Easier for you to talk about Anal sex or Enema?

Subject kinda says it all. Which do you find it more easy to talk about to your significant other or do they come up at the same time? When talking about one would you bring up the other?

We both liked enemas but not anal sex. My wife, a former nurse would talk about enemas when we had guest over for dinner parties.

Easier to talk about is the anal sex. We do discuss enemas and have played, but my desire is a little more "freaky" then his. sometimes I just keep the fantasy in my dreams.

when we have anal sex, I don't bring up enemas. I just make sure I've had a good clean for our anal session.

I'm trying to start at any assplay at all... going for the angle of "well being clean feels good" and then hope that she's interested.

Thanks all. I find it easy to tell a girl im into anal sex and ask if shes willing to try it but embarrassed to ask about if she would try an enema also. Thats what i will have to try Fdisk1051 seems like the best way to bring up the subject!

In my case it began with my present partner with rectal thermometers. Once, early on, she was on top of me and my right index finger strayed to her bottom. This triggered her memory of childhood temperature games with a friend. It was easy to move to talk of the enema bag and then a few games.

It's always been easier to talk about anal sex with a guy. I've never had anyone ever hint or mention about enemas -- until about a month ago, which led me to try it myself to prepare for anal sex, with the intention he'd administer too...I'm still waiting... 😉

I do prefer to talk about Enemas over Anal sex, but also realize that a good clean out could lead to fun with Anal sex. I have often fantasized a couples Enema, and then later that day or night some great ass play 😎

Definatly easier to talk about anal sex as it has become more mainstream and a desire to try it can't be viewed as being a sickfuck 😜