Do you like to be told in advance what will happen next?

In a play situation, do you like to be told what's going to happen next, so you can enjoy the anticipation? Or do you like to be surprised by a sudden finger?

I love being told in advance what the doctor is going to do. Then you can anticipate it - adds to the arousal for me 😁

I agree with Germangoddess that telling the patient what you about to do does raise the excitement leve, and in certain circumstances, the anxiety level as well.

I feel guiding the patient through the procedure is a sign of professionalism and really adds to the realism.

Mash raises an interesting point. Surprises can be powerful and especially for those with a BDSM interest, add to the reaction. There are those, who for example, enjoy their exams blindfolded. On the other hand, I prefer realism and a professional who doesn't explain what is ging to happen runs the risk of a suit for failure to obtain informed consent. So, for play, and in the absence of a secific question from my patient, I opt for a general explanation of what I am about to do.

Oh in this play time i like to be told some things but also like to wonder what is going to happen next . its all good sexy fun

Depending on my mood, I like to use a blindfold, or even better a full leather hood sometimes.

Informed consent is more for treatment procedures than clinical examinations.

I like it very realistic. Always to be told in advance of what is coming next.

I do like knowing that I'm going to have an exam a day or so before it actually happens. You see it adds to the cocktail of excitement, fear and getting turned on.

The beau has a habit of letting me think I can get away with my naughty/stubborn pursuits by seemingly dismissing it with a verbal reprimand. So I end up thinking that I got away with my little misdemeanors. Then out of nowhere, sometime after, like a few days after, he would casually mention that I need an exam, as punishment for what I did a while ago. "Oh Katie, in case you've forgotten I haven't forgiven you yet for not using your asthma preventer. We need to make sure you're healthy after that asthma attack".

I would of course get nervous and protest wildly. "But, but, I don't need an exam". He would of course stand his ground. "Oh yes you do, you need to learn your lesson, you can't just go around not taking your meds".

Knowing I can't get out of being punished, I ask when I'm getting my exam. "You'll see, you'll be thoroughly checked out pretty soon, no need to worry about it for now". That of course both gets me nervous and very turned on. Knowing that I'll get some play soon but not knowing when or what punishment he has in store for me. It raises the level of excitement,anxiety, vulnerability and arousal.

And that happens a lot to me, you see I was too stubborn not to take my asthma preventer and had a nasty attack. He was of course pissed and punished me hard, a really intense nipple torture. So the clothespins and magic wand are a constant reminder that naughty girls can't get away with being stubborn all the time. 😳

It depends on my mood but I usually like to keep it a surprise

I would like to be told what was about to occur for the most part. Surprises could still be given verbally, such as the announcement of additional injections or the need for a larger speculum.

In a role play situation such as an exam, I think informing the patient in advance of being required to abstain from ejaculation for a period of time or having to prep in certain ways or even describing what procedures will take place as part of the exam add to the erotic anticipation of what to expect.

By now, the process is rather predictable most of the time. Still there is the anticipation of having the exam develop and with it various levels of exposure. Of course having a new physician or NP makes it more enticing as there is the element of how she will go about the exam. No matter what, there is never enough experience or practice hearing the "glove snapping sound" that eases my mind. Similarly, the sound of the KY being squeezed also is a trigger for tightening up my anus. Either way, there are always parts of the exam that just make me feel very self conscious, a bit excited (usually afterwards), and anxious. "One more thing" always resonates for me along with "Deep breaths. Just relax." Of course the physical sensations add to all that is taking place.

So for me, knowing in advance versus during all brings me to the same place. A mix of emotions and physical sensations that only occur when I hear, "The doctor will see you now. Undress. Everything off dear."

Julie.

I like to know what is going to happen as the anticipation adds to the experience. However, a twist or suprise here and there is also fun!

I like to talk it over quite generally first, so we’ve both got some idea of what I might like, and what I don’t want to go near. That also gives me the time to antipate and get nervous, especially if it’s a new partner or something I’ve never tried before.

What I really enjoy is the small unexpected surprises. An example is that I usually say I want my clit closely examined (I’m a trans guy). While I wouldn’t be happy with anything vaginal, because that isn’t the clit, a swab around my hood was really unexpected and appreciated.

I would rather be told in advance when we are doing real medical things. When we are playing however I would rather NOT be told about upcoming treatments and what not. One of the hardest things for me is giving up total control and it is something I need to work on.

Mashie

Agreeing that a “play scene” has a pre determined safe word and what is “out of bounds”....

I prefer that when I am giving an exam, my patient respects the authoritarian role of the care giver and everything doesn’t need to be scripted or discussed in advance. While I may give clues, or even explain what is going to happen next, I do not tell the patient in a way to appear to be asking permission. For example, And I think one of the greatest indicators of dominance in the entire medical arena, is when One snaps on the latex glove, and applies some KY.... The sights, sounds and smells are a good indicator of what is going to happen next.

I'd want a general idea of what the exam will entail. Knowing the boundaries of the procedures that will take place and mutually agreeing to honor those boundaries is mandatory as is a safe word, just in case things begin to go too far afield.

Not a play situation but what I feared most when going to the doctor throughout youth and early adolescence was the prospect (usually realised) of getting an injection in my bottom. The first time I went to the doctor knowing in advance it was for an injection, my only fear was where I would get it.

I like to know in advance.

Makes me more tractable.

In a play situation i would like to hear what is going on next. I would like to know all the details.

It depends om whom your playing with, some say yes others no just respect your play partner

One of my fantasies would be to have a room with 3 or 4 patients tied up on the bed being subjected to several tests by several masters and I as the chief physician.

I would prefer to be surprised and wheeled down the corridor into another room.

Ooh. Good question. There’s definitely pleasure in both— the unexpected, and the soothing voice of a man in control of my body telling me what to expect. The telling me in advance drives my exam/patient fetish, whereas the unexpected drives my submissive/powerless side.

In a real situation i don't like to be told what will happen next. And it was NOT being told which contributed to the very onset of my medfet. The SUDDEN feel of the waistband of my undergarment being lifted away from me. That one moment where your lowers abs section is being palpated, and then the next, your genitalia is exposed to the doctor.

Then the sudden fingers feeling around your scrotum and testes after having coughed once for each side for the hernia check. All without being told anything like "Now i will examine your testicles for abnormalities". But instead the sudden fingers feeling around your balls. All while staring at the ceiling and only feeling, not seeing, how the doctor was proceeding.

I don't do MedFet or exams unless someone wants an exam. But when acting as a sub in a situation with my switch Domme partner, I always want to have her be telling me something of what's coming up and what I'll have to endure to be sufficiently submissive to satisfy her that evening. Listening to her sort of gloat and lord the upcoming attractions over me adds to the submissive effect of anticipation.

Eric

I would like it for the Doctor to text me and say that I am long overdue for an exam and I need to come by his office that evening.

I prefer not knowing, even though I pretty much know what to expect.

I prefer to have a general “game plan” before a session, but I do enjoy the suspense of a surprise treatment.