It seems most stories are male related

Reading story's or post's on diaper wearing it seems most are male related. Is this a more male thing or are there as many females into diapers but they're just not out of the closet yet?

I rhink its most a male thing 😄 i hvae heart abourt menny females that like diapers and enemas

I think there are just as many females into diapers. i just think that guys are more up front about what they like and are more willing to talk about it in forums like this.

Why not start a poll about this if there isn't one already? It would be interesting to see how ppl vote.

I'm not in to diapers one bit, but to each his own.

If a poll is started, this male would definitely not be into diaper fetish. However, I believe to each his own.

It wkould be a lop sided poll. More males are into this. Diapers massage the exterior male organs. Women do not have this to be massaged. However, the freedom to just release anywhere is equal to both. Both have the sensory feeling to wetness. Woman has the vagina and less likely to be a liker of any #2 in that area.

If diapers are a turn on for ya,enjoy. If not so sad to bad,your going to have it rough if you live to the retirement home age. Then the diaper lovers will be all smiles,the rest will be grumpy old folk. Thats it in a nut shell.

That because their more male that wear diapers then women alot of women would think that wearing a diapers for fun and useing them is gross

I am very curious to know why diaper wearing is mainly a male fetish.

To be honest, I think most fetish communities see more active male members than female. Men tend to be more vocal and open about their kinks, and any women who try to be vocal get pounced on by 200 guys wanting to chat/hookup/exchange pics.

As an aside, I think in the diaper community the ratio between males and females is a lean 70/30, being generous about it, but most of the diaper stories I've read are written by guys and have an all-female cast. The only male in their stories is... well, themselves.

I am a girl enjoying diapers... but I agree you don't read much about them

I agree these sites tend to be malecentric. But it really makes me feel better to read other women's writing. So other ladies keep it coming.

I love changing an adult woman's diapers, and I love being a nurturing Daddy to an adult-baby, -toddler, or -little girl. Would women who enjoy diapers (ab, dl, other) also enjoy reading adult bedtime stories written by a man -- especially, but not exclusively, those written from an ab/dl Daddy's perspective? I have a slew of them (variations on a few themes), but I don't want to impose them on anyone unless there might be some interest amongst women (as well as men).

I totally respect all women, and I understand some women prefer to read stories and accounts and comments and posts (true or fictional) written by other women, but are there any diapered women who would like to read a story written by a man who loves changing a woman's diapers, and who loves being a Daddy? If so, please let me know, and I'll start sharing. Thanks!

There are women who share the same desires. Perhaps there are just as many women as men, but the women choose not to be as vocal about it. The threat of being "pounced on," as charmingboy put it, is very real. But I am not one to hide my desires, and I don't understand people who do. I know that I owe it to myself and my partner to be honest about what I want. That doesn't mean that I prance down the street in diapers for all to see. I just don't understand how people can be with someone for years and keep something like this from them. Of course you run the risk of upsetting/freaking them out, but I think it's worse to live in fear of the possibility of rejection.

Most of the stories I've encountered are androcentric. I find that it's much easier for me to write stories with a woman as the sub. I am capable of writing about other genders, and I do occasionally, but the majority of my stories involve women. If you'll excuse my shameless self-promotion, check out "A Master Plan" in the new stories section. I'm still in the process of writing it, so if you have any suggestions, feel free to leave them there. 😃