Men and enemas

I am a male in my fifties, and have never understood why men are so afraid of anal play. I look at the personal adds here and all these men want to be given an enema and be fucked by a woman with a strap on, me included, although I will not deny it. I know a lot of guys think anything going into their ass is a gay thing, it is not. I also do not undrstand why all or most of the pictures of enemas and anal play are of women recieving? I am greatly turned on by seeing a woman giving a man an enema or fingering him or fucking him. I feel I am nether a sub or a dom, but would just like to have some good sexual fun. I am not gay or bi, jsut looking for a lady that feels somewhat like I do. Would like any input to my feelings, thanks.

When IWAsyoung my granddmother wasays saying I was sick with this or that-and her "cure" was a good enema. I started to look forward to her saying I was sick and needed a good curing!!

I think you are wrong when you say men are afraid of ass play.What on earth do you think the males here are into man?There are more males into enemas than females and they are begging for a female to show up with a colon tube in her hand.A lot of the guys here have wives who could care less about enemas,so the men have to do enemas solo,and I am one of them,But,I don't deny myself of the pleasure not as long as I still have two hands and a closet full of enema stuff.

It is not gay to have anal stimulation for a man.It can be very intense

As I said in another post here, Many guys will admit to enjoying the hell out of anal sex with their female partner, but it seems that guys just have a hang-up with admitting that they personally enjoy anal stimulation, enemas included. I'll guarantee that there are many guys out there who have enjoyed an absolutely explosive orgasm when their sex partner stimulated their anus with lubricated fingers during sex. I know I have, although my wife doesn't do it nearly as much as I'd like her to. My wife knows I love it, but I often have to move her hand back there to give her the hint that I want to be anally stimulated during sex. It just intensify's my orgasm unbelievably.

You haven't lived until your wife performs oral sex and a prostate massage at the same time.

Locogato- you have that right! Last night I gave my first enema to hubby and gave him a very seductive prostate massage. he said he had never felt anything like it. We are going to now try it in the shower area so he can allow his prostate to further the ejactulation feelings of the massage. Over the Top hella kewl!

I'm a 67 yr old male who loves anything anal and I don't see anything gay about it. Although I no longer have a prostate, I enjoy my wife massaging where it used to be. I also enjoy having her give me enemas. I don't think it has anything to do with gender. Some of us just like the feeling of anal stimulation while others don't.

I honestly think they are only afraid of admitting it.

I too am a male in my 50s who enjoys enemas and all other forms of anal play. My ex-wife and I enjoyed all types of anal stimulation in "both directions". We shared enemas, toys and fisting. She'd fist me -- my hand just wouldn't fit in her ass. But we tried.

I'm solo now and surely miss the fun of having a partner to share the enjoyment of enemas and other anal play.

My wife knows mine, but over the years has decided it's not that importent to her anymore to continue to pleasure me with enemas. I even brought it up BEFORE we were married, and she said she was OK with it. Unfortunately, she's kind of changed the "marriage contract" on me, and leaves me hanging with regard to enema play. I hint around sometimes, but she just kind of ignores it, or says something like: "Is that all you think about?" Well, YES, when my needs and desires aren't getting met. So, I just have to pleasure myself these days. A bit frustrating, to say the least. I thought I had the "bases covered" on this one before we were married.

After 40 plus years of married life, you learn to leave some things alone. As much as I enjoy a pleasant enema, the subject is still a single issue among many issues in life. Alas I think some people try to view the world from inside an enema bag. When I back off and look at our lives together, she is an awesome woman and a keeper.

Enozkk -

I could not have stated it any better if I was describing my situation after (36) years of marriage. There are MANY of us (m & f) in similar situations.

If the spouse isn't into enemas like we are, there's no point in "beating a dead horse" so to speak. My spouse is well aware of my enema fetish, but doesn't desire to participate any more, which I must admit, is a bit frustrating. So other than an occasional hint, I say little about it, and continue to pleasure myself in private. Fortunately, because of her work schedule, I have quite a bit of private time, soooooooo....

I love the anal thing, but like alot of you the wife is not, she will do inserting,just not the enemas, and after 20 years togeter i guess thats not going to change

The first non-genital erotic feeling I experienced as a child came from Mom's enemas. Still love that nozzle penetration and the fullness that follows. I am straight but have enjoyed anal stimulation since childhood. I would also like to see more pictures of men receiving..especially from mature and srong women. No kidding!

I think most men are reluctant to engage in anal play because of the submisive aspects of it.

Men being afraid of rectal play. I simply don´t agree.I am a single 100% straight guy, and I play with my ass all the time and can´t stop. It started long time ago believe I was 5, and I saw a vet put a tube up a cows ass, When a was alone,I found a goosefeather, I dropped my pants and the feather went up. I recall that very clearly and I don´t think there was any sexual thoughts then.

My spouse disappointed me after marriage. It is futile to try to change her mind or to rewrite history. I am left with the choice of enjoying enema pleasures solo, or finding a partner who will share them. The search for a partner has been frustrating. My spouse and I have many other wonderful things in common, so divorce is not an attractive alternative. At the risk of major criticism, it would be extremely helpful if a group existed for marrieds looking for discrete partners with no expectation of long term commitments.

Ditto, Beachboy1948. If you read my posts above, I too have a wife who changed her mind AFTER we got married. I thought I had this base covered before we married. Unfotunately not. I knew she wasn't into receiving, and even though I enjoy both giving and receiving, I figured I could live with her just pleasuring me once in a while with my fetish. She did a few times, but then decided because she really wasn't into it herself, to stop meeting my desires when it comes to enemas. Yes, very frustrating.

There are needs and wants in life. Anal activity for fun may start as a want and progress to a need. It is nice when all needs are fulfilled by the one with whom you have joined in a relationship. It seems sad when one senses rejection of her or his wants. Rejection seems to heighten the want, pushing it into a need.

The most important human relationship one has is with self. Self ought to be free to fulfill wants/needs.

If your spouse rejects you, you keep believing in and accepting yourself. Such is of the utmost importance.

Some of these comments strike a cord with me and I'm sure many others on this site. There are many of us in similar predicaments. As a consequence, we search for what we need and can provide outside the marital relationship.

Anal play in my marriage might have turned the corner on our relationship, had she been interested in mutual anal play!

I'm a male in my fifties and enjoy all types of anal play!

Youandme:

What a very interesting revelation; that strikes me as the female version of the feeling a lot of men get when they see two women going at it in a porn movie 😁

I do remember a particular movie where a girl went to see her female friend because she was suffering from 'anal' spasms, and her friend said she figured she knew just what was needed, 'vibrator therapy' was applied... Very Very Hot is what I got... ( I still do! )

More seriously, I don't get turned on by the sight of the scene that you described; however, I would enjoy immensely any such attention from my spouse; but she isn't interested...

C

I was always affraid til 1 day a girl I met was playing around with my anus and it felt so good I told her not to stop. Now I cant stop.

I'm also a male in my 50's, and was introduced into anal play in my early 20's, and have been totally addicted to it ever since. Thus the beginning interest in doing enemas.

Most likely after getting involved in some anal play that got a bit messy. Do remember someone I was seeing on an occasional basis, (with much more experience in such things than I was), driving with me to a local drug store to purchase a small squeeze bulb type enema.

And it was all uphill after that, eventually moving on up to a typical red rubber open top bag.

Now before any kind of anal activity, it's a total cleanout for me. Found that the small bulbs or even the Fleets only cleaned out the lower rectum area, and with the stimulation received, that tended to start my intestines doing what they're supposed to do, move things on down.

So basically for a 'quickie', a small bulb or Fleet would do, but for any extended or prolonged anal activity, a total cleanout is necessary for me.

Just wish it wouldn't take so damn long to do!

But I did discover that once done, and done completely, with nothing retaining up in there somewhere, I would stay clean for a good 10 to 12 hours.

Does not seem to be near as many women as men on this site. I'm sure women enjoy an enema as much as a man does.

Does not seem to be near as many women as men on this site. I'm sure women enjoy an enema as much as a man does.

That's because women are generally not the overtly horny bastards you men are!

Most of us just quietly perform our fetishes without publicizing and discussing them with complete strangers! 😁 😁 😁 😁

Most of us just quietly perform our fetishes without publicizing and discussing them with complete strangers!

Thankfully only most and not all! 😄