Enemas -- some days good, some days bad

Anybody out there have some days when there enema goes in with a good amount of pleasure, with a minamum of cramping, and others that use the same solution that a few days or day before, was ok but now for some reason, caused you a lot of cramping and the need to get out the balloon nozzle just to get it all in? This seems to happen to me if I take too long of a break in between enemas. If I do my average of a enema every other day, Im ok. But If I give myself a 4 or more day break between enema treatments, I get a lot of difficulty getting in my 1st 3 qts. Anybody out there know what causes this?

I wish I knew why, but some days it feels great and I get really full, other days it seems that it is difficult to get much in and I have to settle for a quick enema. Now and then I know it is my mental state, other days, I have no idea why. Some are more satisfying than others. Good question though.

I've found that when i am most relaxed and in a good mental state everything flows fine and retention is easy. If i am thinking about work or something is bothering me my enemas can seem to be more of a chore (but a good one) than an enjoyment.

Agree with the statements about mental state and being relaxed, especially when doing higher volume enemas. My intervals between enemas may be 2-4 weeks and each experience differs in how easily (or not!) my body is accepting. I try to make sure it's a special time to enjoy the sensual feelings in as relaxed a way as possible.

Good question Gynocamastia.

I am glad to see this happens to others too. I have given myself many, many enemas over more years than I care to admit, but the effects and results are not always predictable.

Most times if I get some cramping and resistance before it is all in I shut the clamp and lay still clenching my butt on the nozzle and breathing deep. In a few minutes it goes away and the rest goes in. But - occasionally with as little as a pint to a quart in me, the pressure builds to the point there is no resisting, and I head for the toilet. There have even been a few accidents where I did not make it.

As someone before has said, I think your mental state and how relaxed you are can be a major factor. We all need to remember that when giving to your kids, or spouse, or anyone. Sometimes they will say, "enough" when they have taken only half of what you think they should have. Let them go! No reason to punish them for their body pushing back. The next one will likely go better.

Almost always if I have trouble getting the water to go in it's because there is a pocket of gas up there. Some Gas-X before the enema usually helps.

Beyond the issue of getting it all to flow in, I find that some days enemas are just not as rewarding as on other days. Moods are strange things. Sometimes some nice enemas will change my mood, sometimes not. Sometimes (usually!) a nice enema will intensely enhance my hornyness, but occasionally not. Go figure.

Hugs,

Diane

Que sera, sera.

I agree so many factors can cause the enema to be good of bad. I have had a few times when getting from a friend can make the enema very uncomfortable. But like my mom always said you mustg take and hold every drop...

Its funny somedays i can take the whole bag and some days i can take a little bit of it and i always repeat the same process

Yes, sometimes the first pint or 2 is a challenge, other days 3 liters is a breeze.. enema roulette.

Yes, and we all wish we know why it is like that, and what to do/avoid etc!

Sometimes 2 quarts is too much other times three and a half are not enough.

I dont even count how much volume i have when i have , i go more on feeling . Also i have experimented with different liquids & my Biggest no no for me was mixing Dettol ( for cuts & abbreasions ) in with the mix , i had painfull stomach cramps for 2 days . you come across some great additives when u experiment , but risk the painfull ones lol

I'm glad you mentioned this problem. I too have had good and bad experiences with enemas. I haven't figured out yet what causes the cramping ones but I don't think it has anything to do with long periods of time between enemas. The cramping is very unpleasant and I usually can't take a full bag of water.

I really don't take enemas very frequently, every three months or so but when its time i do a whole bowel prep using miralax/dulcolax and then 3 enemas afterwards. This time its been hell i can't even get a third of the bag in without feeling nauseated and have to go. Anyone know what's to blame? I tried three days in a row.

I do it when i'm in the mood not because I'm forced to or whatever, because If im not in the mood I'm just not gonna enjoy it I'm stubborn like that 😃

If I am not relaxed and free from the nag of watching the clock I tend to rush the process and my evacuation is not as full as it should be. The key for an enjoyable and fully cleansing experience is calm privacy.

I have found that my stress level influences my capacity. As several others have said the more relaxed I am the easy everything goes in and the less cramping experienced.

For the most part, all my sessions of self-indulgence are simply that. Blissful. A couple of days ago, however, I experienced just what you describe: just a miserable time. Such a shame.

The key is to have enough time. Relax and enjoy the fill. Retain for the desired period and don't rush elimination. A bit of a rest to allow the body to recover and continue with expulsion as necessary. A leisurely approach makes for the most enjoyment and a good enema. For me, this way it is only on the very rarest occasion that an enema is unsatisfactory.

I agree - some enemas are more of a struggle. But as they say, no pain, no gain. I, however, took an enema the other day and everything was PERFECT!

As far as I can tell, it simply happens once in a while. Last week I couldn't hold the enema. The water leaked out as fast as it flowed in. I was using a Foley, so after sitting on the toilet and changing the pad, I switched to my retention nozzle, but it popped out too, Five or so days later I took another enema and it went great.

This has happened to me infrequently over the years. No explanation that I can determine..

Finally! Two enemas a day for the past two days and i took all of them like a pro! What a relief. I haven't had one since October last year. I guess first thing in the morning is smooth sailing for me.

Congratulations Lilmiss,

As most of my friends know, I do a series of 3 enemas every weekend, and 98% in the morning. I usually wake up and have my morning coffee and read the paper a little, the coffee helps to move things along and get things outta the way so to speak. Then I do two 2qt soapys and a rinse. Or a soapy and a rinse, then retain 1 qt of coffee or green tea in a warm for an hour to detox and relax. It is sooooooo relaxing and you feel so much better afterwards.

There have been some days when the solution just will not flow for the first bag and some patience is required for a 'break through'. Sometimes changing position from side to side or laying on my back will help. If my favorite green nozzle generates too much pressure (and sometimes a plumbing disconnect mess) then a smaller nozzle and more time will work. This can be frustrating when I only have a limited time window of alone time for this.

There is no question that every enema or enema session is a unique experience. Diet, exercise, hydration, the amount of time between bowel movements all figure in to the eventual outcome of an enema session. I've had enemas that yielded wonderful physical results and then I've had enemas that were just so-so and left me totally unsatisfied. In all my years of enema play I have never been able to put together just what variables determine whether an enema experience is fun or just the proverbial pain in the butt. I suppose that's part of what keeps us coming back for more!!!

Have fun and play safe!

Deb

I've never had two enemas exactly alike. They are all different. That's part of the attraction.

Yes, some days the enema is so good, I never want the session to end. Other days, after a few fillings and expelling, I am done. Not satisfying.

Why that is, I don't know, but no two sessions are ever the same, have the same results, or have the same pleasure factor.

For me, all enemas feel good, some days they feel better than others. That is what makes enemas so much fun, no two are exactly the same.

Going to have one tomorrow for sure now.

Yep- some days it seems effortless joy- and I don't mean dish soap, other days it's really not fun despite being SO psyched to be clean/all else that comes with&from an enema.

It seems to happen to everyone. There are days when everything goes just perfect. Then there are other days when not everything goes so well. Cramping or leaking, things like that. Guess we will have to live with that.