Anal play and learning about it

Is anybody here in to butt plugs and anal fisting?

Can you explain to me what it is that is so popular with it?

I have a book I reconmend it is "The ultimate guide to anal sex for men" by Bill Brent. Its well worth a reading it does help a bit with my question. And here is another book to read too. Facts and phallus-es (hard facts that stand up for themselves by Alexandra Parsons. Both are very good and interesting to read.

I'm not sure about the anal fisting thing but a finger.. plug is a great stimulus for the erogenous zone.

Gynoslave,

With great joy and pleasure,I do indeed use butt plugs and other assorted anal insertables. The popularity stems from the known fact that the rectum is an extremely sensitive area and very intensely populated with nerve endings. For those who are anally oriented in terms of sexual gratification, stimulation of these nerve endings results in extremely intense sexual arousal. As to anal fisting, there are those that believe that insertion of a much larger object into the rectum, in this instance , a fist, is highly arousing. I myself, do not do that, for me the insertion of something that fits the normal diameter of my rectum comfortably without stretching it beyond natural dilation is quite sufficient, leaving lots of leeway for variety 😃 The only time that I have engaged in fisting has been vaginally with women who enjoyed it. The vagina, also rich in nerve endings, is more well suited to this activity due to the simple expedient that it is designed to expand in order to allow the passage of the head and shoulders of a newborn. here are people that become highly aroused when the nerve endings in the vagina feel the repeated insertion and withdrawal of a large object, again, in this instance , a fist. I hope you find this information useful, if not, feel free to set it aside.

Sincerely,G.N. 😃

I'm a big fan of having a butt plug in while masturbating due to the prostate stimulation. I convinced my girlfriend (now ex) to put a catheter in me, give me an enema and then fuck me with a strap on but we didn't get a chance to do it before we broke up 😢

Feels amazing to cum with a plug in.

My bf luvs my fingers rather than plug inside him!!!

Golly! How did I miss this thread? I must have been in a coma, because this is right up my alley (pun intended!). I've posted to similar threads before but not to this one.

Both my partner and I are anal-erotic which I love. He's into all kinds of anal stimulation, from a slim enema nozzle, to butt plugs, anal beads, the Feeldoe (our best friend) and everything in between. I have never fisted him, although if he asked me to, I would happily have a go at it. He simply has never asked. I think what we both like the best though, is my finger, gloved and lubed, inside his bottom. Sometimes simple really is the best!

Play On!

LadyDoc

Anal play is great fun and feels great. The secret is to use a lot of lube and take it slowly, start of small and get gradually larger. You can get sets of dilators which are great to play with and work up the size. If you're trying digital anal stimulation latex gloves and a lot of lube are good to make entry a little bit easier.

My partner and I have been into anal play for a while now we started off with digital penetration and now have a range of plugs, the largest of which has a 2.5inch diameter, and I am trying to get him up to 3inches, we have also tried anal fisting, he can't quite take it just yet but he's keen to work on it and so am I 😜

Wile I am generally in control of my "scenes", I have always wondered what it would be like to be the "bottom" and be played with anally. My on-line friends have dabbled with this (with me), but I am more and more interested in learining.... some day....

I really enjoyed anal play. Butt plugs, vibrating butt plugs, all felt great.

As a prostate cancer survivor I no long have a prostate and anal play lacks all of the sensations I used to have.

I miss it.

I always insert a butt plug when I am giving myself an enema, it gives me a little more confidence walking around when full.

I also like a butt while holding an enema. I tops off the sensation and makes holding it easier. Also like a butt plug to loosen up before an enema

I like the feeling of the plug stretching me open. I also like them because it makes my pussy tighter when fucking it.

Is there anal play that isn't kinky? That being said, I admit I enjoy the sensation of fingers and plugs going into my anus and rectum. It increases my arousal adds to my orgasm.

@medfet.beginner - same question as I am just starting out, if you have any suggestions, please let me know.

Independent anal sex being practiced between a man and a woman, between two women or between two men:

1. if the act is traumatic, with little lubrication, may develop lesions in the skin of the anus or penis (or finger), with internal bleeding and bruising;

2. the anus presents components of the bacterial flora responsible for decomposing food in the large intestine and rectum. In the lesions mentioned above, there could be contamination of these microorganisms by whom behaves as active (is penetrating);

3. the active man is a carrier of HIV or any STD causative certainly contaminate him / her partner / in the moment of ejaculation, if not using a condom and ejaculate inside;

4. the passive (being penetrated) is a carrier of disease, surely contaminate the assets for possible damage unprotected penis for not wearing a condom;

5. one should never switch to vaginal and anal penetration. You should use condoms and change it every practice.

A butt plugis usefull for stretching out the anus to prepare it for sex or toys.