Walt.
I have been doing solo enemas for over 50 years. Doctor
Quacks say that I'M clinically depressed and at times I might
be. When those times occur nothing works for me like a
3H enema or a home colonic. I never lost a wife to death
but I did loose one to desertion and spent many nights with
my amber latex bag. I sure do miss that bag! It was my
best friend on many lonely nights.
Most of those lonely nights have gone. I have had some of
them when I was working on the west coast alone. I had several
such nights but a nice warm enema usually took care of them. Now, since I have retired, my second wife of 35 years, and I are
still having fun. However, she is an RN who deplores enemas but
allows me to take care of my personal needs solo.
Like Susie said, she would still take her enemas and enjoy life
even if her husband were gone. I would do the same. No one can
take your memories of your wife away but they were meant to be
remembered and enjoyed. Enemas are only one of the great
trappings of life but they can not make you happy. Only you
can do that.