Shocked friends who are not in to playing gyno

Has any body tried to involve an old friend or shocked them by saying your in to Gyno play?

I have discussed it with a few of my girlfriends. Most of them ask a few questions and then, we move on to other topics, normally dogs.

It is a topic that is not discussed openly by me. 😢 I sometimes drop slight hints about sex, but never anything specific.

Nope, but hopefully you can gauge someone and know if their upbringing and life experiences are going to bring them out of their comfort zone. Tell the ones who give you a playful smirk when you're snapping on gloves to do something around the house lol

Yeah one time when I was talking to my g/f about her exam she accusingly asked me if I had a boner, I had to say no.

For many years I kept my MedFet interests to myself and my Ex. The primary reason was that I was the "only person in the world" that kinky... However as the internet opened the world, like most MedFetters, I discovered I was not alone. I continued to keep my interests private until my Ex and I separated. At that point I had an awakening that the only reason I had kept it secret was for her benefit. After some deep self-reflection I accepted that MedFet is a major part of who I am and if I felt no guilt then I had no reason to continue to keep it a secret.

Most of my close male friends know I play doctor and if anything they view it with a certain amount of envy. As I started dating once I was single again, I knew that if I was to have any type of relationship it would have to include MedFet. Of course I had to read their level of sexual adventure first, but not one of the "vanilla" girls I have dated turned and ran when I told them, and I have played doctor with a few of them as a result. An added benefit for me is that playing with a non-MedFetter is a unique experience totally different from a devotee. For a PlayDoc who thrives on realism, its as realistic as it gets. Some of my most rewarding experiences have been with girls who never dreamed of a play exam as an adult, so if I am not open in discussing my interests, I will deprive myself of some incredible opportunities.

I might also add that having an openness to talk about medicine has been an ice breaker for me for decades. Although I had not ever mentioned MedFet in daily conversation, I have always found little difficulty in discussing "female problems" with girls. Most appreciate a sympathetic ear and genuine interest, and I can't count the number of times a relative stranger has opened up and given me her entire medical history. The opportunity to play doctor presents itself more often than one would expect, even if it is not hands-on but simply being a consultant.

I don't make a point to advertise my "specialty" however it is also no secret. I believe I have come to terms with the fact that if anyone is shocked by MedFet they are also generally uptight about their own sexuality and would find almost any fetish shocking. Kink, like beauty, is in the eye of the beholder.

I did once. To a girl i used to play doctor with when we were little. I suggested that we catch up and play doctor sometime! She thought I was making a pass at her and did not speak to me for a very long time. She speaks to me only if necessary, now. Pity...

Would really love to open up and discuss this with a male friend of mine who's much younger. But think he would run to the hills if I mentioned it...lol

I have a much younger friend that has always been a jock. One day I brought up the subject of enemas and finger sex as other alternatives for {wham bam}. He said "are you nuts?" and we have never discussed our sex lives again.

Honestly, it has never crossed my mind to mention it. I have to say that without having spoken to, and read the posts of, people on this board, I would probably STILL think that I was the only person in the world into this! I have been really surprised at the diversity of people who are drawn to Medfet. I often wonder which of the people I interact with each day might secretly also be into this...though I doubt I will ever have the courage to bring it up.

Im always amazed by the number of my friends who have med fetishes

I never seem to find anyone interested, that why I love this site..

I too often feel as if I am the only person in the world with this predilection ... if not for the internet I might have thought I was totally abnormal. And also probably never have gone so far in solo experimentation with medfet.

I´ve tried a few times to give hints or make remarks that someone into the practices should understand, but every time it went nowhere, with some frowns and disapproving looks thrown into the bargain. So basically I´ve just learned to accept the fun of solitude and don´t bother trying to see if anyone in the real world shares the same ...