The Urge And Pleasure

Lately,I have noticed few new post on this site for the last few weeks,but ,I doubt we are not enjoying ourselves with our favorite passion of an occasional enema now and then.The urge to refrain is just too strong and we would go nuts if we denied ourselves the pleasure because the the urge is just too strong.Do you agree>

I know I spent part of the long holiday weekend having some Enemas.

Got a good cleaning out Friday afternoon/evening and a few more on

Saturday evening. Unfortunately, they were solo, but would have been

better with a buddy.

Dan

I'd rather resist the urge and go without the "pleasure" of a solo experience. For minutes/hours/days after I am done with the enema, I feel nothing but "sadness, and despair," that I had to do it alone. Walt

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I'd rather resist the urge and go without the "pleasure" of a solo experience. For minutes/hours/days after I am done with the enema, I feel nothing but "sadness, and despair," that I had to do it alone. Walt

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Sorry you feel that way. I'm confident you are in the extremely small minority of people who feel sadness and despair after doing an enema solo. Practically all of us love our enemas even when done alone.

Why does a solo enema make you sad?

I too had some lovely enemas over the holiday weekend. They were solo and yes they would have been better with a partner. But that was not the case so I enjoyed them immensely as they were. And would do it all over again - and likely will 😃.

Jimmy

Susie?

I think there are many reasons why I don't enjoy the solo experience, but a few really stand out. I've loved enema play all of my life, at least the mental images. My late wife did not share the interest, but would, on rare occasions help give me one for medical reasons. I did the solo, often, and I think, just sort of lost the mental feelings needed.

Now that I am widowed, and essentially "free," like it or not, AGE is a factor in attracting a possible partner. I see many older gents on these boards looking for the same.

I seem to live in area, remote from most members. I've met no one seriously interested from this area. Travel is financially difficult, so I don't really entertain the fantasy.

I am indeed certain I fit into a small minority. Walt

Age should not be a factor since there are more middle aged and older members than younger ones here. As far as meeting enema aficionados goes, once you get to the point in your relationships where you talk about or engage in sex, just gently bring it up. Enema lovers come in all ages.

I still don't see why a solo enema makes you sad and in despair. You didn't have erotic partner enemas when you were married, and from what you say, you don't have it much now either, so what's the difference? You are where you have always been in the enema department. . . . you do them yourself. Rather than bemoan your lack of an enema partner, you should change your outlook. Enemas, like masturbating, is very pleasurable and a lot of fun even solo. While I love the enema experiences with my husband, I enjoy them just as much when I am solo and I DON'T wish he was always there when I do it myself.

Perhaps I chose the wrong word, Susie. "Aging" itself becomes a limiting factor. Some of us lose certain abilities. We begin to feel our mortality more, as well. We are far closer to our death, than to our birth. I know I got to feeling that I had exhausted the various imaginated themes in solo.

When you have any partner, active, or vanilla, the mind can still imagine "possibilities." Walt

My father was greatly influenced by the verve and enthusiasm of president John F Kennedy. Kennedy, as I was told by my father, in his speeches, described doing things with great "vigor" and that way of life was imparted to me by my parents, especially my father.

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VIGOR

noun

they ran with great vigor: robustness, health, hardiness, strength, sturdiness, toughness; bloom, radiance, energy, life, vitality, virility, verve, spirit; zeal, passion, determination, dynamism, zest, pep, drive, force; informal oomph, get-up-and-go, zing, piss and vinegar.

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I do things with vigor. Waking up in the morning, taking a shower, cooking breakfast, getting the family dressed and out of the house to start the day, masturbating, playing the flute, sculpting, having an enema, cleaning the house, fucking my husband, tying him up, being spanked-sometimes hard, going shopping [ok that's a female cliche], watching tv, playing tennis, seeing a show, going to the opera, etc.

YOU get to decide how you feel when you do something. It doesn't matter who you do it with or if you do it alone.

You might as well decide to have good feelings about what you do.

Susie,

I never thought of doing enemas with vigor, but next time I do some, and it will probably be tomorrow, I will do them with vigor. It will be a new experience.

And since I do most of my enemas solo, I understand Walt's desire for a partner. The few times that I have had lovely ladies give enemas to me, it was so much better than solo. I enjoy solo, and that is why I keep doing enemas, because I enjoy them. But the pleasure curve really steepens when a lovely lady is giving me the enemas. And when I get to give her enemas too, that is really the high point.

I guess the bottom line is that lovely ladies make about everything better!

Hey Walt;For many years I have enjoyed my enemas before getting married.And even while married,I did enemas solo until my wife discovered my enema stuff under the vanity.By that time we were into the marriage for ten years.I invited my wife to partake in an enema session with me,the rest was history of enjoyment of enemas together.However,while she was off to work on the night shift,I still enjoyed the relaxation of the solo enemas.It is the pleasure of the enema the counts with or without a partner.My second wife doesn't care for enemas at all,but that does not mean I can't enjoy them.

Walt;Feel free to contact me anytime,we'll talk enemas until the cows come home.