Enjoy the enema going in, but not coming out

I love everything about the enema process.

The thought of giving myself one when I get home.

The preparation of getting everything out and ready for the enema.

Filling the bag with many of my favorite solutions.

Deciding which nozzle.

Inserting the nozzle inside me.

What I wear during the enema.

The feeling of it filling up my lower abdomen area.

The feeling of holding it for at least 15-30 minutes.

But just recently I discovered the use of coffee enemas. There many books and information on the internet about coffee enemas and their use for many centuries. I am surprised by its many benefits and best being the last part of an enema. The smell when letting it out is pretty much pure coffee smell.

So it has become one of my favorite solutions now.

"Harris Flush" is the name of the enema that I couldn't remember. Just might be what you want. Personally the expulsion is part of the fun for me.

There is nothing about an enema I don't like, but I have had playmates that were polarized.

Valarie from Grand Dames enjoyed an explosive expulsion more than the receiving side, the exception being a deeply inserted colon tube.

I've had a couple of playmates who really got off being filled and retaining but expulsion was just a necessary evil.

However, most of my playmates have been "equal opportunity" everything about it types.

There was one exception, a nurse I knew from the Washington, DC area. She was into scat, and for her it was all about stimulation to bring on a bowel movement. This was back about 1970, and we had talked on the phone several times, the finally met. Our conversations had been primarily about enemas so I was a bit surprised when at our first meeting she got into,the knee chest position and wanted fingering, really getting into it and asking me to make her shit. I wound up with a pretty big handful or two before we did the first of several enemas.

Then I was put in the knee chest position and received her treatment, she knew just where to go to make things happen, which took me back to memories of my childhood play with Janet and Donna.

I'm sure there are a few scat lovers out there, but the rest of my partners have been into the enema side, anything scatologic was more of a by-product than a focus.

I enjoy every part of an enema. If I had to say what is the best part, it would be when my wife tells me to spread my ass so she can lube my rectum wth her finger, then the actual nozzle insertion. The enema itself is wonderful and the expulsion is usually in private. I have had girlfriends in the past jack me off while expelling at my request which was fun. Sometimes out of the blue, my wife will come in and massage my stomach and shoulders while expelling. Very relaxing and intimate.

I never enjoyed expulsion at all. I still don't. I always thought that enemas would be perfect if not for that. There are two ways to avoid expulsion I've found.

I sometimes do a Harris flush. That is taking a disposable plastic enema bag or bucket, filling it, holding it up high or having someone else do it, When the pressure goes up, lower the bag below the level of the anus and let the fluid flow back in the bag. You can do this many times. It can be like taking a series without actually doing it.

This second method I got from an old Penthouse Variations book. The Condema

stretch a condom over your favorite tube or long nozzle. Insert the hose as far as possible while "taking" the enema. The condom fills and feels just like any enema. When you've had enough, bonus points for removing the tube while the condom stays in and tying it like a water balloon. It can be done even solo. When you're ready "expel" and you'll experience the strange feeling of pooping out a full baloon.

You can also poke tiny pin holes in the tip of the condom before inserting. Take the condema as above, tying it off and wait while the pressure on your lower sigmoid colon and rectum slowly moves into your descending as the condema deflates. You will have to do a regular expulsion though, butt it's worth it.

Today, the most enjoyable part of an enema is the anticipation of the actual enema. I hint around to my wife that I would like a little extra care. My wife knows what that means and I hope she will be willing to help out. I usually go into the television room and begin watching the tube hoping to hear wife go into the bathroom, open the bathroom closet, pull out the enema syringe from the cabinet, (she usually lets the nozzle bump against something letting me know what she is up to) and then I hear water running. My heart rate increases and I get a little flushed. Also, my breathing slows and I feel my penis enlarging. I sit in my chair waiting for wife to come up behind me, wrap her arms around my neck and whisper in one of my ears, 'Mike, I have something waiting on you in the bathroom!" I can not expect you to know how exciting that is to me, but believe me, it is! My heart is beating fast right now just thinking about it! Wow! I wish is was happening right now! But, I can dream, can't I?

I like to do a few things anally...but doing enemas is really my bag....to me doing enemas is the ultimate sex!! I have an enema night to myself usually about once a week.

I can't say for me personally that the "coming out" is as pleasurable as the "going in" with the nozzle firmly in place, but I just view the latter as just part of the process of a good enema, and I don't mind the "coming out" at all. In fact, when you (me) get a nice big release during the expel, it feels so good as well.

I love all aspects of my enemas. I love connecting a large retention-plug nozzle to a gallon bag of slightly hot water, and then pushing in the retention plug to totally fill my rectum. I love opening the valve and suddenly feeling the hot water rushing into me. I love how my belly looks and feels as it's distended more and more. I love the feeling of closing the valve and retaining the fill for several minutes, (especially when I masturbate in that condition.) I love the sensation of pulling the plug, feeling everything come rushing out, and watching and feeling my belly contract back to its normal size. I love doing it all over and over again for hours.

I like it going in more than coming out, unless, while coming out, it is making me to cramp and push helplessly. I *LOVE* that!! I like the selection of the type and amount of laxative I'm going to use in the enema, usually Doc Bronner's. I love the feeling of the laxative working in me.

Soap feels different than the other stimulant laxatives. I like feeling the irritation. I like the possible faintness and even nausea that it may sometimes cause when very strong. I especially like it if I have filled my entire colon and get a post-expulsion cecal cramp followed my expulsion o what I call "cecal mud". Not much in life feels better to me than that.

I like the contractions caused by bisacodyl soon after, or even during, administration. I like how the contractions start almost as little quivers, becoming definite contractions. I like the feeling of the contractions getting stronger with every wave, soon causing me to try to hold it in. I like how it becomes impossible to hold it in, and I expel with large, strong contractions, needing no voluntary effort.

I like how senna doesn't start as a laxative, but becomes so while I'm lying down after the enema is in my bowel. It first like a TWE, gradually becoming irresistibly laxative.

I love it *ALL*!

As a kid, i hated it going in and coming out - the whole process lol - but the coming out was mainly because i never had privacy in the bathroom then. Now, the coming out is still my least favorite but its obviously the part that makes you feel the best as well. For me though feeling so thin and empty after the clean out is by far the best feeling

When i was a little child i used to hate the whole process... now i am not that sure

I definitely like the "coming out" part of getting an enema as much as the rest of the process... Sometimes I feel like it's even the best part, especially when I've been constipated.

I posted about this before, but wanted add an additional experience. About 1970 I had a friend, Molly. I was her go to guy when she got horny, which was great, and so was she. It took a while for me to finally talk her into an enema, because she hated the way the felt going in. But, she admitted she didn’t mind expelling and loved how clean she felt when it was done.

It turns out she had been treated rather roughly by mom, or whoever gave her the enemas. Bag held to high, not stopping when it got uncomfortable, etc. A gently administered enema made a big difference, and i would get a request for both sex and an enema.

But, the psyche being what it is, after we were doing enemas for a while she would often ask me to be rough with fast fills and not stopping if things got crampy. We agreed on a “safe word” if things got too uncomfortable, but more often I got the request to make it hurt. She was also the first person I had vaginal intercourse with while she held the enema, which was at her request. She asked to try it, and yes it got messy a time or two, but we knew it might and had prepared for it.

But, true what she had said, she really enjoyed letting it go, just has hard as she could, she would try to explode, and once clean I might hear, “I want you to fuck me in the ass really hard.” Ah, those were great days!

I enjoy all parts of the enema process. Thinking about it. Preparing the equipment. The nozzle slowly sliding it. The release of the clamp. The water gurgle in the hose and bag. The warm feeling that starts to build. The erection. The pressure building. Then finally, the explosive release. And finally, the total relaxation that follows both expulsions.

I enjoy all aspects of the enema, but (as an adult) the physiological reaction is different whether I'm being filled, have completed filling or am expelling. I don't recall any time where expelling has triggered an orgasm but the converse is certainly true (where the orgasm triggered the relaxation of the sphincter muscles and the ensuing outward flow). Even as a young child, I recall liking the being filled part and I remember sitting on a child's potty chair and letting it all flow out and how good that felt.

As an adolescent I loved the feeling of being filled by one or two 2-quart bags in the shower. But I also loved th quick release in the shower as the warm liquid shot down my legs to the shower drain.

As an adult, I've cum to enjoy the feeling of being filled to nearly maximum capacity and then holding that for a while as the enema did its job of softening the stool and then feeling the clumps flow out when I finally release. That effect is more pronounced when I use soaps and or glycerin. But the soap/glycerin can also have a desired effect of much stronger contractions and the "struggle" to hold that with the assistance of some retention device or by simply withdrawing all items and letting my muscles do the work. In those cases when I cum, the depth of the orgasm usually will hold off the immediate expulsion by helping to keep all the muscles retaining the enema in enough tension that the expulsion doesn't come as the orgasm occurs. But those muscles don't hold out long and as the orgasm passes its peak, the release can be torrential and the the sudden release of pressure very, very relieving.

If there is any aspect that is a challenge, it is emptying the colon of large volumes and or the need to have many more flushes against the backdrop of inadequate time. When I have the time, I do not mind the time required to nearly fully empty my bowels to a nearly clean condition.

For me, I enjoy the filling more than the expelling, but to be honest. there's nothing about a good enema that I don't enjoy, particularly when I have the free and private time to enjoy the whole episode.

I like it all it is just so fun .....

Growing up I really didn't like the part about the enema going in. Things got a lot better once mom removed the pipe and allowed me to sit on the toilet. I was usually kept in place over her lap until that point so once on the toilet I was allowed to release the enema. The immediate part was one of great relief as it seemed like the heavens were opening up and all sorts of stuff literally cascaded out of me. I think I was always amazed at how much a bag of warm soapy water could produce.

Oh I enjoy it all, making the soap solution ahead of time, then the filling bag, of course that feeling as it enters me, and then the resulting time on the throne. That is all part of the fun..

Elaine

I had replied earlier and it is a fuller description of all aspects of the enema processing that I enjoy. At a simpler level, the expulsion means that the enema is cumming to an end. When I have the time, I enjoy refilling myself again and again.

It is true for me as well, that I appreciate the whole process of the enema: The filling of the bag, lying naked on the floor, the insertion of the nozzle, hearing the click and feeling that initial surge of warm water, breathing through the cramps, and that beautiful distended belly. Expelling is more of the urgent need in the process, but I love the empty feeling after the enema is complete. Of course, if there is time, I repeat the whole wonderful process again and again. Sometimes I enjoy an enema standing and watching in the mirror as I fill. That is a wonderful sight and a great feeling. The enema is pleasure for me.

Well, expelling is just like having diarrhea... Even if the filling went through without cramps, I may cramp when expelling.

I like both.Well of course nothing can top the nozzle insertion and the feeling of water flowing in but i like to expell as weel to check how much waste I'm getting rid of and how many more enemas i need to take to completely empty my bum.

Insertion, balloon inflation, filling and retaining are the really fun parts, especially when I do it in a submissive mood for maximum humiliation in front of the Domme. Expelling is mostly a relief but becomes enormous fun when orgasming during release when I get to feel both sensations at once "spurting from both front and back at once." It's all even more intense and erotic if I was dressed in rubber clothes and sneakers by the (real or fantasy) Domme, which I usually am for enemas. Delicious.

Eric

Ive always found expelling unpleasant. One way to avoid that is to stretch a condom over a long nozzle, insert it and fill. it feels like an enema but much easier to expell

Just a thought. For those who might find expelling unpleasant, try taking a commercial colonic treatment with the usual wide speculum pushed up your butt. In a closed system, when on drain cycle, the machine literally drains and sucks the water right out of you without any pushing on your part. So it drains easily with no effort. Secondly, it drains through the wide speculum/cannula lodged in your butt, so only touches the insides of the cannula without directly rubbing on your anus, so no drainage irritation. It makes drainage of the colonic every few minutes actually a pleasure. I really enjoy it much more than pushing out the water from a home enema.

Eric

I enjoy the process of getting an enema - the end result - namely expulsion is just an after thought

The anticipation

The positioning - namely when I lay naked over a women's lap

the feeling of buttocks getting separated

The insertion of the Vaseline covered nozzle - oh, the cool feeling of the Vaseline

Finally, the feel of the solution being forced in - it's so much better feeling for me of the bulb being squeezed rather than the steadiness when using a bag

Sometimes I like expelling, specifically the easing of the pressure as my body determines. Between bursts, I occasionally like reapplying fresh Vaseline until I'm empty.

Then there are times I'd wish my nozzle was a big sponge or scrub brush attachment; I'd take the whole bag, hold it a while, breathe deeply and with one pull it's all done & out and I'm instantly clean inside, no need to expel anything else.

@ericmacson 's description of the closed-system release sounds really good. I'd like to lay there and relax until I'm mechanically drained, then get off the table and on with my day.

Yup, totally agree with first post! I enjoy the insertion, the flow and the fullness and tingling of a belly filled with warm soapy water. The expulsion is a relief of the fullness, but rarely very pleasurable. Sometimes, it can be really crampy and even painful. Other times, you just want it to all come out and be done with, but the water keeps trickling down and you have to keep returning to the pot.