I hooked one pad up to my husband. just below his scrotum and another over my freshly shaved mons. We made sure not to touch until his penis made contact with my lips. It was an incredible feeling. It was not painful, but not exactly pleasurable at first, but once he was inside, it was great. We timed it so he pulled out and touched my clit with the tip of his penis right as he came. It was awesome to say the least.