How about the other side?

We have an 18-page(plus) topic on "plus sized" women. Trust me, I am not one, but how do we feel about "plus sized" men????

Are you a plus-sized man?

I'm 5'5" and 193lbs. Is that plus-sized?

And yes, how do the lady members here feel about larger men? Or, the other extreme (jockey-size)?

Describe plus side men.I am 119 lbs,5'5: 29" waist,not an once of fat,but I sure am horny as hell.

Hey twobagger, you're an inch taller and 4 pounds heavier than my usual weight. Were evenly matched for wrestling! 😮 😮 😮 😮

My waist in smaller than yours, but I have s bit of female fat in the right amounts, in all the right places. 😎 😎

Susie;I can live with that,I'm gamed.I appreciate healthy looking people because they care about themselves.To me it is a sign of intelligence.The fact they enjoy enemas brings them up a notch to a greater level in my book.I only wish I knew the way to convince the world the pleasures we are having.It certaintly would be a happier place to live.

Since I started the original topic for women,I'll go ahead and say that the same goes for men too.We women get caught up in ourselves because it seems men don't have to live up to the same standards as women in this area-not that men don't experience discrimination in this arena but it doesn't seem to be as prominant in the media and magazines.Correct me if I'm wrong here-I just don't notice it nearly as often.Kudos to Walt for coming up with the reverse side of the topic!I'm sure this will garnish as many comments as mine did! 😁 😁 😁

For Susie and others. No I am not a plush sized man. Ia m 5'6" and a solid 150 pounds. I see so many men my age (64) who have let themselves go to "pot." Many younger males as well. I will leave it to you ladies, and gents if you find those types attractive. Walt

We are all attractive to someone in some way -- doesn't matter the size. Life happens and bodies changed because of age or life circumstances. We have a few more scars or a little less hair. As they say, it's not what's on the outside that matters to me, it's what's on the inside. I'm willing to "probe" into a plus-size man (or vice-versa) to see what he's made of ;-)

We seem to have either some really open understanding poeple here on both sides of the "plus size" topics, or a lot of folks just being nice, cos they don't want to upset, or lose a potential mate. Would we ALL really take time to get to know the heart of someone, perhaps less attractive than others? Walt

Why didn't I notice this thread before now, bad LadyDoc!

Historically speaking, I'm drawn to tall, lean men. My ex-husband was 6'1" and extremely thin. My partner is 6' and about 170+/- (I'm sure he'll correct me if I'm way off-base) and I love every inch of him. For a "man of a certain age", I think he's in great physical shape. I've also gone out with men who weren't quite so svelte. And when I was training horses at the racetracks, I went out with one or two of the jocks. At 5'5", I don't consider myself very tall, but I towered over them. Ounce for ounce they were so strong they probably could have broken me in half, like a twig.

As others have pointed out, it's not the package that's important. It's what's inside that makes the difference. Passion, patience, imagination and intelligence are far more important than looks. He could be George Clooney's clone, but if has no personality he does nothing for me.

Play On!

LadyDoc

You nailed it...LadyDoc. Male or female...it's the personality,not the size. Been with long and lean,short and stout and the personality of each was the overall factor...or course liking sex really helped too. 😜

I myself am over weight but I do work on not getting the roll over the belt so I am saying I work on it alot and loose to my favorite passion and that is cooking things tht taste great but the I work on it again until I get the urge

Zippy SAID:

This is an interesting topic. . . . I think that it is more important to know the person on the inside. . . .

I bet you've known a lot of women on the inside! 😜 😜 😜 😜

I believe the personality makes the person not the size of their body, whether male or female. People look at the outside wrapper first to judge whether it's worth looking inside. Sadly many miss out on the hidden person inside. Most, when they look at this plus sized Miss,would think what a frump. But boy are they sadly mistaken. 😁

Miss Stress?

I've seen the "fantasy world," take hold of far too many people. You know, the "blondes" or whatever you like takes over the real. Those kinds of feelings might be ok for those who use multiple enema givers, for whatever reasons. However, when we desire a more permanent mate, looks are the least important. An active mindset, and a warm heart are the BIG counters. The very best things happen with those thaat LOVE each other.

SHAME upon those eho reject possiblities, based upon some ideal scenario. Too old. Too big. Too whatever the bias is. Walt

I'm about 5'8 and have been 150something for years- put on pounds to barely clicking into 3oo before cancer melted it off.

It DOES change how we're looked at. Amusingly in both directions. I'd say it's all equal averaged out if we're proportional- to a point. Some folks have their Lovemap wired for extremes. And thus... We all should have a partner that fits us/us fitting them. Sigh- romantic indeed yet tempered by exasperation at a society/media that belittles our extremes.

While flogging at us to embrace anorexia sized models as we're force fed supersized portions of lethally unhealthy junk food.

Irony Much?

I've always been attracted to larger men. These days, old football builds gone soft is my biggest turn on. My lover George, who is 57, used to look like that but he's lost weight and I think he's a bit to scrawny but I still enjoy everything about him so it doesn't matter so much. My lover Mike used to be a little overweight but has lost weight. The attraction is still there, though because I love his mind and his soul and everything about the man. And my bf Jim is a short and plump man. I find him sexy and enjoy the times we play, which is once a month or so. I recently took on a new lover, Aaron, who is 36, red-headed and tight, like the actor Seth Green. He looks a bit like Damien Lewis from Homeland. He turns me on through my mind first, then my body and it's kind of strange being in bed with someone so small considering my usual type but we always have a good time. I see each of my lovers every month or so, more often if we can, but sometimes less often. They each have different qualities and reasons why I'm attracted to them. So, although my preference is for older, plus-sized and even bald men, it really depends on his personality, and how he treats a lady, more than anything. I just feel physically more protected with a man who has a large body I can cuddle up with and enjoy.

So many lovers, do you walk them with your pimp hat and cane? 😜

I have cerebral palsy. I have had 8 orthopedic operations. I weigh 150 lbs. I am 5' 6" tall, I am being careful with my weight because I dont need additional weight adding stress to my joints, I dont have a problem with plus size men or women.