Pantie check

When I was very young, I had a habit of 'withholding', and that was the origin of my enema treatment. At that time I quite often would lie about 'needing some assistance', Mum would equally often check to see if I had any little brown marks in my panties, which, if found, of course, were evidence that I had tried to avoid going poo by forcing it back in; and of course, there would be 'enematic consequences'. Was anyone else here subjected to the same underwear inspection? Mum correctly assumed that it was a very reliable indicator 😃 😃 😃 .

Cos

Oh my god, I had completely forgotten about that! Yes, though I generally got an enema every morning anyway, any unseemly stains on my underwear would instantly result in a session. Once, I remember leaving behind nasty streaks in the tub, and I got bend over right then and there for a bulb or two.

It was so humiliating!

I've heard those marks referred to as poot stains......Jimbeaux

We call them skid marks!

That was a sure way to get an enema, havin the streak

Gosh and gee wizzzzzzzzzzz

i,ve have had my underwear checked many times

but my idea of a pantie check

is to stare at all the women i see

is to look at their behiney,s and see their panty lines

or if i,m lucky enough to have a lady with me

is to have them nakied before me with just their panties still on

Yeah, I got those checks - the one I remember clearest is where my mum talked about the "ghastly" mess in my panties, as a result it's an adjective I closely associate with leaked doodoo.

What goes around comes around of course, and when my daughter was having severe constipation problems I had to check her panties and give suppositories if I calculated that she had an impaction.

I may well have gotten Dulcolax in that situation. You CAN'T possibly do that with Dulcolax inside you.

LisaK:

Amen to your reply... I have tried a Dulcolax supp, and they are not to be denied...

Cos.

I belive moms are just the same all over the world. I too knows about checking for skitmarks and followed by one or two bulbsyringes of water sprayed up the bum. I didn´t like it at the time, now i get aroused thinking of it.

I have never had a pantie check. after you got the pantie check did u know the the enema was coming and dread it as a child?

I had got the "pantie" checks also. And yes if I had a "streak," that would result in me getting an enema. (I had a "holding back" habit too.)

Was it some dreadfull thing, when mom made pantie check. I had a holdback problem, and then mom called me to the bathroom, it allmost solved the problem, because I knew that was to come. The worst of it was then there was no skitmarks, then she sometimes lubed a finger and pushed it up my asshole to be sure. Mom kept doing it till I was 14 years and the last 2-3 years I loved it more and more.

Growing up with one brother, somewhere between 6 - 8, I don't recall the specific age, because my mother was spending too much time wondering about what was in the seat of my under shorts, I threw such a fit that she stopped and never asked me again.

G.N.

Secrets007:

When I had my panties checked, what happened did depend in part on what was observed, if there were little marks of poo in my panties, I always got an enema (or two; with Mum, one was rarely considered enough); and sometimes, even if there was no 'evidence', I got an enema anyway 'for good measure'. Therefore, when a pantie check was 'ordered', I would start thinking about an enema; and when I was young, yes, I dreaded them... as I got older, I considered them more of a nuisance, and eventually, started to enjoy them. Of course, as I got older, there were fewer and fewer 'positive results' from a pantie check 😁 ,

Cos.

THE ENTIRE PANTY CHECK IS STUPID AND PERVERTED.

AT LEAST 99% of the "skidmarks" is due to the fact that many children do not wipe well (or may have "sharted") and has nothing to do with constipation or withholding feces. Then, when they then scratch their anal areas, presto, skidmarks. It isn't rocket science. These mothers are too interested in sticking their fingers up their children's assholes, and has NOTHING to do with health, or any other bodily function tests they think they have to do. They are just perverts and can usually get away with molesting their children.

NO TREATMENT IS REQUIRED.

Just like children who "won't eat" at mealtimes with the family (and many parents get worried that they'll be malnourished) eat snacks secretly, children who supposedly withhold going to the bathroom, will do it secretly and do not tell their mothers. Eventually, you have to go.

God I'm GLAD someone brought this up!I had the same thought myself but decided to keep quiet(a rarity! 😁).This happens to all of us at any age if you don't wipe well and especially with the elderly and youth!I see alot of skid marks at work from patients who can't wipe well enough and I know many kids aren't proficient at this!

Its all seems so different in the USA from England - enemas are not nearly so common over here. When I was a child I remember receiving suppositories sometimes .... oh yes the memories are coming back now. Maybe having these yellow jelly things stuffed up my rear are what my engagement with this site is all about. These posts are really helping me remember.

I don't wipe at all......I wash with water and my hand. It's much more sanitary. My mom never stuck her finger up my butt. She would give you an enema in a flash though.....Jimbeaux

P.S. there were lots of flashes when I was growing up

Switchable:

I realize that not all cases of marks in the panties are due to withholding, and after I was finally broken of the habit; any further marks in my underpants were indeed due to my 'carelessness' at wiping. However, my original condition was, I guess, psychological. At that time, I had the habit not only of ignoring any urge to defecate, but when my body wanted to (because as you said, inevitably it came to that), I would find a quiet place, stand perfectly erect, and scrunch my cheeks, and exert myself (squeeze) to drive the turd back in, and usually, I would succeed; but inevitably, there would be some remains on my ass, and in the back of my underpants. I did this because I was asserting my control over my functions. Of course, as we become more aware of the facts, and understanding and accepting of things that 'willpower' just cannot overcome, this appears a silly thing to try. But I used to do it. Remember, I was only 4, 5, 6 at the time (So I was a slow learner 😉, sue me, or if you'd rather, give me an enema). Occasionally, I would have to let a little pebble of crap fall down the leg of my pants; discretely kicked aside onto the lawn, or into the flowerbed. (Obviously, I was real brat.) Obviously, there were traces of poo in my underpants as a consequence. So the marks in my underpants were indeed consequences to my intention of 'withholding'. I don't know of any other cases as extreme as this, although I have heard of some interesting things in RL. I sometimes wish I had that same degree of control over my anus as I had at that time.

Now, as to whether Mum's 'therapy' constituted abuse; well, what kid doesn't feel that being given an enema is 'abuse'? At that time (late 40s, early 50s), the abuse argument coming from a kid would have got Nowhere; then, a parent was always assumed to be doing what was best for their kid. Then, child abuse was assumed to involve more physical activities, such as beating, sodomy, cruelty oriented activities; usually involving non parental figures. Cases such as kids being abducted, tied up, whipped, sexually molested, etc. Yes, they did occur; rarely was a parent the culprit. What Mum did to me was meant to help me; and to a very large extent, I believe that it has succeeded.

Finally, from your rather assertive response, I fear I might have touched on a nerve, and if so, I deeply apologize.

C.

^^^^ You didn't touch a nerve, I just felt that in general, not your response in particular about panty checks were just stupid on the part of parents. I have noticed a skid mark on very rare occasion (my girls are neat freaks like me) or a few drops of menstrual blood on panties (girls are now 12 and 15) and I have never said anything about it to them because I never felt it was necessary because they are neatniks about their bodies, but I wish their bedrooms were a little more organized at times. I never gave either daughter an enema for any reason at all and would never even have considered it because their panties had any size skid mark. In my opinion, doing that doesn't speak well for the parents who are obsessed with their children's bowel habits and underwear.

Switchable:

Thanks for the kind response.. 😃

I believe I understand your points..

I hope I wasn't too explicit; but I really do remember those times very well.

Definitely in those days the point of the regularity of the child was a very important facet of childrearing, a common topic of discussion at morning coffee klatches. Anyway, I survived, and for a good many years ( I'm now 66 ), and that's how I ended up with the fascination I now have.

I'm glad that I didn't remind you of anything painful, I was a little concerned until I got your response.

Cos.

To Switchablesuzie and Cos - I understand both of your points of view. Yes Suzie, it does sound a bit harsh checking underpants - but like Cos I also "held back," much the same way that Cos described.

And Suzie, you are right - eventually the kid will "go," often times in private and absent to the presence and knowledge of the person that monitors their bowel movements. I sat on a lot of public toilets myself as a kid, at shopping centers, stores, park restrooms, etc., seeing places like these as an opportunity to release my bowels without it being known. When I was able to get away by myself (browsing in the toy section while mom shopped, for example) I would usually visit the restroom also. I would often go and sit on the toilet and at least try to make something, even if I didn't have the urge - the thought being that I could get by without going longer at home.

Why Cos and myself got to be that way is a mystery to a lot of people. I've heard that it is somewhat common, although at the time (like most people that have done it) I thought I was probably the only one. It has been theorized that it's a form of exercising control - "bratty" (as Cos described) could be a component, at least in some ways...

I know it was exasperating to my mom when I started doing it. I can't blame her for not wanting to deal with the messy underwear, and sometimes mine ended up being quite a mess! Of course prior to the "total messes," brown streaks in my "panties" were evident at least a day or two prior to the inevitable lack of control. I often fought pretty hard to contain it, crossing my legs, etc. In fact, if I was caught crossing my legs, and with that expression on my face, I would immediately get sent to the toilet and, if I didn't "let it go" (as I should have been expected to, as it was obvious that I needed to go), I'd get an enema. I truly believe that my enemas started as a last resort to having to deal with my poopy pants.

I wish I got a pantie check just I don't where them but it would of liked a underwear check witch would have give me more enemas and more great memories 😃

Usually it was already decided I was getting an enema. The streaks found we're only used as further justification that I really needed what was being prepared for me.