I'm another one on this forum who, for now, has to enjoy my enema fantasy solo.
Before I married my wife, we talked about my strong desire for enemas, and I let her know how sexually stimulating they were for me. I was the one who brought it up because I didn't want to spring it on her AFTER we married and have her simply say NO, it wasn't her thing. I figured if I brought it up before-hand, then I could decide how I wanted to handle the relationship from there if she said NO or thought I was really weird.
Surprisingly, she said it was fine with her and didn't have a problem with it. Since we were having sex before we married, I probably should have brought up the enema issue a few more times to see how she handled it. It wasn't until we had been married for some time that she indulged me with my fantasy and it was terrific, but I had to ask for it. We even enjoyed a hot sexual session in the middle of it. I was on my stomach on the floor with my legs spread apart, and she was sitting behind me, sliding the nozzle in and out of my very receptive anus while administering a nice warm soapy enema.
Ultimately, she laid back with her legs in the knee to chest position and I moved back, entering her while still on my stomach. In this position, she was still able to move the nozzle in and out of my butt while I was slowly moving up and down on her. My orgasm was explosive, to say the least.
I guess we did this routine maybe 2 or 3 times after that. Unfortunately, we've been married now for 25 years, and her interest in pleasuring me with enemas any more has become non-existent, even when I hint around that I sure would like one. She's never wanted me to give her one, even though I've suggested it a number of times.
Sadly, I'm strictly solo now. I still enjoy enemas immensely, and like to play around with all kinds of different positions and solutions, but it sure would be a lot more fun to share my "fantasies" with someone who enjoyed them as much as I. Seems like our "marriage contract" kind of got changed over the years. Very frustrating.
My new cannister stays hidden in my closet behind my shoes, and the rest of the enema equipment is in my bottom dresser drawer. My wife knows where the latter is, but I still must pleasure mysef solo. Pretty frustrating, since she said she was fine with it BEFORE we got married.