Mash, I'd have to agree with you. My wife and I, even during the toughest times, when we're on the same page - we've been through so much, I tend to think there's nobody better. Like you said, it just feels right. I do wish though that I'd known about my own interest in this "fetish" while dating the gymnast...might have given myself a bit more time with her.
Back to my wife...she's been convinced that because I snore, I must have sleep apnea. No, I have horrible sinuses. But she and I had made a pact that if things did not get better (this back in the Spring) that we would have to make some critical choices, including her leaving me because I would not go and get tested for it.
I still am not getting tested for it. Why, you ask? Because I believe that I've solved the problem...at least on nights when I'm not too wound up to sleep.
I bought one of those snore reducing pillows...and while it doesn't cut it all out, it reduces the noise enough that she can sleep without earplugs (I know I'm loud, woke myself up once), and I get to sleep for four -five hours face mask free. I watched my father die with one of those bipap masks attached to his face, and I simply am not gonna wear one. Point one, we don't have the insurance, or money to cover it. It may eventually be the end of our marriage, but for now the pillow is doing the job and we're both pretty happy with the situation!
So, when great minds think alike, good can come out of it, is my point. Which is why I know we're good for each other. But like I said, damn, just thinking about being the patient of this former gymnast can get me fired up....and I hate that I never knew - possibly - what it was to be examined by her,or to make love to her, for as brazen as that is!