Like many who enjoy enemas for both health reasons and erotic stimulation, mine too began at a very early age....probably 4 or 5 years old. Whenever we were ill, particular the flu or an upset stomach, my Mom would have me lie on a towel on the bathroom floor, usually on my stomach as I remember them, lubricate my little bottom, and give me a nice slow warm soap-suds enema from the red enema bag, all the while holding the nozzle in my butt. I never found them to be uncomfortable, and she would always stop the flow if I said I was at all in discomfort. Probably went through 2 or 3 flushings before I was sent back to bed. At that age, I was too young to associate enemas with erotic stimulation.
By the time I got into highschool and had discovered my sexual desires, I realized that I could become really stimulated by anal penetration from anything like a rectal thermometer, or even my own fingers with lots of lubrication to make it feel extra sensual. It was then that I remembered the enemas my Mom used to give me as a child, and decided to give them a try again. God, what a feeling! I was hooked from that point on. That was 50 years ago, and I still love them today. Just wish my wife would get into enemas with me, but so far it's been pretty much solo. Enjoyable, but would be more fun with someone who enjoyed giving and receiving as much as I do.
Which brings us up to the present. Over the years, I've played around with different types of enemas (bulbs vs bags, etc.), and differnt solutions. Plain warm water is OK, but it doesn't give the stimulation as a nice soap-suds enema does. They all feel good, but some just feel better than others. I've tried the milk & honey. Feels good going in, but tends to leave you very gassy. Mineral oil feels nice, but tends to be hard to expel, and you may leak mineral oil later. Haven't tried the coffee yet, but I plan to. Baby shampoo in warm water works fine, but it doesn't give you the stimulation that liquid Castile soap in warm water does. Regular soap just burns too much, and isn't much fun. Plus not good for you either.
One of the problems I have in administering enemas to myself is that I find them so horrendously stimulating, and I have to be careful at the beginning not to climax right away. Probably like many, once I ejaculate, some of the stimulating effect of receiving the enema is gone. So I just have to go real slow, and lie back and enjoy the sensation of the water flowing in me. A short "quicky" is still nice, but a long drawn out enema is unbelievably enjoyable and stimulating.
For years I've been using the standard 2 quart red enama bag that every drugstore sells, and it's OK, but a little bit of a nuisance when you want to do more than 2 quarts, or do multiple flushings. It's a bit distracting when you're in the middle of extacy, and have to get up and refill the bag. When I was using the standard 2 QT enema bag and desired to give myself an enema on the bed, finding a place to hang the bag was initially a problem, because there were no hooks or curtain rods adjacent to the bed to hang the bag from. I found a terrific solution for this. I had a full height camera tripod in the closet that was seldom used. This device works perfectly for hanging an enema bag from next to the bed, and it's height is adjustable too! As they say: "Where there's a will, there's a way". I looked at the various bags and containers on numerous online enema equipment sites, and found plenty of alternatives, before I realized I could make my own container for a fraction of the price. A one gallon clear liquid container from the grocery store is perfect. Drill a small hole in the bottom edge, and install a hose nipple from an enema nozzle, which I have plenty of, and glue it in place with the correct super glue for polypropylene material. Voila', a perfect one gallon enema container for less than $10. I find this actually more stimulating than the red enema bag because you can watch the water level go down while it's flowing into you. It's a very visual thing that I find stimulating, that just adds to the whole erotic process. And if you're so inclined, when doing the final rinse / flush, and the liquid you are expelling is essentially clear at this point, you can lower the container to the floor (or whatever level you're at), with the enema nozzle still in your bottom, and watch the fluid refill the container, then raise it up again, and let it flow back into you. Very stimulating, to say the least.
Which now brings me to the perfect enema. I just tried this yesterday with my new enema container, and it was heaven. Fortunately, I had all day to myself, so I didn't have to hurry, or worry about interuptions. I find that putting a towel on the carpeted floor a very comfortable place to be, and you don't need to worry about getting water on the bed, or wherever. Lying close to the doorway between the bedroom and vanity is a good place, with the night stand next to me to set the full one gallon container on. The small night stand works well, because it's low and the height differential between my butt and the container is great for a nice slow soothing enema. If I want to receive a more forceful volume, or do the knees/chest head down position, then I can always set the container on the dresser, which is at least a foot higher than the night stand. If I desire really fast flow, I can aways hang it higher from the top of a door, or where ever. The possibilities are endless. I started with a nice pleasantly warm water and liquid Castile soap solution (about 2 tablespoons) . Of course the key to a really comfortable enema is lots of anal lubrication, both in your rectum, and on the nozzle itself. I find Vaseline to be the most satisfactory, because it stays with you better than hand lotions and KY Jelly. Your "rosebud" stays nice and soft and comfortable, plus it's enjoyable applying it inside your butt as well. No irritation at all if you keep youself well lubricated throughout, with multiple applications. It's enjoyable too.
When it comes to positions, I like to try them all. Left side is nice, on your stomach is nice and very erotic feeling (this one is part visual and part forceful presure on your penis as your lying there...wow!), and on your back is nice. Elevating your butt with a folded pillow and drawing your legs up, or just simply drawing your legs up to your chest while on your back is really nice, and the visual on that one is stimulationg, just having your well lubricated ass exposed with the nozzle burried deep inside is a real turn on. If you're next to the doorway like I am, you can even raise both feet up on the each side of the door to enhance the flow. Having a nice big mirror to view into, also adds to the eroticism. The head down on your knees is of course very stimulating as well, and provides for good flow into you. I use an enlarged tip rubber nozzle that I bought several years ago from a mail-order catalog, and it works nice, because it doesn't slide out like the usual small enema nozzles in standard kits. Plus being larger, it feels wonderful sliding in, well lubed of course, and even feels nice in place. I'm seriosly looking into buying one of the larger bulb style Pyrex glass nozzles I've seen, plus an iflatable balloon type to add to my enema fun. I had an inexpensive ballon type a number of years ago, and it was wonderful, but the inflator gave out on me. Just need to buy a better one. Can't wait!
I kind of got side tracked here about my stimualting enema yesterday. I took the first 2 quarts from my gallon container, changed positions a number of times, and probably held it for about 15 minutes or so. Of course, I found the key to a really nice comfortable enema is going very slow, and changing positions every few minues, from side, to back, to stomach, to head down - butt high, etc. The solution really gets to move around inside, and the stimulation is just supurb. I emptied, re-lubricated well, and went for the last 2 quarts of Castile and water soap solution. Same procedure as before. Then I went for the rinse, which I had not been doing previously. Boy, was I missing out, and this really finishes off a terrific enema, and left me feeling lighter and very refreshed.
For the rinse, I mixed up a gallon of warm water, with a tablespoon of baking soda, and a tablespoon of sea salt. This really is a nice mixture for rinsing, and it neutralizes the little burning left behind, no pun intended, from the soap suds cleansing enema. I can't believe after all these years that I hadn't tried this before, but I highly recommend it. Once again, I lubed my ass real good with plenty of vaseline, and the nozzel, and started again. As before, I changed positions several times while letting the water flow in very slowly, only stopping the flow just occasionally. I have a standard plastic pinch clamp with serrated notches in it, which allows me to adjust the flow perfeclty. Watching the water level drop slowly, coupled with the stimulation of the flow itself, is really a turn-on for me. Here's where the shock came in though. Because I had done such a thorough job with the cleansing enema, I was totally empty, and I was able to take the whole gallon without getting up to expel it. I had read of people taking a whole gallon at one time, but almost didn't believe it, as I had never come close to taking this amount before. Not once during the whole time did I feel uncomfortable. It was just pure pleasure. After the first rinse, I did a second rinse with warm water and salt solution with another gallon. Again, keeping myself well lubricated with vaseline the whole time. At the end of the second rinse, because the solution inside me was basically clear at this point, I did the trick with putting the container on the floor while the nozzle was still buried very comfortably deep inside me, and let the water flow back into the container. Almost 2 quarts went back in, and then I raised it back up, and let the warm water flow back into me. I did this a couple times just out of sheer physical enjoyment, which brought me to a wonderful climax. Wow, what an enjoyable enema afternoon. The only thing missing was a nice female who could have enjoyed the whole thing with me! I plan to keep experimenting because I find enemas so stimulating and pleasurable. I am so stimulated by enemas, I can easily achieve a hands off orgasm just by the stimulation alone. This is most easily accomplised while on my stomach, with the water slowly and pleasantly flowing in. Hope you enjoyed my story, and happy enemas to you.