What I've found works best

I know a lot of us, myself included, are really hesitant about sharing our desires. I know it's difficult to bring up in conversation, but if you really want someone to know, perhaps you can take my advice:

Do NOT say something along the lines of "I'm an adult baby." I made the mistake of saying that to my sister (this was my first time telling anyone) shortly after I was caught buying GoodNites. It was a pain because she didn't understand what I meant, and I had to thoroughly explain everything, which didn't help my hysterical crying.

Instead, try comparing it to other fetishes. "You enjoy being tied up? Cool. I enjoy diapers." That's what works best for me, and it makes telling people a lot easier. If they ask why, I explain why. I explain that they offer me a feeling of comfort and security, and for insurance purposes, I always dispel the myth that DLs or ABs incorporate actual children.

I don't describe my exact fantasies, at least not the first time. If I weren't into this, I would be mildly alarmed at an adult telling me that he want a mommy to spank them, make them wear diapers, etc.

And here's the meanest and bitchiest thing: I find it much easier to tell people if I have something on them. For example, a friend of mine told me that he's into cross-dressing. I then felt comfortable telling him what I like.

I know that some people aren't going to accept it, and some are going to think you're crazy, and unfortunately, there isn't much you can do.

There is no easy way, or no one right way to tell, or explain this to anyone. I guess for those of us who are protective of who, and how we tell. You really need to know you can trust them with your heart, if that, then they should be able to handle the rest.

My mother now knows. it was more of a "shit im cought" thing tho. one night during spring break, i decided to wear diapers. so i grabbed one of my depends and went to put it on.(my mom works nights and should have been at work) well she came home early and i didnt hear her pull up or open the door. next thing i know is my door opens up right as i put on my 3rd tab. she stops and stares me down. she then grabbed the final tab put it in place and pulled me into her room. she sat me down, and we talked. long story short. she told me that i should try and find something else to get me off. YEA RIGHT IVE TRYED. NOTHIN HAPPENS!!!!!!!

😁 😁 😁 😁 hey CHNG better enjoy those diapers while you can.the marines don't like diaper wearing freaks.when i went through navy boot camp a guy had a couple of diapers and some powder in his personal stuff.the company commanders had a field day with him.and by the way i use the term freaks because that's what we are to most people if they knew what we wore. 😁 😁 😁 😁

I had to outright tell my bf what I did, because he kinda caught me... But before that, I was talking with a friend about the psycology behind fetishes, and I used diapers as an example. She asked how I knew so much about the subject, and I had expected her to say that it was gross or something. Because she didn't, I could tell that she wouldn't get freaked out or anything if I said I liked diapers a lot. We're still really good friends, and my bf is kinda okay with my kink.