Do you share enema fantasy's with personal friends?

I was just wondering how many guys and gals on this site share their enema fantasy's and activities with close personal friends ( outside of their spouse or significant other), or is all their enema conversation limited to chat on this website, or a similar website? I have some very close friends that I share many things with, including my enjoyment of anal sex (giving), but I have never shared my enema fantasy's, or my enjoyment of personal anal stimulation. For me, this site is it. It's a shame that it's so difficult to do, as we might discover that some of our close friends enjoy enemas as well. Many guys will admit to enjoying anal sex, but would never admit to enjoying anal stimulation themself. Yet, I bet a bunch of them have experienced explosive orgasms when their sexual partner stimulated their anus with their fingers during sex. I know that I have.

How about you? Do you discuss enemas with close personal friends? Just curious.

No one but here.

Hmp?!?!?!

Gosh, it is my thought that doing so could be wonderful, if it put me across from a woman with whom I liked and could share this esoteric interest. Butt, what are the chances?!?!?! And, then, what if that personal friend with whom I shared about my interest in enemas ~ was not enamored with my fantasy; and, worst, if they thought that I was weird because of my attraction to enemas?

Taking that to the next level, they go off and share my private business with one or more people; i.e., gossip!!! Yea, right; that doesn’t even happen here; and, who would do that in real life?!?!?! And then what?

Then, I find myself with other people knowing that I like enemas, have anal sensitivities, and my reputation suffers because I am perceived as being outside the norm. And, what happens when this info gets to my church, and/or somebody in my company hears that I have enema fantasies?

Some might go to, is he gay, or bisexual? Oops, no!!! But hey, they already know that I like enemas or have anal sensitivities, because I shared it with a buddy, who wasn’t a very good friend in the final analysis.

Nope, this is an area of my life that is private property. Yes, it does get shared about here, anonymously, and it is hoped that I will have the opportunity to meet a special person from Es4fun; but my enema fantasies are not going to get shared with anybody in the general population.

Good point Hermann. Knowing how people talk, even those you might consider your closest confident, probably just as well not too share enema fantasy's. Invariably, someone says: "This is very confidential, and please don't tell anyone....but let me tell you.....", and then your secret is everywhere. I concur.

No one.

I find that a "shared" fantasy is a lost fantasy. Enemas are not a fantasy; they are the great stimulus for fantasies of multi colors and warm acceptance.

No, not any fantasies. Just the basics, how, when needed stuff like that. And only with one other person that I can trust to not talk about it. She shares secrets with me from time to time as well, but never have been able to get her to participate.

Even though we share are enemas on this site,I believe we still have hang ups when displaying our love of enemas in public.At my age of 74 I'm beginning to think;Hell.they can't kill me if I share my enemas with the world,so I will do just that,

What should I have fantasies upon enemas? In the case that I want to have an enema I shall realize this.

No. I only share my enema fantasys on forums like this one.

Not something that comes up in normal, everyday conversation. I'm not into sharing something so personal with others. As Hermann pointed out, information of that nature is much to easy to spread to others and the damage is done! If I keep that information to myself, then I don't have to worry and wonder who else knows.

Only with my husband!

I was raised by my father as a single parent, so he DOES know what's going on, but I don't discuss the fantasy aspects with him at all. Always got the sense that I didn't need to.

Interesting question. I have used the word enema in casual conversation with guys that I feel might be interested, and a few have responded and we chatted about enemas past. Then the big question do you still enjoy them? I do even more with a hot guy like you. Have met a few that smiled and said sounds like something I would enjoy with you. We have met and enjoyed mutual enemas many times over the years . If you don't ask you will never find out.

Tony