after a really rough day week or even night I know that I can relax with my privat buddy 😎

Yes, this is a wonderful site. I began taking enemas in my late teens. I used to love sticking things in my rectum but, of course, to avoid coming into contact with my faeces, I used to have a number of small enemas to wash out the rectum. One day, I decided to see what it was like taking two litres of water right up into my large intestine. It was so wonderful, I was hooked from that day on. Enemas are perfectly normal and there is nothing perveted, or "dirty", about them.

I still have a problem with understanding why someone who hasn't a clue what an enema is or never experience one seeking info on this site and here's why.We enema lovers share our experiences with others based on our past and our desire to open up what has been hidden.We give our opinions and advice base on those enema experiences.For some to seek this site without first experience what an enema is without first at least once giving the enema a try and without knowing it's pleasure or displeasure is a mystery to me.The best advice for newbies is to read medical books and dictionaries or instructions from a newly purchased enema bag and self experiment.In time,you will gain the experience to share with others.

Some people surfing the internet will find things interesting and then act on them then there those that find things erotic and they want to act on them and we the ones that know about this they ask because they need good advice and not bad.

i DON'T KNOW HOW YOU THINK N THESE THINGS AND HOW YOU JUST DON'T UNDERSTAND OTHERS THAT STUMBLE ONTO THE BAG AND WANT TO EXPERINCE IT BUT BE MORE POLITE SO WE DON'T GIVE THE ENEMA A BAD NAME 😉

You could say that I more of stumbled onto this site myself. Got curious about enemas from some other adult videos (only natural when younger). Never really had any up bringing with enemas, so never had anything to break me into it fully yet. Though my interest never would go away (the interest was still there, when I got back from my 4 month deployment, and soon a 9 month one coming up). I just wish I'd get over some of my reservations (haven't really figured out what those are yet)

To those out there that is new to this, don't feel you are alone. As of right now, still haven't had one; but eventually will hopefully. Though just by hanging around here; I have come to respect a lot of the people here. There is a lot of people here that, can instruct you very well , give advice and provide some encouragement. Just stop by and say hello; and they will warmly welcome you into the group.