Solo enemas

How do we deal with coexisting with a spouse who does not know/approve of our enema urges? The time required, equipment and cleanup, all can intrude into normal interactionsm, and cut down the frequency of our desired pleasures. Thoughts and experiences will be appreciated!

You could do it when they are not home, when they are sleeping or when they just agree to stay away from the bathroom when you are taking your enemas. Store your equipment in your own closet where she doesn't have to look at it.

It's not easy. I keep my equipment out of sight in the basement. When she goes out shopping I usually have a good idea of how many hours she will be away. When she is on call, a call in is usually worth at least 3 hours. I travel quite a bit, plenty of time in hotel rooms, but with air travel nowdays transporting equipment can be a problem. I only take it when I'm driving or checking a bag. If the TSA wants to open my checked bag, their problem not mine LOL.

Enemalover1952,

Your comment about if TSA opens a checked bag, that is their problem

reminds me of a few years ago when an Enema buddy from Berlin, Germany brought me a 6 qt. latex bag. They saw it in his bag, and

he said he was bringing it for a sick friend. In his other bag,

they saw his Enema equipment, and before they could say anything,

he looked them in the eye, and said, "Oh, I'm VERY sick". He said

they slammed the bag and told him to go on through. Look them right

in the eye, and embarass them first.

Dan

I have been checked for Enema-equipments only twice on the airport. Some years ago I always had a red bulb in my bag, I think thay saw it but never asked me. Once upon a time I had a plastic bag with hose and a smal nozzle. It was placed in my hand logage.

The controller asked me to open it, and so I did. It was amasing to tell him : This is an enemabag. I didnt knew him and the problem was not mine, only gave me exciting cick to remember.

No aday I always have my equipmet in the suit-case send before coming to the check-point-

My wife isn't anti enema she just doesn't understand how it can be enjoyable. I enjoy my solo pleasure when she is gone for a couple of hours, and I've stored my equipment in the corners of the closet. She probably knows what is in the bag but doesn't question me. I also purchased a couple Tiny-Kit douche kits to use when traveling, there very small and fit in a shaving kit. Just the ticket when traveling solo and the mood strikes.

I'm with enemalover1950; I am still way in the closet with this and solo only when I travel and have a hotel room to myself. Other than that I try to keep this well hidden. Gets lonely sometimes.

Its great when traveling. New room, new bathroom.

I have lived in the "Bible Belt" all of my life. When I was a child 1940-50s every house I entered had an Enema outfit hanging either under a towel or bathrobe in the room which housed the chamber pot. All of the adult women talked openly about Enemas and Douches. All of the children were given Enemas. There were very few doctors and those that were in practice often recommended that Enemas and Douches be used for certain ailments. While I was unaware of sex during most of that time, in retrospect there were too many Enemas and Douches being used for them to have been entirely for medicinal purposes. All of those children area Senior Adults now and their children were probably given at least some Enemas growing up. Most everyone was given a spring tonic and an Enema. Perhaps, armed with this knowledge you could find some way to address the subject in mixed company...Jimbeaux

Solo enemas....

while it's a different experience that "having it done for you" (to you) is still a good way to get exactly what you want, without pressure of "performance" from the other "enemate".

I own a sailboat that is my "home away from home", it has a kingsize bed to kick back on, and a small bath.

I have a gallon clear silicon bag, 12 feet of clear silicon hose, and lately, one of those new 1 and 3/4" glass nozzles, the long hose, so that I can walk all around the cabin while retaining the enema.

I love the physical feeling of an enema, so I start with inserting one of those two inch long tapered glycerine suppositories as far up into my ass as possible, then enjoy the sensation as the "urgency" to evacuate and expel mounts. Next I fill my 16 ounce glass enema syringe with pure mineral oil that has been heated to 103 degrees in the microwave, and with a small 12 " colon tube attached to the syringe, force the mineral oil into my rectum and up into my colon. then enjoy the urgency to expel the enema.

Then, the real enema begins and after the mineral oil enema has gotten rid of most of the solid matter, I settle down to enjoy several 2 quart or more enemas until I look and feel "pregnant",and finally feel refreshed, cleansed, sensually ....and after masturbating while filled with the last enema, sexually relieved, Allison

About "wishing" your mate would "enjoy" enemas as you do.....

I have a sailing partner that is an RN male nurse, he has a very laid back Asian wife that didn't seem to get anything from an enema, I suggested that they let me give them a mutual enema experience where neither of them had to do anything but lay back and "enjoy it.

After sailing together on San Diego bay on a sunny day, I had them get naked together, (I as well), and I gave them both a warm, soothing enema, as they laid side by side. After I started his enema, I masturbated him slowly to a climax, his wife "got in heat' watching him. I then gave her a very slow enema, massaging her belly and lower abdoman, then into her pubic hair, and groin, and finaly her clit, and brought her to a nice long orgasm.

The two now finally enjoy giving sensual enemas to each other, and have given me many thanks. Of course I loved and enjoyed doing it for (to ) them

On getting your mate involved in enemas......A guy wrote me that his wife wouldn't be willing give him an enema, but that she would (and does ) put on a "strap-on" on occassion and loved to "fuck him" in the ass. This may be confusing as to why one and not the other, especialy if both give her mate pleasure, sexual pleasure. I think the strap-on, fucking her mate is a power thing, and a role reversal thing. But if she only knew how much more devotion her male mate would give her if she would "do" both to (for ) him their sex (and enema ) life would be greatly enhanced.

Question, why wouldn't she prefer to give him an enema before fucking him with the strap-on, and then she would have a nice clean ass to "do it" to.....

I agree with and like Switchablesusie's idea of showing the ultimate respect to a spouse or partner by storing the equipment in my own closet, in my own bathroom. In fact, I believe it will add to the intrigue. For now, he will know I am preparing myself "for him" and then possibly he will want to participate in the preparation. Then it will be "for me". That gentle approach has worked with other activities.

Hey, i agree with analison's question in that the dude with the wife who likes to use a strap-on for him, why not a clean ass with an enema?

answer, well, ever thought that maybe the dude's wife likes to fuck him whichever way his ass is? she's a keeper. she really must dig his ass, pardon the pun, and probably into some sort of powertrip over the guy. she definitely wears the pants in that relationship and loves to drive.

Yes, your right, I really think it's "a power trip" or maybe a chance to really "get after it" .

I had a woman partner a few years ago that just liked to lay back and "take" very conventional sex. I brought a strap on into the bedroom one day, and begged her to satisfy my desire to be fucked analy, she seemed to get "in heat" quickly as I told her she would be "standing" up next to the bed, behind me, and I would be bending over the bed for her to pull my buns apart with her hands (free) and "take me" .....she pulled the strap belt tight, entered my anus and slammed into my egarly waiting rectum, she continued to fuck me athleticaly until I could't take any more.

My anal rosebud and rectum was sore for a week, I did love the experience, but that was it, we never did it again, although we both continued to "touch" each other analy when massageing each other before sex.

ALLISON

I agree with hiding the equipment. Finding the time is a good trick. I usually wait for her to leave for work or go to a show with her girlfriends.

I too anticipate my partner leaving for the day so I can induldge in my pleasure. Not sure if he would take it ok or not. I tried last night while he was home and got to the toilet before he entered the room. I think he was trying to catch me. Ooooo, maybe a spanking - i'll have to let him catch me next time.

I'm another one on this forum who, for now, has to enjoy my enema fantasy solo.

Before I married my wife, we talked about my strong desire for enemas, and I let her know how sexually stimulating they were for me. I was the one who brought it up because I didn't want to spring it on her AFTER we married and have her simply say NO, it wasn't her thing. I figured if I brought it up before-hand, then I could decide how I wanted to handle the relationship from there if she said NO or thought I was really weird.

Surprisingly, she said it was fine with her and didn't have a problem with it. Since we were having sex before we married, I probably should have brought up the enema issue a few more times to see how she handled it. It wasn't until we had been married for some time that she indulged me with my fantasy and it was terrific, but I had to ask for it. We even enjoyed a hot sexual session in the middle of it. I was on my stomach on the floor with my legs spread apart, and she was sitting behind me, sliding the nozzle in and out of my very receptive anus while administering a nice warm soapy enema.

Ultimately, she laid back with her legs in the knee to chest position and I moved back, entering her while still on my stomach. In this position, she was still able to move the nozzle in and out of my butt while I was slowly moving up and down on her. My orgasm was explosive, to say the least.

I guess we did this routine maybe 2 or 3 times after that. Unfortunately, we've been married now for 25 years, and her interest in pleasuring me with enemas any more has become non-existent, even when I hint around that I sure would like one. She's never wanted me to give her one, even though I've suggested it a number of times.

Sadly, I'm strictly solo now. I still enjoy enemas immensely, and like to play around with all kinds of different positions and solutions, but it sure would be a lot more fun to share my "fantasies" with someone who enjoyed them as much as I. Seems like our "marriage contract" kind of got changed over the years. Very frustrating.

My new cannister stays hidden in my closet behind my shoes, and the rest of the enema equipment is in my bottom dresser drawer. My wife knows where the latter is, but I still must pleasure mysef solo. Pretty frustrating, since she said she was fine with it BEFORE we got married.

I share the hiding equipment and going solo, the men that have enema wifes are so lucky, wish i was one of them, i would never turn my woman down for a good clean out, getting or giving