I want something bigger

I have worked a year to be able to fit a 2" ball up my butt. I can't get anything bigger up there. Is there a limit or do I just keep trying? Will it stretch my muscles or cause damage? Love big things in my ass.

Hi Garry,

I have a 2" ball on a 3/8" shaft that's one of my favorite toys. I too like big things in my ass and, as you've found out, it feels great. I can't tell you where the limit for you will be, since each person is different.

I've had larger toys in me and have been fisted by my ex many times. I've found that for the really big objects, I have to be really relaxed and "in the mood". Some days it'll fit and some days it won't. Never force it.

One thing about a ball is that it's a bit more difficult to insert because of the lack of taper (which is what makes a ball such an intense sensation). I'd suggest that if you're looking to go to a larger object, you get maybe a 2.5" diameter butt plug. You'll probably find that the taper will make it easier to insert. Once you've achieved a larger plug, you'll find it easier to fit a larger ball.

Always remember that there's no such thing as too much lube. Also, as you stretch your ass, you'll probably experience a bit of discomfort. That's normal, just like working out. But there should be no real pain. If there is, STOP! That's your body telling you ENOUGH!

I've been doing this for a very long time and haven't done any damage. Meaning that my sphincter still closes as advertised and I don't have skidmarks in my drawers. After a session with the toys, I always do the anal version of Kegel exercises and clench my sphincter a hundred times or so. It keeps the muscles in good tone.

I've found that one of the best ways to accomodate a new large toy is to insert it as far as it will comfortably go and then just maintain a steady pressure on it. As you hold that pressure, consciously will your ass to relax and you'll feel the toy begin to slip further in to you without pain. Pretty soon, you'll have acclimated to it and you'll have achieved another plateau. Also, if you can find a partner to work with you, it makes it easier many times.

Good luck to you, and enjoy.

ldb

The "Big Sex Toy Store" on line has a very wide selection of XXL toys and I own most of them! The Big Butt Plug series is wonderful,

starts at 3 1/2" Dia. and goes up from there to 5" Dia. I seem to have put on the breaks at 4 1/4". The Cyclops dildo at 3 3/4" is also very nice. They do have lots and lots of smaller toys also.

I have been stretching and FF for some time now and must tell you

"Do Not Rush, there as always another day"

and "You Can Never ever use to much lube".

As for lube, water basted lubes like "J Lube" are wonderful.

Oil based lubes like "Crisco" are very messy but also very good. I suggest putting a stick of Crisco and 1/2 a shot glass of powdered J lube, putting it in a round plastic container then whipping it, then put it in the refrigerator. Best and least expensive lube I have ever found. Clean up with salt water and dawn, you and the toys!

All the Best and Good Luck and Have Fun

Not sure of a limit, but if it hurts so much that you can't enjoy it, why try? 😄

It just takes time to stretch out! so if u like keep it lubed well and go slow!

The best is still the Kong dog toys. Comes in different sizes and hardness. Start with the small, work your way up. and as everyone mentionned..take ur time. I must have weird pelvic bones because when i try to go bigger at a certain point i feel like the plug cant go any further because it's blocking against my plevic opening.

I like the big sex toy store, thanks for the info.

I have been trying to get back to the Stryker dildo which is 10 inches long and about 3 inches thick(across/wide),but am now limited to what I have:a 1 1/4inch ball that I insert in my ass in a condom when I jack off

I just bought a Kong toy at the pet store! I love it- esp how it has 3 sizes to it. Also, the larger hole is just the right size to put my 12" dildo in. The challenge: insert the whole dildo including the Kong at the end. If I put the Kong end in first I can walk around with a 10" cock dangling from my ass. It would be fun to walk around the gay section of the nude beach wearing this! Oh, and it also helps keep the 2 pints of mineral oil inside me as i walk around. Then as it slowly runs down my legs, i scoop it up and spread it around my body. 😉

After getting totally clean today, I was able to get the whole 12" and the Kong toy up my ass! What a feeling! 😁

The other day I was able to get my balls and my cock up my own ass! The trick is to use a cock ring. I''ll take a pic next time.

How far up is safe....i am a little nervous....butt excited.....i try to finger everday in the shower.....oh soooo much fun

I twist the dildo around so it bends with my colen. Don't go further if in pain. But some pain is normal. What are you trying to fit in? I love putting two fingers inside my ass while pushing very hard. This way the ring surrounds my fingers. It feels great!

I have a similar problem i think... i will use an object for a little bit and i will be able to go up and down on it and it fells pretty good. but then i want something bigger, but it wont go through the entrance of my ass, the very entrance point, i guess on a video when someones getting a rim job i think that's where it wont go in. it wont stretch for it unless i keep going at it for a while then it BARELY goes in, and it hurts a tad bit, but its not an important kind of pain, its like its stretching but it can barely take it. and that's where im stuck, i cant make it go any further, it barely even goes in. and also with a smaller item, when i put it in over 6" my bowels feel weird... any help or advice? idk if this is the right thread, it looked right, but if it isnt, could i make a new one? thanks! oh yeahh and i am a male

I'm afraid I can't help because I have exactly the same issue. I've worked up to the 2 inch stainless steel njoy 2.0 plug and I love it! I slip it in before I go to bed and it always gets me in the mood. I love the feeling of double penetration when my husband is using the other hole. And I really want to go bigger. I bought a 2.3 inch glass plug and there's no way it will fit. I'll keep trying, but if there are any tricks to speeding up the process, I'm all ears.

I was going to reply with some advice, but gemdd's advise is the best and says it all. Have fun.

Here is a toy who will help you, never forget, be lubed, go slow and progressive, this plug will slide inside you like a soft finger, after multiple exercises swallowing will be possible, remember " well lubed - slow - enjoy the feels progressively "

http://www.medicaltoys.com/Infl-Ribbed-Enema-Nozzle-L.jpg

or make a surch for " inflatable ribbed plug "

possible PM for more questions, enjoying it personally.