Why are more males than female into enemas?

It seems to me that women do not use enemas as much as men. I'm wondering why. anybody got an opinion on this??

Most have probally never "learned" to enjoy them.

I just wonder whether they are more shy about letting others know of their habit!

Well maybe it is that guys like the anal stimulation more. What with the prostate in there and all. I know some women enjoy anal sex. My woman has had some of her best orgasms that way. Of course a lot of men don't want anybody stimulating them anally but that is their loss. Seems like the second time I have said that today. I have often tried to figure out what I like about enemas or how I got interested. I have some theories about why I feel the way I do but they are only theories.

I don't think you'll get the answer from the females on this site because they themselves would not be here if they did not enjoy enemas.As for the males,we could only guess why fewer females are into enemas.

My first wife and I shared enemas for many years,however,my second wife believes the anus is an exit to expel waist matter and nothing else.She had at times willing help in my enemas

I hope garts is right, and a Forum such as this brings them out! I'm currently looking for a partner that has similar interests, and meeting an enemate would be a big plus.

For erotic/fetish purposes, men will always outnumber women in terms of any kink just because of the way the male is wired. But for strictly health purposes, women take more enemas and colonics than men; I'm sure of it.

Good response unsure. If you go to a porn shop it is always more than 90% men, even though we know that all men and all women have sexual desires. If you go to a colon therapy clinic, more than 80% of clients are women. If you ask nurses, by far the greater majority of people recieving enemas are women. In my own experience in dealing with over 400 people in this area, about 80% of those interested in enemas in more than a clinical way are women. I suspect it is higher than 80%, because of the way men and women are wired. Enemas tend to be a recieving fetish, the female mind is recieving wired. Men tend to be more giving in this area, but there are curves.

There are literally male and female brains, they are not the same, and they are not all in the appropriate bodies. The taking of testosterones in infancy can influence the type of mind, while the genetic type is set by heredity. So some women have male brains and may have more masculine desires, and there are men with feminine desires, and for a male into recieving into their bodies, an enema is a good substitute. In fact isn't most, male to male sex with the anus as part of it?

But to end it up, the love of enemas is overwhelmingly female.

I have a female friend who has started to get colonics in trade for massages. I asked her why she just didn't give herself enemas as the outcome would be the same. She seems to like the fact that she is having a procedure done to her by a like trained professional. I guess it's not the sme thing if it's paid for

I'm beginning to feel that there are more female enema fetishists than male. As mothers and caregivers, they are able to justify enemas by health necessity. Sexual excitement from an enema can be masked by this social role. Us guys don't have any excuse for getting a hard-on from an enema 😁

I certainly don't think you can say that!

I would say I take about two or three for every one my husband takes.

One night I peeped in the bathroom and saw a large enema bag completely full. Mom and Dad were in the bathroom. I have alway wondered what they had in mind and who was doing what to whom.

Although there are more males than females on this site, I suspect more women take enemas than men but the sexual aspect is less or at least not thought of in as much of a sexual way. Constipation and IBS are more common in women and enemas are used to relieve these conditions. Same for menstrual cramps - my wife would frequently take an enema to help "relax" and relieve cramping, and enemas would also help with menstrual- induced constipation and bloating. Although not exactly an enema, douching used to be a common practice for hygiene, birth control and freshness which is also a water infusion into a body cavity. Much of these activities were considered normal rather than sexual gratification but I suspect there was a subtle sexual gratification as well. I had a girlfriend who revealed to me that she took enemas as much for the good feelings she received as to treat her alleged constipation and used douches for multiple reasons - with stimulation and climaxes as one. My wife would do some "personal" time which consisted of serial enemas. She would take a book into the bathroom for these sessions. Seeing her bag and tubing and nozzle, always the douche nozzle, hanging in the bath was a turn on for me. Only on a rare occasion would she let me participate. Best of all was when she was under the weather and would let me administer the enema or douche. Rubbing her clitoris while douching her always brought a trembling climax; she was very appreciative and slept like a baby. The next day was always a good sex day.

My parents were not into enemas but my grand parents were. One or both of them must have taken them because the equipment was always there in full view in the bathroom. I had a friend who's bathroom also displayed the equip,ent. He said quite freely that his dad gave enemas to everyone in the family and that his dad received them from his mother - Sunday evenings for the kids and Saturday nights for the parents. They seemed to be a nice family and the girls were really nice and beautiful. I wonder who married these girls; hopefully someone who also took enemas because I bet these girls took the ritual into their adult lifestyles and enjoyed them and propagated the enema culture.

I have never met a female who has any inclination toward enemas. Usually when the subject is mentioned either everyone clams up or the subject is changed quickly. The usual response is God I hate those things.

There is no doubt that women do not like enemas as much is Men. This probably has to do with the prostate gland. it is my intention on this website to convince women to the advantages of pleasing your man.Enemas appear to be ugley but they can be a beautiful thing. Women know the benefits of pleasing their man and men should know the benefits a pleasing their women

I think in general women take more enemas than men. It is just by their nature that they are more secretive about their habits than men so they do not post as much about it and many probably just do it for health so they don't ever visit these boards.

The first time I gave an enema to someone outside of my family, the enema was asked for by my GF at the time. She seemed to be in serious distress and claimed that she thought she had eaten someting that had given her food poisioning. Her parents were away on a trip and I was the only one there that she trusted to flush her out. She was a good actress and to this day I am not sure that she was in true distress or just wanted to have me give her an enema. Shortly after that time I was drafted and we never got together afterward, I often wonder where our relationship would have gone had we had more time together. I know that she was anally receptive since her favorite preplay was to have me massage her genitals with one finger in her vagina and another finger in her rectum and rub the two fingers together while inserted as deeply as possible..

I have always been fascinated with this question. As to enema lovers in the general population, I would guess that it is low, perhaps less than 5%. The actual incidence is very had to come by since we tend to hide our fantasies from friends, co- workers and family.

As to the more interesting question : What is the male/ female ratio ? Of course I would hope it to be about equal. Then in a perfect world, everyone would find an understanding ,accepting partner. By reading the ads and postings, one would assume a 20:1 proportion of males to females, but I think this ratio is skewed by several factors.

Firstly, men are more likely to be looking for an encounter/adventure , and are more aggresive in posting an ad. Women are more interested in a relationship, and have often had an unpleasant experience after posting. So many more men posting are to be expected. Women also must be more careful and discreet. Women , I think often network among their friends, guys just don't talk about it .

So Brothers and Sisters, what is the answer. I would love to hear your thoughts.

I am a healthy sexually active kinky female who really enjoys enemas, both receiving and giving. I enjoy watching porn. I go to adult sex stores for toys, lube, sexy stockings, and just to check out the latest things there. I am on a fetish website. I am open minded and have many fetishes. Perhaps enema play and anal sex might still be labeled "Tabboo" by society, so many vanilla women might keep their enemas a secret. I would love to find a boyfriend who is into enemas and related play time. In my experience, I have found that some men forget their manners, and aren't very polite when approaching a female Enemate. Most men seem to show little patience in getting to know a female as a friend first. They just want to pounce on her. This is the Internet and women, and men, should be cautious. Intimacy, trust, passion, and respect should be a mutual goal for both men and women. I would like a relationship, but I am quite open to have a regular play partner with the right man as well. I am not attracted to men who wear diapers, are bisexual, or who are very submissive. So those might be some factors where women aren't turned on by these men. And I am NOT interested in any married men who want to play outside their marriages!! I come across that a lot as well!! So guys, please be honest and just state your marital status in your profiles. I am honest in my profile. I'm single.

Jenny ;-)

I have never experienced an enema but I love the idea of them. It's something which hasn't come up in conversation in past relationships so I'm glad I have found this site.