I have taken the first steps to get my husband involved. I did a series of warm water enemas yesterday afternoon in between checking in here, before I went to work. Then I left my equipment hanging in the bathroom to dry with the douche nozzle attached (let him wonder). He knows I don't douche as I grew up in the age when we were taught that gravity will bring down anything that needs to be washed out at the opening and we shouldn't mess with the flora of the vagina.Then, when I left for work, I minimized this site to the bottom of my screen, so if he used the computer last night, and opened one of my Windows, he would see it in the list.So, then when I get home this morning, I find a new Window open to a BBW porn site and I am cracking up laughing. Maybe there is hope for us yet. I will keep you all posted.