Embarrassed to admit?

I knew a girl once who I suspected gave herself enemas, though of course I was embarrassed to ask her about it. I doubt she would have admitted it even if I had asked - Anyone find themselves in similar situations? Where you're afraid that the other person thinks its strange?

Enemas are kind of a tough topic unless you have a very open relationship, or your spouse or significant other is quite aggressive sexually. With gals who are sexually aggressive, and particular those who enjoy anal stimulation, bringing up the idea of giving her an enema really is no problem. She most likely will go for it, even if she's never tried it. It's the gals who are kind of shy, and not sexually aggressive, that the idea of an enema may be a difficult subject to broach. It pretty much depends on the strength of the relationship between you and her, as to how comfortable you are in bringing it up with her. The best time is probably during a very intimate moment, or perhaps after a few drinks and she is feeling a little less inhibited. If she's committted to the relationship, she probably won't say no, but may require some tender coaxing to get her to participate. So many people associate enemas only with pre-surgery situations, or severe constipation, that they don't even recognize the erotic stimulation afforded by them. If they only knew!!!

With many people the fear is that you will think less of them if they admit/agree to to enjoying enemas

I certainly wouldn't think less of anyone if they admitted to me that they enjoyed enemas. If they were open enough to admit it, I'd probably have to concur. Interestingly, I am good friends with an older couple (she's 71, and her husband is now 90), and a couple of weeks ago we somehow got on the topic of anal sex. How, I don't recall, but it was amusing anyway. Mrs. L said she would never do it, and thought it was awful, although she's a very liberated woman. She asked her husband if he had ever tried it, and he just sat there with a smile on his face and remained non-committal. I told Mrs. L that I bet her son probably enjoyed it, but suspected that his wife was probably too uptight to try it. Mrs. L thought anal sex was bad because it was dirty (un-clean), too which I said that that was easily remedied. She didn't really say anything beyond that, so I don't know what was going through her mind. The enema routine didn't come up, but we certainly were "dancing" around it in our conversation. We all had a good laugh, and I told Mrs. L to ask her son about it, but told her not to mention my name (their son knows me well), as he would wonder what the hell his folks and I talk about when we get together. Unless enema's actually come up in the convesation, this is one we probably won't discuss, although I must admit, some of our conversations have been pretty frank.

Being married since decades I have no problems in talking with an other married wife upon taking enemas for health reasons.