Is it easier to convince a boy friend or a girlfriend to try enemas?

Susie has it right. Most young guys will try almost anything if they get laid at the end. They don't all like the enema, but will do it for the reward.

I like that line. I must write it down!

My husband never had an enema until the night he was a bad boy forgetting we had a date after finals before christmas week freshman year in college. He came to my room expecting to spend the night with me. I told him him if he wanted to sleep with me that I was going to give him an enema. This pussy loving boy wasn't going to turn me down. I gave him a quart of warm water and he took it like a champ and I had my way with him.

Yeah, SwitchableSusie, like that would have ever been a tough choice with a lady like you. Not. He played it smart and had no trouble trusting you at all. That was probably the best enema of his life.

I was shooting a video for Anika Sondholm a few years ago and the model's boyfriend accompanied her. After the shoot he asked if I minded if she gave him an enema, he loved it!

I stayed in contact with them for several years, they did a lot of enema play after they both had their first experience at the shoot.

Catching a girl in need of real comforting, will get her to succumb to the possibility. Then it is up to you to make her more needy, than she realized she ever was.

I've been with my man for 8 years now. I am almost 30 for reference. We have a great sex life, it's very satisfying to us both. But it's not what I would consider super kinky, being that I'm into some extreme stuff (spanking, pain, enemas, rectal temps, medical/role playing, exhibitionist stuff - all of which are my kinks, not his). I love having my ass played with, anal sex of course, having toys used on me, being exposed/inspected. He loves that too. He knows all that I'm in to, I mention spanking and enemas frequently, and that turns him and me on. He likes how kinky and weird I am (I have a very proper career, not a single person in my life knows what I'm into other than him and you all LOL). Both sides of me are incredibly genuine, and true. The dichotomy of them both is what turns us on. The other day I was washing dishes and he slaps my ass with his belt. Instantly wet, I got obviously excited, and he teased me for it... Again, turning me on, for him to think I'm a slut who enjoys getting my ass belted. I like being embarrassed/humiliated so maybe that has something to do with it. With all that being said, I'm not upset that it's not a more regular thing in our sex life. My first boyfriend wanted to indulge in all my fantasies, and I his, which was wonderful. But this is also wonderful in a different way. I know we'll be together forever, and I know our sex life will continue to evolve and change. I'm looking forward to it more than anything. First and foremost, and I bring this up to him frequently, I'm going to bring a girl home for us to play with. From there I'll report back on what else we get up to.

In the mean time, I'll continue to enjoy my kinky kinks in private which I so genuinely do. Even the thought of giving myself an enema, spanking my pussy with a ruler, doing laundry with clothes pins on my nips. Very satisfying indeed.

Although i have convinced most of my girlfriends to try enemas i strongly beleive that if a girl isnt in enemas its harder to convince here than male.I find thah most men will try everything for sex!

Suzy and Cheryl have it correct. All you have to do is count the number of men v women on this site and i believe the odds would be overwhelmingly in favor of the men. The amount of women in attendance has grown a bunch since I joined Zity Biz, and i think that's great.

I think the anonymity helps. Guys are probably willing to try new things a bit more than ladies are, because we don't have the "good girls don't" bit drilled into us, but we also do have the "that's gay" bit drilled in, sadly still in this day and age. If the guy can get over that and knows that it's not going to go public they're probably more open to trying things.

I have had enemas in my life for my entire life. I was raised in a medical family and it has now grown into my fetish. I have a HUGE collection to choose from. When l met my husband and introduced him to the wonderful world of water. I have brought many women into the wet and wonderful world of women and enemas!!! Made us both wet!! Nothing hotter for me than to be working a nozzle and a tongue at the same time!!! Hooks them everytime!!!

Interesting. My first wife was definitely not into them, thought my interest was perverted, and essentially forbade me to do it. Which didn't go over real well, since it had been an interest of mine long before I met her. We stayed together for many years, me playing solo when she wasn't around, her probably ignoring my interests. We split up, and when I met my 2nd wife, it was in a medfetish context, which as I told her, meant she would get "LOTS of enemas..." she is ok with it, but doesn't particularly enjoy them, although since she is sub in the bedroom, she does what she's told. I like enemas. A lot. Never understood, but I am guessing that it's at least partly because I like having things in my backside. Water is the best, though. A really big enema is a good enema in my view, which does sometimes upset my wife, since she also has to take large enemas (2 qt. plus--not huge, but still...). Something about the nozzle inside and all that water going in...

So in my case, I've given many enemas to my wife, not because she wants them so much, as because she knows doing that gives me pleasure.

I did quite a bit of medical fetish play before I met her, and I ALWAYS gave enemas. I have had a few women refuse to meet with me after they found out about the rectal exams and procedures, but if they met me, they definitely got enemas. I've met a few women who obviously were into them, and some of those enjoyed the humiliation and pain. For others, it was definitely pleasurable. I met with a few men (I'm very straight) just because they sorta begged, but stopped that after a time or two, since I really am not into men at all.

Now my wife...I love her dearly, make her do the play I want, and at the same time try to give her all the intense experience she deserves. Thinking about her literally gives me goosebumps. And no, we're not newlyweds. It's just that every time I'm with her it's such a trip.

BTW: if you want partners who please you, do specific Craigslist ads for what you want. I did. And I got her. Still amazed, after 8 years. If you're with someone, they deserve the chance to understand your sexual interests, and to meet them, whatever they are, even if it's not their favorite thing. We are all way too selfish. Sex is NOT the place for selfishness.