How to set everything up?

For all of you how already performed an exam on somebody, how did you get started? Did you start with buying a speculum and some other stuff, or did you buy everything at once so you could start with the full experience? Personally I would like to start with the full experience but I don't know if my girlfriend really likes it till she tries it once and it's quit an investment. So don any of you have some advice for me?

Buy a stehoscope, a speculum at e-bay ( try to choose a medium or small graves or cusco metal or a disposable one - size depends on your girlfriend anatomy and OB/GYN history, births, not births etc), a box of latex gloves. Then adapt a normal table or bed to perform the exam. Do some research about examining skills. That will do a good start: don't forget some lube like KY or something of the kind.

Buy an enema bag if enema is an important part for both of you.

This can be done without spending too much.

Your hands are for free and wilassure all the palpation.

Fix a clean, warm scenario without too many stuff, a discreet bedroom may do it or you can allways get into the "housecall scenario"

play safe and enjoy

Amaral is totally right about getting the instruments, setting the scene and learning the basic techniques. As with your concern about not knowing if your girlfriend will like it or not, I suggest you start it slow. I mean, it's nice that you got the stuff and know what to do with them to be ready but a big part of it is gauging what her reaction will be.

If it's her first time and you totally dont know how she'll respond, take it slow. Like start with vitals. I mean for me, I started out with bdsm and just recently discovered medfet play. I mean, for years Ive been dropping in EC to check out the library, I knew I'm turned on by seeing and reading gyno stuff but I've never really played yet and never imagined I actually will.

Until I met my beau, yes, on the site. And well, he started it slow with me. It started with a rectal temperature taking. At first I was uneasy with it but it turns out I liked it. Then from there, we moved to injections, then enemas, then a whole lot more, I wont bore you with the details.

As with my stuff, I already had the basic stuff as it comes with my job as a nurse, you know, the basic BP set, stethoscope, thermometers, the white uniform, the rest of the stuff like syringes I slowly started hoarding bit by bit from work , then got the enema bag, slowly I realized I already had my own medfet space in my closet. And the progression of me acquiring my stuff depended on how intense our play got.

So it's up to you, atbj. You can get all the supplies at once or you can do it bit by bit depending on your girlfriend's response. What's important is you slowly introduce her to it and not startle her to death by having an entire clinic laid out for her when she gets home, lol. good luck with your play! and do tell us what happens. I for one would want details. 😃

The first time that my girlfriend and i played we went together and purchased a speculum from an adult toy store. we also bought a box of exam gloves at the pharmacy, as well as a, "Special thermometer." we already had lube and she had a stethescope.

we set a couple of chairs for her to use at stirrups or knee holders and we draped towels across them for her comfort.

we did alot of variation, but we started off with the exam questionaire, as she got undressed, then she was left naked. i told her that she would have to have a standing pelvic, breast, and rectal exam, then i had her get on the table, then i did breast, pelvic, then the speculum exam, then ass up head down, then the sexual part of the exam began.

lots of glove changes are involved. i also draped her, undraped her using towels, alot.

the medfet stuff evolved from there, and we eventually had our own exam room with a gyno chair, and lots of goodies. about once a week she would need to her her special doctor, and a good time was had by all. eventually she even asked me to have another patient so she could be the nurse, and, have a nurse when she was the patient.

hummmm, now that i think about it, i wish that we wouldn't have stopped dating, LOL

While the toys are crucial to a realistic play exam, remember the psychological aspects are the key to success. A lot of that depends on her ability to "put herself" into the situation mentally. Most of my partners/patients have been good at that, even reporting nervousness prior to the event, just as would be expected in a genuine exam. Also, remember for most the idea of being required to "just sit or lie still" while being examined is a lot of the turn-on for the patient, that and the sensation of the cold instruments on the warm skin.

My only suggestions would be:

Go easy and build up. You can add more later. Start with the simple things that interest you and also her. Don't make the first few times overly complicated. You'll take the fun out of learning what you like and if the fun goes, so does the interest.

Ask for her input. My wife has no interest in the exams but I always ask her if she has any input. Does the speculum feel better in this position or this one? Since it is her body you are most likely opening up, ask if it's comfortable. Some women love painful gyno play, the stretching, the cold steel, the invasive nature of it and the humilation. But I doubt any woman wanted that the very first time.

As for the role-play aspects, I will defer to others who are more experienced in that aspect. I am more of a crank her open and gawk kinda guy, at least so far.

We started with a mail order specuem from the stockroom.

We got little sundry things from wall mart, rubber gloves, q tips, a BP cuff and stethoscope.

We got the exam table from the internet. I paid a lot more to ship it than I paid for it. Since than I have found few local on CL from free to like $75.

I picked up a doctors scale on ebay.

we got some office furniture from wall mart.

I got a doctors stool at an auction (I almost got a table for $1 stocked with stuff but some dick wad got in a war with me. They had two. He could have had one for $1. He wound up with both of them for $100 a pop. At least I got the stool!

At first I had a snake flash light held to my table with big tie wraps and that worked well and looked pretty good, but I found a deal on a real medical snake light at a hamfest.

I picked up autoclave on the local CL.

I have a great enema bag holder. This was an antique parakeet cage, that hung from a pole. The bag hangs perfectly on the pole.

I have picked up assorted thermometers and enema supplies over the years and other little sundry items. Overall I have a pretty full featured exam room. I am always on the lookout for new stuff.

As far as the exam goes, having a lady or two to practice on goes a long way. Go slowly at first remember you are not a real gyno and you can lube everything up good. Once you get the hang of inserting a speculum you can just use water or nothing if you want that true to the doctor sensation. Going to the doctor with someone is also good for picking up little subtleties. If you can get any teaching videos they are also really good to watch. I got a lot of them years back from a guy name s Skyler. I am not sure if he is still around or not. Going slowly is vital at first though. You don't want to hurt anybody. This is all good clean fun, and it is only fun if everybody is enjoying themselves and nobody gets hurt.

My advice, is to start with the basic speculum examination. It can very very difficult to visualise the cervix on some patients, and even Doctors in training have a hard time here. Not as easy as it looks to do it well.

It's not just a case of inserting it and opening up. There's more finesse than that.