Lubricated finger inserted before enema?

With a finger cot and a good dollop of petroleum jelly. it was first put on my anus and then the index finger was slowly inserted deeply,and the petroleum jelly was massaged into my rectum and then the nozzle was provided with petroleum jelly and inserted in my anus

Vaseline if I want it to stay for a while and last, water based if I want it to go away after insertion. Sometimes I use water based on smaller nozzles if I want them to stay in place better.

Silicone is slicker than anything out there and lasts almost as long as vaseline, but is much better for applications where you move the nozzle in and out frequently. Just don't use it with silicone toys, as it can alter them and make them sticky.

I love to lube the patient with a lubricated finger before the enema, it also increase the level of embarrassment in the patient :-)

Professionally, as a Colon Hydro Therapist and a Medical Assistant, I will always lube my finger and give a rectal exam before inserting anything into anyone's rectum.

#1. It will lubricate the rectum.

#2. I also want to make the rectum is clear or want to know if there is any impaction or internal growths, hemorroids, so when the finger, nozzle, suppository or speculum will meet with any resistance.

#3. Inserting the lubed finger also gives me an indication of how patient may react to the treatment, procedure or exam.

If you do not lube well it could be like landing a 747 on a runway too short or one that already has a plane on that runway.

And when I am with a female and we do anything anal she will receive a very well lubed finger in her ass several times. If you do anal let's just say it is better to give a lot of lubrication. Why make it difficult?

Love to linger on this part of the enema. Definitely prepares you for whats to come!

How about a well-lubed finger inserted AFTER the enema? Inserted and removed slowly and deliberately, lingering on the outside, almost imperceptibly moving for quite an extended time. Or perhaps probing deeply, pushing the limits strongly, searching every nook and cranny for any response. Sensing a reaction, and then repeatedly pushing and prodding the swelling until there is no more.

When giving enemas I might insert lubed finger and might not. While at my work that could be looked as unnecessary step, but when giving at home be it for medical or play/sexual reasons then I tend to lube anus as well as nozzle. Sometimes it is quit easy to see that person likes a bit of anal play, so finger would make them more relaxed and more receptive...

I love being stretched out and they lubricate me in and out of my hole with Vaseline, slow and long massage before starting the enema.

Always a lubed finger inserted before enema. Make sure you are nice and lubed for easy insertion and less pain.

I TOLERATE that at the gynecologist!;

Emphasis on tolerate, because I HAVE TO!

In my first pregnancy, once the evidence was there and I was clearly having girls, I was lying in bed one night hoping that by the time they reach their 'teens and have to have gyno exams that there will be a technology alternative to that exact thing.

Got me thinking about what that technology would entail.

I was awake most of the night thinking about how that can be done technologically

"Vicki, take a deep breath and let it out slowly. You're going to feel my finger inside you. The lubricant will feel cold. This will take only a few seconds." This may not be the nurse's exact words, but it's close. Angie did a quick digital rectal to prep me for an enema. I felt her gloved finger slipping inside me, much like getting a suppository. She slipped off her glove and put on another before she started the enema. I'd had a DRE at my gynecologist before I got married, but this was a new experience with an enema bag hanging above my bed and a tube the nurse was preparing to put up my behind. More than 35 years later, I still remember it.

100% yes! Like others have posted on this thread, it adds to the excitement. Of course - given my profile name - it needs to be a gloved finger 😃

Yes, a lubed finger should always first be inserted into the rectum to both inspect for any potential blockages and to lubricate the rectal walls in preparation for the enema nozzle Insertion. The patient will both enjoy and be embarrassed by the digital penetration prior to their enema.

Always; from an administrator and receiver.

It's very difficult to put the nozzle in to the anus. I got the nexus douche pro seems like one of the biggest mistake the noozle seems to be too big.

Usually I will poop before I douche myself.

When giving an enema to someone, it is relaxing, sensual, maybe a little humiliating (in a fun sort of way) to finger the rosebud first. Recommend two fingers vs one as being more erotic.

I never received an enema at home, only in medical settings and all as an inpatient in a hospital. I can count at least 8 separate enemas over the course of about 20 years given by different individuals and in different hospitals and not once was the enema preceded by me being penetrated by a finger. Standard practices may vary by country and time period, but where and when I received mine, it was simply not done. This was before retention nozzles were used routinely, and so all of the tips and nozzles where white thin and there was no need for more lubricant than what was already on the nozzle/tip. I can not recall every reading a medical textbook for nurses that advised that this be done either. My mother was a nurse and we had a long shelve of nursing textbooks that I eagerly devoured.

Likewise the idea of inserting a finger to lubricate before a rectal thermometer strikes me as odd and putting the “cart before the horse”. It would make more sense to prelubricate the anus and rectum with a skinny thermometer before a much thicker finger of a rectal exam. Sorry to be a buzzkill. Fantasy and play are of course very different situations.

Always lots of lube inserted before anything else goes in.

“You’re going to feel my finger inside you. Take a deep breath and let it out slowly.” I went through a time in my 30s when I was going to a colon hydrotherapist. She always did a digital exam with a gloved finger before she inserted the speculum. It felt like getting a suppository. Not the most lady-like of procedures, but I accepted it as necessary. That was easy compared to the speculum, which I really felt.

My experience is you are more likely to have a colon hydrotherapist digitally check you for obstruction if they are using a closed system vs an open system - I suspect because the speculum is so much bigger. I've had it with and without a digital inspection on a closed system. Don't remember if ever on an open system, usually there they have you insert the speculum.

“My experience is you are more likely to have a colon hydrotherapist digitally check you for obstruction if they are using a closed system vs an open system.” –gwhap

My treatments were from a closed system. I felt the cleanses were more thorough, although the speculum got some getting used to. I also wanted to have the therapist with me for massage and support. There were times when I was uncomfortable, and she helped me through those. Definitely unlike the gentle enemas that a nurse taught me to do at home when I was constipated.

@gwhap

The reason is obvious:

With a closed system, a lump of poo low down, which is what the therapist is mostly checking for, can easily clog the speculum and cause a major flood of soiled water all over the table. When a colon full of water wants out, it's going to come out no matter what.

That can't happen on an open system since you normally poo freely into the slot toilet.

My treatments were from a closed system. I felt the cleanses were more thorough, although the speculum got some getting used to. I also wanted to have the therapist with me for massage and support.

@Vicki_V I prefer a closed system as well but in our small town the only therapist has an open system. She does stay in the room for the entire session and massages the colon/belly.

@Sean Thanks!

Sometimes ‘ yes ’ and sometimes ‘ no ’ both of which were left to my mother's discretion . Seems the not un-welcomed ‘ finger ’ was administered more often as I matured . My mom had ‘ long , ’ willowy ‘ , ’ piano player ‘ type ’ lady fingers ‘ ‘ so her digital rectal insertion as to a ’ pre-enema lower colon lubrication ’ was not an unpleasant sensation / activity especially for me as a young male .

I Had an enema years ago because I was having a proctoscope! Then one in 1984 before giving birth! I don’t know what is a turn on about an enema! I would think my husband had lost his mind if he said he was going to give me a enema!

Oh yes. It was the rule not the exception. Always before the enema My uncle's thick Vaseline finger (not easy to take) would always be fully inserted and then slid in and out several times.

I have given enemas and I grease the tubing up and whatever position they get in I do put KY jelly on their butthole and stick my finger up a little ways. I grease the tubing and ram it up their butt and I go a long ways up their ass before I unclamp it! Some people can’t hold it and we have put a tube down their nose and pour the laxative down it and they are crapping in 10 minutes! That’s usually nursing home patients that squirt it back out and you are wasting your time! Pour it down a peg tube or NG tube! Poor little people crap all night!

I Had a enema years ago because I was having a proctoscope! Then one in 1984 before giving birth! I don’t know what is a turn on about a enema! I would think my husband had lost his mind if he said he was going to give me a enema!

You probably aren't anally inclined. For some having the tube in and a wand on the front can be very very stimulating and a hard orgasm.

I've had a lubed, gloved finger inserted prior to a closed system colonic some years ago I think the therapist was feeling primarily for hemmies or some deformities, but also to see if my lower end was full of poo, and whether it was hard or soft. On the occasion, because I was traveling and away from home, I was somewhat constipated and my bottom end was pretty packed. She commented that ‘I was pretty full down there’ and suggested a ‘starter enema’ ‘to make the colonic session go easier" and I agreed. She prepared a disposable bag full of very warm, soapy water which was running into me shortly thereafter. Luckily, there was a toilet very close to the treatment table, and I soon needed it urgently. After a thorough poo, I got onto the table, the speculum went in, and the colonic got started.

Absolutely yes. My mom always lubed my butt with a large dollop of Vaseline, going deep and rubbing all around. It felt so good that it is standard procedure since. Never used a glove as the feeling of a rectal wall is amazing.