Prostate exam while cathed.

Has anyone experienced a prostate exam/massage while catheterized? I ended up in the ER last night with Urinary retention & they drained over a liter of urine. After I was finished draining the ER Doc proceeded to perform a through prostate exam on me with the catheter inserted(first time) It felt SO much different than a normal prostate exam and I ended up with a erection right in front of the doc.

I ended up being sent home with a 18fr foley & leg bag- Now if only I could talk my (non medfet)gf into doing the same thing for me .

I would just throw the idea out there that you like that kind of thing and ask her to fulfill your dreams and desires. if she would like to join in with you tell her that it can be really enjoyable not only for you but it could do just the same for her

I tried to get my wife into it she doesn't want any part of it. I have to keep it to my self. I think it is great how couples are able to enjoy this.

Last night was our first attempt at fisting with a catheter inserted, got a bit jumpy as we could not find the sweet spot and didn't want to cause any damage. My wife cannot find the g-spot on my prostate, and most times with deep and indeed even with shallow fisting my reaction is to spurt uncontrollably, not sure if this is urine or prostate fluid, bladder was empty at this stage, but some fluid did leak past the side of the catheter tube.

Will try this again for sure, would love to stimulate the prostate from both inside the urethra and outside through the rectal wall. I have however heard that this can bruise the urethra, so just wanted to do a trial run for starters. All OK today.

We used a 16 Fr foley catheter with 15ml balloon tip.

Object is to try for bladder irrigation...I have the 0.9% saline, but couldn't find a sterile tube and necessary connectors with valve to control the flow.

Still looking to source the necessary paraphernalia, the 3 way foley available at my local pharnacy was an 18fr and I feel that for a starter this may be a bit large.

I hope to write a positive report soon!!! 😄

Perhaps you should try a thicker catheter when you are into this kind of game? It stretches the walls of your urethra equal as the pressure are the same in all points. Speaking for myself i have found that the thinner the catheter is the more i stings and hurts when moving,the insertion of a thicker catheter is,funny as i sounds,less painful and invasive than a thin,but the psychological thrill in observing a fat snake seeks its way into the urethra is outstanding.

I cannot give you recommendations in size as i have no idea of how big your urethra are inside. I got hold of a bunch 12-14fr foley and found them as earyier meantioned enough to ge the thrill of catheter play but also a burning feeling for a couple of days after. They were arousing to insert and more than one time the tingeling feeling the gave brought me to climax. Afterwards regret as it burned like fire to take it out. Then i bought a number of various sized foleys,16,18,20,22,24 and tested the difference..

Fr 16 is almost no difference to 12,when tested 18 and 20 the whole catheterisation went so much easyier,and with them i managed to catheterise my wife for the first time without pain or discomfort. Still 18 is a minimum for us if there should be any play involved more than a bag or the control issue. As always you should be careful with your urethra but if you listen to your body and find a catheter that fits just perfect there should not be any pain,burning or other discomfort. As i meantioned in another thread a fr24 is one of my favourite catheters.

Aim for fr20 is my best advice..

Thanks for the reply Haraldur (K+), we played with a 16Fr again last weekend and this time there was a bit of an unpleasant stinging sensation which persisted for a while, but with no burning sensation after the catheter was removed. I think I will take your advise and go to an 18Fr for the next time. Indeed having moved up from a 14 to a 16, I did not feel much of a difference, so maybe I will get some of the larger sizes to play around with.

When my wife felt around for the prostate from the inside she felt the catheter tube in my urethra and it was an interesting feeling, pleasant but still not the orgasmic mind blowing sensation which I was hoping for. She may not have touched the prostate at the correct angle or with the appropriate pressure. I have to admit to having being a bit tense at the time. My wife is not a nurse and cannot describe what part of my anatomy she is touching or identify exactly what she is feeling. I think caution in this instance is not a bad thing.

She later fisted me quite deeply, and I experienced intense contractions, but with no prostate fluid or semen filling into the bag or leaking out of my urethra past the side of the catheter, so not sure if this may have been a prostate orgasm.

I have now found a 3-way 18 Fr foley to try some bladder irrigation play. I hope that the drip tubing has a suitable connection to the catheter for the saline, but we're still a bit jumpy about introducing anything into the bladder, I will read a bit more into the subject, there seems to be quite a wealth of experience in this forum.

Thanks again for your input. 😃

In response to your concern about bladder irrigation play, I have a few tips/cautions for you.

Most importantly, make sure that you have sterile saline and that you and your wife are practicing aseptic technique when you insert the catheter. You mention a drip set so I assume that you are using an IV line. An excellent choice because it's sterile as it comes out of the package. You will probably need to source an IV to catheter adapter because the terminal end of the IV doesn't quite match with the opening of the ingoing port of the triple-lumen catheter. Best get this little tiny piece of plastic in advance because once you've opened the IV package and the catheter package, they're not sterile anymore and you should start from scratch. As an alternative, you can use a 60 ml syringe with a catheter tip to infuse the saline into the catheter port.

Secondly, don't overdo. Most adults can hold 350 ml of urine before they start to feel "the urge". After that, the discomfort level increases incrementally. The nice thing about using sterile saline from a bag is that you can see exactly how much you are taking. Don't forget that there is no backflow valve in the ureter (or at least not much of one) and so fluid retained in the bladder can move up to the kidneys. In some cases, this can cause serious damage to kidney function. In other words, don't try to have a "holding marathon". Pay attention to what your body is telling you, and make sure that your partner listens to what you tell her.

Lastly, but certainly not least, relax and enjoy the sensation. To my mind, there is nothing quite like the submission involved in catheter play and irrigation. And we all know what it feels like to finally get relief after a long drive or some other activity where facilities are not immediately available. Enjoy!

Play On!

LadyDoc

Thanks Ladydoc for your kind reply and the tip...I now need to try find a sterile catheter adapter or as you suggest even better to get a syringe with a catheter tip.

Indeed we keep all sterile packaging sealed and use alcohol wipes to wipe down before opening. Here we have a problem with sterile procedure as to whether we should glove up before or after opening the outer packaging.

I'm not sure if my wife gets any pleasure out of this type of play, so keeping it at a low profile for now. I would prefer her to enjoy and not feel too jumpy about it. I think that we have overcome the main hurdle in that we have done it a few times now with no negative effects, so as soon as she feels more comfortable with the idea, I hope to come back with some positive reports.

Take care

Happy

I recently had a prostate exam before I was cathed....unfortuntely as a result of the prostate exam/massage, he couldn't get the catheter in me...Next time, I will definitely do the prostate exam and massage after the cath is already in place

Josh,

First of all, I am guessing you didn't have a prostate massage unless you were having some real issues, and then if you did, it would have been painful, at least somewhat. You probably just had a normal exam.

And secondly, having either an exam or a prostate massage if that were in fact the case would absolutely not be a reason for a cath not to go in, if anything, a massage would have helped.

The reason he couldn't get a cath in you is probably because you have prostate issues to start with, meaning for example an enlarged prostate. I am not understanding why he would have cathed you in the first place, but I don't know your medical history either.

Josh doesn't say one way or the other, but I get the feeling that this might have been a play exam.

LadyDoc

That's correct. If u would like to know more Mash feel free to email me

Josh

Ahhhh, that makes more sense. See, as a true medical professional my thoughts automatically go to the real medical issues at hand. Sorry, sometimes it's just hard to leave work at work, lol.

But along those lines, please make sure whomever you are playing with knows what they are doing. If the person inserting the cath ever ever meets resistance, make sure they stop and know not to force it. It's a good way to puncture your urethra. Trust me on this one kiddo. You won't like it if that happened.

Mashie, we ( in Italy I do mean ) call it "professional deformation" lol, and obviously I agree with you totally.

I am not a medical professional, hower I must say or better warn the guy: reading medical studies, I have read more times that the prostate doesn't like to be manipulate too much.

Too many manipulations and massages could give micro lesions that insisting longly and often could degenerate.

So better to be prudent also in that departement.

M2000