What type of Medfetter are you?

I think my fetish comes from an early hospital experience... Bladder or kidney infection aged 5, had to be catheterised. I guess the nurse or doctor wasn't too experienced as no numbing gel was used and it was very traumatic. But it also led me to play doctor and gradually experiment with real catheters, NG tubes etc.

2. Person is a frustrated actor and enjoys the role play

3. Person is a real medic, who wants a fantasy medical life

4. Person is a would be medic, who wants to fantasize that they are in the medical field

I can see myself in all three of these categories. I don't know about the frustrated actor part, but I do enjoy the role play. I was a paramedic, and having a fantasy medical life would be awesome, and I am no longer a paramedic, but still enjoy being able to play around as a medic and have a voice as one with experience.

I suppose #1 is the closest option to apply to me, though none of them is really a perfect fit.

I want to be on the receiving end of things, ie. the patient, which I think does correlate somewhat with being the submissive, in a D/s dynamic - being the person relinquishing control and being acted upon, as opposed to being the person in charge of things. I'm also interested in what I would label "kink", in this fetish. While I want a safe and fairly realistic setting, and I would only explore certain "procedures" with someone who has the knowledge, experience and proper equipment...I also want my playdoc to get to know me, and understand the mix of emotions I feel when I delve into these fantasies. And I really want him to MESS with those emotions - make me more anxious, make me more uncomfortable, make me more embarrassed. From what I've seen around here, a lot of medfetters seem interested in realism. I want the dial turned up to 11 - in a safe environment, with an individual I can trust.

Role play would certainly be involved, but I don't consider myself a "frustrated actor". I want suspension of disbelief - I want to come as close as I can to feeling some of those icky emotions in a scenario that is manufactured, so as not to be completely inappropriate and/or horrifying. I'd like to experience the physical discomforts too, and ideally I'd like to get off, but it is very much the mental mischief I'm most interested in.

I really do think there are a lot more reasons than just those 5 that people get into med fetishes and acting them out. For me, I do enjoy role play a great deal, but not because I just "like it", but because it is an erotic fantasy that one can play out...and for me that goes for both roles I play as both a play doctor and play patient. It allows one to escape the reality of a real exam and make the exam better by making it as one would wish a real exam to be like.

Well, my only medfet so far is childbirth, I'm still looking for other things that might interest me.

For some, it's none of the listed reasons. Some may simply enjoy undergoing certain medical procedures - in my case, injections in my bottom. Not into BDSM at all though, and none of the other listed categories apply to me.

Do not know how I missed this one, It's definitely #4 for me. It started when my mother was hospitalized for cancer treatment, a battle she lost right after my senior year in high school. I watched all the doctors and nurses attending to her and they would answer alot of my questions.

Then, the summer between my senior year in high school and college, I worked in my uncle's medical office. Each summer after I came home from college, I worked in a hospital -- in the operating room, the emergency department, inhalation therapy. and the lab. During my last two years in college, I worked in the university hospital operating rooms. Many of the doctors took the time to teach me anatomy and examination and injection techniques. I had the occasional opportunity to perform some of those on patients and hospital staff.

However, it was not until my then wife had a number of operations over 25 years ago that I thought of putting those skills to "work" for play.

A no 4 I guess but I would like to be a dr and scope out females or a patient being scoped by a female dr or nurse

I'm definitely a #3. RN with a craving for an exotic fantasy life.

I am either a two or a 4,... Im trying to decide.

Number 1 lol no doubt about it

None of the above.

I love the power and humiliation I have over someone else.

Well I don't really fit into any of the options so I am going to create my own # 6. A play patient who really enjoys the intimacy , and the vulnerable position that they are put into. The level of trust one must have and submissiveness one must give the examiner can not be matched. To be seen, and touched in places that are so private and only reserved for lovers can be quite erotic.

#1 . And Bridget said it so well. So #6 also!

I don't think I fit into any of those types either. So I will create my own too.

I've had periods of Ill health ever since I was a newborn. Being constantly exposed to health professionals as a child left me used to the excitement of going to visit the Dr . Obviously some of those times were not nice as they were painful or I was too ill to care.

I've continued to experience those periods of Ill health that have required lengthy hospital stays and procedures with likely a lot more to come now I have a diagnosis.

Due to the exposure as a child that is definitely when I would say my medfet started . Now as an adult the seriousness is there at each visit/stay but after there are erotic memories that feed my medfet.

So I would say I'm a Medfetter with long term health issues that mixes real life with play .

I'm a variant of number 3. I'm actually an emergency physician and I'm into a select subset of medfet as it were.

I use to be a RAF Reservist medic for 15 years and got loads to experience and now a retired medic, i can also say that i am a partly a No1 with out the SM, just the bondage and domination part (with a smile)

As much as I've been around, I don't know much about this topic. Used to do a lot of lab. work and B/P, temps., etc. Would I fit in, and where would I start?

Most of the time I like to role play but it's mostly for brain food and to bounce ideas back and forth for when I am in the mood. I love finding out I have shared interests with someone. Even like hearing about interests I've never explored. It's all about variety I guess. I just think people are amazing.

So I suppose I would more than likely fit in your #2 category.

-we can be adults about the #2 can't we?- *gg giggles* ohhh, I guess we can't lmao!!!!!

But honestly I'm a closet nympho and one day when I meet my fairytale Prince that has a shiny graves speculum placed inside a sheath - he shall get the nymphomaniac wife of his dreams 😃

Only a very small part of my interest in medfet derives from #1, probably no more than about 10%. The other categories don't really apply. I'm not a medic and I'm not very interested in medicine, nor am I a frustrated actor. I'm not looking at medfet as a quick way to meet men, either. lol I do enjoy the roleplay aspect of medfet but I especially enjoy the intimate relationship between the doctor and the patient. I also enjoy the many intimate procedures the doctor perfoms on me during the exam.

I definitely enjoy the role play aspect the most. Power dynamics is part of it also - I love most having my wife be the doctor. I also love, though not quite as much, being the doctor. The words and phrases are key turn-ons for me - "let me have you on your tummy so I can take your temperature", "I'm going to dilate your anus now for better penetration". Our scenes are played out in a "hands on" sex therapy clinic, where the doctor performs an exam followed by sexual response tests. Clearly, keeping it strictly clinical is not the point for me and us, though we have several real instruments, a doctor's coat and an exam table. All of that serves as the lead up to mind-blowing orgasms.

Number 3 for me. I'm an internist retired from active practice but still doing volunteer clinical work. I have always had an attraction to all things anal. From my earliest years (age 7 or so) I have fantasized about rectal temperatures, enemas, spanking and so forth. I acted on these through my pre-teen and teen years, well into college. I continued through medical school and post-grad training but become a bit paranoid because I was concerned, genuinely I think, about allowing my fantasies to bleed into my professional life. I did enjoy some play with the occasional willing partner, be they girl friend or wife, but that was really minor. Now that I'm retired I find my fantasy life, never dead, has reawakened in a big way. Since I'm in a long term marriage with a medfet non-participant, I'm pretty much limited to online activity. Don't know where this is headed and I probably don''t actually envision much change in the near term. But I have led a really blessed life for which I am very grateful and I have no doubt that the right thing will happen at an opportune time.

I am a type 1, although I don't get into heavy pain, period. I am experimenting on nipple play and have always liked anal play. I could try light bondage but never into gags, leather, etc. I also like urethral play, sounds, etc. I've never been examined in a play situation and it sounds like a great deal of fun. Hard to find someone to play with, so I do it all alone.

I really don't think I'm any of these types. My mother was a nurse and rectal temperatures were the norm. That and "playing doctor" while growing up left me loving all things anal, both giving and receiving.

Number 1 for me!

I'm not sure they are all great

Don't fit the list but I enjoy examining women, removing bras, pulling down their panties, rectal temps -- giving and receiving, enemas -- giving and receiving, shaving pubic hair, performing vaginal and anal exams, playing with breasts, butt cheek injections -- giving and receiving, light bondage, mild spankings and watching women squirt.

The following is the best I can describe my fascination with MedFet wether it be me or something I'm reading.

Reluctant but medically necessary nudity resulting in embarrassment (that causes erotic thoughts upon reflecting).

The exciting aspect of myself & others being stripped, viewed and touched in intimate areas by a respected authority figure.

Given the options on the table, I suppose I most closely fit into category 2. Really, I'm a hurt/comfort junkie, to borrow a phrase from fan fiction communities, for whom there are aspects of sexual and emotional fetish and gratification in the concept. Imaginary trauma, physical and emotional both, and the recovery from it is endlessly fascinating to me and is something I come back to a lot in my role play and writing.