How to handle this?

My new girlfriend, and she is a really loving, caring person, has this fantasy of walking in the front door, being bent over the couch, and to be "taken" anally. I am not real experienced at anal sex, but I do not think I could do this without her having a preparatory enema. She enjoys getting an enema just fine, but I wonder how that could be done, and still give her the sense of "anal rape?" At my age, I am not very sensitive using a condom. Perhaps some here can tell us how long before this act takes place, could she get an enema that will have her rectum stay clean for anal sex? What kind of enema would be needed? I like the idea she has, but I do prefer not to do it "dirty." Walt TY

It would have to be "prearranged" so that when you do this she is clean enough for the first 6-7 inches inside and no one hurt from lack of adequate lubrication.It may be a little more effort but can be done if you allow some planning ahead of time.I doubt you can do this on the spur of the moment and not expect some type of injury and pain to her anus.That's just one idea so hope you get plenty of other ones here!Have fun if it does happen and let us know if it came true! 😉

She should take maybe one or two small enemas (6 oz)just to have the rectum clean, and you should use a condom for your safety (there are bacteria that are normal in the rectum, but not in your urethra)Her fantasy is perfectly normal and I think you two will enjoy the moment very much...!!!

Hi, Walt.

You're a lucky guy to have a lady with such a fantasy. It just happens to be one of mine as well. I'm not sure if it's something that should be planned ahead for her or if it's just a spur-of-the-moment passionate event that you've planned. You might want to have some form of lube hidden on the sofa for such a moment.

As far as it being dirty, I think it would still be somewhat dirty even after a few quick cleanouts, and you might want to think again about the condom if it's that bothersome for you. But after the surprise, you could both go get in the shower and clean each other together.

In my experience, anal sex has not always resulted in a dirty mess, and it's always been a lot of wild fun.

I agree with Petal. You are a lucky guy to have a GF that is interested. Your GF can take a fleet 15-20 minutes before you "ring the door bell". She will be clean enough. Also, you should wear a condom. One thing we are about here is "safety first". Let us know how "the fantasy turns out".

Was wondering, could you maybe slip a "female condom"(here is a link to what I'm thinking of http://www.avert.org/female-condom.htm ) inside her rectum? This may be able to give you the clean you are looking for, but still give her the rape fantasy she is looking for. Just a thought I had. Good luck.

I congrat you for your open mind , for a man of my age 😉, and also for your health.

Give her what she need, and try to found something to learn to her, or be her student, tell her that you inexperienced and want to learn to please and tease her.

Propose her to receive an enema before the scenario, buy a common bulb nr.8, prepare water with baking soda 1.91Oz/Gallon or 55gramms/Gallon or 14gramms/liter the good temperature of water is between 99° and 105°F. or 37° and 41°C. This are very serious values, not coming from an undefined information.

More warm more relaxed, NEVER ABOVE 105°F. or 41°C.

After the enema, rub her ass, turn around, than in the center, like you will shove your finger but don't enter, tease her, once she move her ass to your finger , give her one finger move turn move out wait a while shove in, make love to her ass like you will do it with your cock in her pussy.

After a while try two fingers, never wild, always slow and soft , wild is permitted when both are ready, when she ask it.

Ask her to receive the same treatment as she want receive, AND LEARN, RECORD ALL WHAT IS SHE DOING don't forget any trick, she will fuck your ass, like she want to be fucked.

Buy a big tube of KY, and lube her like you kiss her, enough

ALL the best to you both let the flow and juices be with you.

They are condoms for gays who have more mechanic resistance.

New condoms are quiet resistant.

Arthur

You would have the enema set up and as she comes in the front door, you proceed to remove her clothes and administer the enema and let her expel, and then when she is finished proceed with the anal intercourse!!! Barry