The enemas that my mother gave me in my youth were a distant memory by the time my fetish resurfaced with a vengeance in my 30s. Everything I know I had to learn by experimentation. Sometimes these experiments have been messy, or humorous, but always fun.
When I first got up the nerve to try an enema again after almost thirty years, I started by buying a pack of disposable douches, and pouring out the liquid that came with it and replacing with warm water. I didn't know at first that you have to squeeze it the whole time or you get a a bulb full of dirty water. I figured that one out pretty quickly.
Soon after, I bought a bag, my first. I was confounded as to how it fit together. Once I figured that out, I had alot of fun with it.
I've gotten some great ideas, recipes, and what to expect from posters on this site.
Mick and I have learned alot together. We've experimented with different solutions, temperatures, equipment, and we're still learning. One thing that is on our wish list is to learn how to safely use a colon tube.