New experience with enemas

I just began experiencing my wife participating in anal play with me, and its unbelievable 😁! We started with prostate massage, but since I was concerned with what we would inevitably run into, I suggested an enema. To my amazing surprise, she was all in! The next thing is...a strap on? I haven't broached that topic yet, does anyone have experience with this and any tips before I delve into this?

My wife and I visited an adult toy store together and each of us pointed out things that looked like fun. My wife knew I liked a prostate massage so it wasn't any surprise when I pointed out several plugs and a strap-on. She liked the strap-on idea a lot and we used to do it often.

We also had naughty stocking stuffers one Christmas. If you guys did that, you could put a strap-on in her stocking.

You'll love taking strap-on from her, hopefully she will enjoy it enough to indulge you with a satisfactory frequency.

I thoroughly delight in my wife strapping on and taking me on my back so I can wrap my legs around her waist as she thrusts in and out of me; unfortunately, it doesn't do much for her so I don't get it more than once a year or so.

Good luck!

Anal is anal, if you enjoy prostate message than why not she will probably be bored so you need to help her out to as well as she is pleasing you 😉

I got my wife into the strap on thing as a pay back i was a little to rough one night and she had a strap on that i did'nt know about next thing i no i'm on the receiving end. i learned not to be so rough in the future and she learned it can be a pleasure for me

Just make sure you go slow and use lots of lube

Go for the strap on!! My hubby loves it. I get quite a thrill from returning the favor of giving. It can be awkward at first, but the reward is worth it!!! 😄

Anal play can be very exciting for both partners. My wife knows I like it and does it on me,sometimes with a latex glove(which I LOVE)for the prostate "exam".At times she will have me finger myself as she watches with her vibrator in place...ususlly gives her a slammin' orgasm. Great times! Hopefully this will lead to doing more and "the enema"!!

When i had my submissive Gf try it for the frist time she was amazed at the feeling of power it gave her. We did it in the bedroom in fornt of a mirror and she watched herself thrusting into me which got her hot. Go for it and have fun. She will enjoy it and so will you. As a strong dominant male I find that showing my vulnerable side to my Gf has helped her get closer to me.

Sounds like a great experience cooch. Sometimes I tire of the male role society thrusts on us, and wish I could be physically dominated by a female. There is a site called men in pain and I would love to be one of the subjects.

Just prepare your ass well, cause it will hurt at least the first time

Yes diana it did hurt the first few times but am finally relaxed enough to enjoy it. Of course she added enemas to prep me and that was wonderful as well. For a strong dom giving up control on occasion is wonderful.

Hey rickp47

good for you start with a good dvd like (bend over boyfriend )

if she's okay with enemas you should have no problem getting her into strap ons

Hi y'all forgive me for been slightly off the topic here but, I have just got to share this experience with you all. Have any of you ever tried using marshmallows as a medium for enemas? Strange as it may seem, they do work but, maybe not as well as the types that you are all used to.

If you have not heard of this method and wish to try then this is how it is done. Simply purchase a packet of square or round marshmallows. Place about eight or ten of them in the freezer for ten minutes to harding them up slightly. Then lube them and your anus up with whatever lube you use, pop them one by one into your ass and wait for the bang!!

Just remember: no two enemas are ever EXACTLY alike.

Before heading straight to the strap on and potential gender bending, you might want to consider some open and honest discussions with your wife first. This will ease the way for the more relevant and significant talks later on. I might also suggest a vibrator or small dildo or some such as a pre-cursor to the strap-on. She might like to try it too. Can't hurt to ask.

When I discovered enemas not that long ago, my thoughts soon turned to my wife.

i think i had a progression of fantasy scenarios in order of most favorable to least favorable

1) I tell her, only to find out she already has an enema fetish

2) I tell her and she agrees to try

3) I tell her and she is reluctant to try

4) i tell her and she refuses to try

5) I don't tell her and keep it hidden

6) i tell her and she thinks I'm a pervert

7) I don't tell her but she finds out and REALLY thinks I'm a pervert

Right now I think I'm between 3 and 4 which isn't so bad

I think there may be a similar scale when talking about strap ons - but at least with strap ons there is the ability to work into it gradually - by first requesting fingers or toys. The closer you get to dildos and strap ons, the more risk you have of triggering some homophobic reaction from your S.O. Or you may land on 1) and she has been dying to take a shot at your ass all along 😃

Right now my wife is open to toys (sometimes more than others) but we haven't touched on the subject of strap-ons yet. Last week I bought some instructional DVD's on anal sex for women and one on anal sex for men. I bought a 3rd DVD that was high quality with a romance plot. I also bought her a nice vibrating butt plug. I gave the package to her as a naughty birthday gift. (don't worry, I bought her a card and some vanilla gifts too).

We haven't watched either of the instructional videos yet - or tried the butt plug, but the text on the back cover mentions enemas on both DVD's and on the anal for men DVD it mentions strap ons and includes videos.

I'm hoping we watch at least one of them this weekend 😃

ImDoug ^^^ Thoughtful & considerate of you...as is post...guess I wouldn't expect anything less of one who explores alternatives & weighs options in a lighthearted insightful manner--often drawing a smile...Kudos & K+