A G, think about all of the blood, bodily fluids, open and draining wounds, a plethora of others medical events/interventions not to mention shat and urine, and puke, the many people who do not take care of themselves, and the large variety of unattractive things that go wrong with people in the hospitals and doctor's office, it could be difficult to eroticize foreplay in a medfet setting, quite possibly for a long time after the fact. Maybe with a partner with an interest, they could ease into it at a later date...
My thought is that medfet interests are typically developed at a younger age through a medical procedure that leaves an impression, more likely then by events or lifestyle changes that start/occur in the 20s, 30, or 40s.
YES, we have new members all the tme exploring for a first tine, but with gr8 frequency, they've been playing in their heads for years and even decades, finding their own sensual pleasures..
My 40+ y o gf, Nora, an Rn, San Francisco had no interest in medfet because of her job in a hospital, but enjoyed D/s and bdsm from earlier experiences, maybe some abuse or other introduction.
My current friend here, 49, has been playing with 'thoughts' in her mind the last ten years of her marriage until divorce, and bdsm wise, because of a physically abusive Mother when she was a little girl.
Ssssoooo many reasons...
It's my thought that we are not born with, but that through experiences, interests and attractions may be created and/or developed...,
AG, I enjoy following you on Zity, and before Zity was developed, going back into the 80s or 90s. You are a deeper thinker than myself, and more often that not, I have gained from your insights.
Regards,
Dr Marcus Welby