Just a whole day? C'mon, that is junior league stuff. Even when a teenager I would sometimes spend a week between release and/or ejaculation, letting the pleasure build up and be sustained as long as possible. Later, when older I have intentionally done so for weeks at a time.
Being aroused and infused with sexual longings and desires is just as pleasurable as orgasm and moreover lasts longer. Everything can become sexual and emanate erotic connotations. I often think, why settle for a minute or so long orgasm when the pleasure can be prolonged and prolonged?
lol... i guess i'm pro then, but for different reasons? i have a long term desire (and fantasy) of being in a relationship/dynamic of opposites, e.g. Top/bottom. my own particular ideas about this kind of dynamic get pretty detailed, and extreme by 'norm' standards? In my ideal dynamic, my Top controls ('owns') my orgasm, so in a sense, getting "release" is always in question and being horny is a purposeful given that He largely is in control of.
But, He "owns" my horniness as well and can use and direct it to help meet the needs of His horniness. Essentially, it's connecting (and hopefully bonding) our two horniness into one and we share our horniness as one need, not two. By extension, same with orgasm. Psychologically i already want to share that too, that His orgasm becomes mine when He releases into me. i've already experienced this at a certain level, but not in a purposeful, long term relationship, so i do not know how long i could pull off (so to speak) not having just my orgasm? And i don't know if that even matters. I have had a Fuck Buddy for three years now Who has never made me orgasm, and i adore Him... it's a wonderful relationship, just limited in many ways, but He breeds me a couple of times a week. He doesn't really own or control my orgasm though, just has never made me orgasm. Though He has come really close on several occasions when fucking me... To me, that would be the ideal in my imagination, to only ejaculate when He 'gives' that to me?
Idk though. i would miss, even for a little time, not feeling that connection of Him controlling/owning my horniness. i suppose He still would control it, just that He has chosen to put it to sleep for a bit by making me ejaculate?
It's a very involved topic for me lol.