Why men like to play with women's bottoms?

Hi guys what is it with men and anal play on here.

What is it that everybody likes so much about playing with a woman's bottom?

Gynoslave-

Well, you've opened up quite a topic here, dear! Kudos to you, and a Karma as well.

I could spend several hours explaining the anatomical and physiological aspects of why anal play is such a delight, but I'm sure there are many on the site that could a much better job of it than I. Suffice it to say that there millions of nerve endings in that region of the body and in many people, those nerve endings are extremely sensitive to the slightest touch or stimulation.

Then there are some psychological aspects involved. Power, control, the feeling of doing something "taboo" or "naughty" plays into it for a lot of individuals. I have found that for many men (and some women) of "a certain age" there were enemas given during childhood that resulted in innocent sexual stimulation. Some folks may have experience their first orgasm this way and have found that enemas and other anal play are highly arousing.

I wish we could put to rest the totally false impression that a man who enjoys and indulges in anal play is gay. Just from my own experience I can say that I don't believe there is a grain of truth in that belief. My partner is one of the most masculine, sensuous men I've ever met, and he loves all things anal. Absolutely the most reliable way to "get him off" is to put a nozzle in his bottom and stimulate him manually. And yes, he likes to play in my back yard too.

I don't think we can put our fellow site-members in a box by saying that they are enemaphiles, or gynophiles, or whatever. I know for myself, I cross several lines. I like to be examined by my partner, and I love examining him, I enjoy giving and receiving all types of anal play, and I love catheters and sounds. Yes, there are a number of different "sides" to this site, but there is nothing that says anal and enema play can't fit into the medfet genre; in fact I think they are all components of the fetish lifestyle.

And as always, I close by saying,

"Play On!"

LadyDoc

I think men enjoy playing with women's bottoms so much is simply because it's there. It is another orifice to be probed and examined, plus it is very close to the vagina and you can feel one through the other's adjacent walls. Anything close to the vagina, men want to access. Besides, men have always wanted to play with our butts, just like they like to play with our tits.

Not all of us do. not that I think there's anything wrong with anal play it's just not my thing it never was. still to each their own.

Not trying to start trouble here just giving my side of it.

It is an interesting subject to read about though.

Dave

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Not all of us do. not that I think there's anything wrong with anal play it's just not my thing it never was. still to each their own.

Not trying to start trouble here just giving my side of it.

It is an interesting subject to read about though.

Dave

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I think I'm not the only one who would say you don't know what you're missing! 😁

Switchablesusie you are almost right. I like to play with everything a woman has, tits, butts, vagina, etc. Just being nude with a lovely lady and playing with each other is great.

Add in some medical, enemas, exams, catheters, injections and it is even greater.

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I think men enjoy playing with women's bottoms so much is simply because it's there. It is another orifice to be probed and examined, plus it is very close to the vagina and you can feel one through the other's adjacent walls. Anything close to the vagina, men want to access. Besides, men have always wanted to play with our butts, just like they like to play with our tits.

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Switchablesusie you are almost right. I like to play with everything a woman has, tits, butts, vagina, etc. Just being nude with a lovely lady and playing with each other is great.

Add in some medical, enemas, exams, catheters, injections and it is even greater.

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I'm ALMOST right? ? ? What part is wrong? 😎 😎 😎 😎

I think that enema play and anal play are two different things that if done correctly can be very arousing and pleasureable

I agree with Doctor Mark that enema and anal play are separate, but they can also overlap. It depends on what the couple likes to do.

For me, anal play and enemas is only a power play in an S&M scene. Most of the time, my husband and I just play with each other's bodies, so it isn't a question of power exchange. We are just doing what we know the other will enjoy.

I like you, gynoslave! First of all, you post pictures of yourself here, and that takes guts. Second, you START interaction, by asking things, and inviting responses. That’s exactly what keeps these forums interesting and keeps the members involved. If everyone just sits around waiting, and nobody initiates anything, the place comes to a crashing halt very quickly.

I like all things anal. I don’t have much interest in vaginal stuff. Yes, I do G-spot play, and vaginal toys, and even urethral play, if that is requested. But, the truth is, I really don’t have much interest in vaginal intercourse. I can’t remember the last time, months and months, probably. I would not last in a relationship where I was limited to just vaginal things. After a month, the sex would drop to almost nothing, and I’d be bored and move on.

For me, a girl’s ass is LIKE her vagina. So, a girl absolutely HAS to be very aroused by the anal things that I do to her. If she just tolerates it, but does not enjoy it, then I will stop, and move on. If she isn’t highly aroused, enough to reach a climax, then it’s simply no fun for me.

Fortunately, most women are HIGHLY aroused when you do anal play correctly. And, I can see why. The things that I do are very erotic. First, I tease girls for a very long time, before there is even any penetration at all. Imagine being caressed all over, until you are wet and very aroused, and almost begging for more. As you lie on your back, with your legs spread, I run my fingertips and hands over the inside of your legs. Very slow, and feathery soft. Plus, I tease your pubic area in the same way. Typically, the girl will be very aroused, and her skin fills with goose pimples, as she lies there enjoying every minute of this. Then, the anal play is easy, and gentle, and very erotic. No fingers rammed in and out harshly! Instead, they stay in, and massage the inside of your rectum very gently. I watch the girl, and let her expressions and movements be my guide. Plus, even in your rectum, I can press gently and arouse your G-spot. No doubt about it, done correctly, anal play is VERY arousing, for any woman.

And, that’s the fun part. Watching, as she gasps in pleasure, and spreads her legs even wider, almost begging for more! For me, that is VERY exciting.

When done properly anal is very pleasurable for me.it is a different kind of orgasm that rocks me to my soul! Men have told me it is a different feel for them,very smooth, will just have to take thier word on that one.

I had never thought Erotic Clinic was for the pussy players only. Doesn't that exclude a whole variety of medical play, such as rectal exams, and anoscopes, which really don't fit into the enema site? Lots of enema lovers have no interest in medfet at all. And what about other aspects of medfet that don't involve gyno exams, such as injections, and heartbeat, as well as many others? Would you have them excluded from this site?

I def love a large backside 😉 for me it's all about the shape...it can be as big as it wants to be as long as it has a nice shape. round and firm are my two must-haves....kim kardashian is amazing 😉

I posted here first sorry it was for the ladys' only: Forum - Females: Anal penetration :-\

I love to do anal on a lady. I have been doing so since I was 15 years old. My high school girlfriend suggested it so as not to get pregnant and I was hooked. I love the anal area of a women. My favorite part of the female anatomy other that the face and eyes of course 😄

As an anal sexpert it is my suggestion that the moderators of this site provide a section for "All Things Anal"

What do you think?

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As an anal sexpert it is my suggestion that the moderators of this site provide a section for "All Things Anal"

What do you think?

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This entire website is about "all things anal."

Read through the whole thing.

Not sure what you mean by play exactly. I feel very vulnerable and weak when my husband does anything with my butt. While I like not being in control, I think I like to see what's going on and when he's got on my stomach or hands and knees I feel like I'm not worthy. I know this might not make sense to anyone else.

Try laying on your back with a pillow or two underneath you, a similiar position as being in the stirups only more comfortable.

For penile penetraion you can also have your hubby lie on his back and you straddle him and then you control things with the same net result.

Have fun!! 😉

I thoroughly enjoy the feel of a well shaped posterior. I am unable to quantify what I consider to be well shaped, it is not size but how it fits in with the rest of the anatomy and when everything 'clicks' I know this is one of the beauties. All I know is that when I find one it is pure pleasure to softly stroke and massage the entire area. This is specially so if I am also at the same time giving her an enema.

There is something distinctly taboo about anal play, and women tend to be quite embarassed when I have directed my close attention to their rear orifice. I guess that the blend of prohibited/embarassing is definitely one of my biggest turn-ons to that area.

Women's bottoms are just naturally sexy. Just go on Flickr and see the hundreds of groups that are devoted to woman's bare bottoms. Particularly the lovely spread open female bottoms. A delightful playground. And in the med fet world, rectal temps, rectal exams, enemas, are all perfect "excuses" or 'reasons" to have a women bare her bottom and allow you to have access to it. You play that you are doing an intimate anal procedure for medical reasons, but as an "unintended" (not really unintended) consequence you are allowed intimate access to her most private parts. How delightful.

I still remember the first time, as a teenager, I reacted sexually to a stimulating image on screen. It was the movie cocoon, and the actress Tahnee Welch dropped her clothes and walked into the pool. The view from behind was amazing. It felt like my heart literally stopped. From that day on I could not care less what a womans breasts were like, but if she had a great butt, I was won over for sure. Needless to say, when combined with my pre-existing anal erotic mindset, my interest in woman's bottoms is not just superficial, to say the least :-)

Hej Cattan Turner,

I agree with you thet the 'love scene" in Cocoon is one of the most erotic scene I have ever seen in a moviie, much more than most "adult" films, and the figure of Tahnee Welsh has the largest responsabiliy for it.

Men simply love women's butts its natural

A woman's response to anal touching is often faster and stronger than with vaginal stimulation. She knows the man is doing it to pleasure her. The real sex organ is the brain, and he is connecting with her brain.

Something about a nice, neat and clean little butt-hole that is a a big turn-on. It's great watcking things go tightly into a ladies anus, and having the ability to advance thing deeper into the rear-end than you can in the front. It's also a lot about control, both taking it and giving it up.

I've tried a little anal with my wife and she just loves it; It took me a while to work up to it coz i was a little scared to hert her, but she kept insisting we try and now its all go. now i even let her uput her finger in a bit, a first its weird but now i do get a little pleasure from see hers and her feeling mine

Med_Couple could be close on this one. A ladies tight and shaved little butt-hole is about the best thing in the world. Her vagina is this larger, more complex and multifaceted playground that I still haven't been able to figure out. Too many things going on there. Her breasts? I couldn't care about in the least. Enemas? Not for me.

Another aspect that hasn't been mentioned yet though, is when I play with her anus, taking the time to really get her relaxed, warmed up, and well lubed, and tonguing her til my entire mouth starts to cramp, is that I know exactly how it feels. I know what feels good and what doesn't, so I know what to do with that delicious and delightful little hole.

Men simply love women's butts its natural

Except it's not. A lot of guys are really turned off by it. They seem to be the same ones who simply adore her breasts. It seems there really are two types of men. Butts or breasts. And the breast guys also love the vagina. The butt guys really don't care about either one.

I disagree with Paynefan. I love female breasts, butts, & vaginas!!

I would say because we find them very sexy and that would be because of the wonderful curves involved. I also enjoy hips and thighs as well.